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In the Name of God بسم الله


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  1. I never claimed to have mastered theology. What I said, Mr. Ibn Al-Ja'abi, is that during my 3 months of study is that I have picked up disturbing trends. and let me apprise you of something when I study history or religion or philosophy or etc etc infact I have studied many things in my short existence, I read from within and without, because I learnt the hard way never trust people to teach you, always read and interpret issues myself, no matter what and no matter what the cost. That said, I am off my game. My country heads to historic democratic elections in 60 days and for the first time s
  2. During these 3 months I have been studying Shia Islam, something that has always bothered me about Islam has turned into a permanent skepticism coupled with certain psychological and personality traits I have encountered on this chat site. It's how Arab nationalism is directly and subliminally promoted in the Qu'ran and the doctrines, thought and spirituality of Shi'ism. I realised it begins with the word "Allah" and note Im only referring to the word and not what the word represents because the word itself represents a concept. I was chatting with a Berber from Algeria (Kabyle) right here in
  3. I think the way you raise your child determines what kind of human being they will be irrespective of gender. There are certain characteristics which ofcourse both genders cannot escape but ultimately it comes down the essence of that human being. If you raise it in the most non-progressive manner then that is exactly what you will see as an adult, an adult that is not progressive. Today in my country, I saw a women, dressed in traditional African women clothing of doek (covers her entire hair), long African skirt she looked like one of those traditional African housewives and she was driving
  4. Thats what I love about a country such as mine that creates the rule of law that supersedes all laws even religious laws if they discriminate against women. Such ambiguities in inheritance have a long history in my country from a cultural perspective and a religious perspective. But our Constitution adopted in 1996 states that the rule of law in South Africa is the only law and any law that violates against it is simply unconstitutional and void. That includes such ambiguities in Sharia law. I love Shia Islam, I believe in the primacy of Islam but where laws, based in the Holy Qu'ran or the Ha
  5. That is a very weird story. You would so swear that you two got married right after you met each other. It seems like you only getting to know each other now. and were you a Muslim when you got married? Like Sunni? Or what? there are too many gaps in what you have shared but this sounds like one of those hollywood marriages where two people get married after meeting on set after a month or so. Very humourous.
  6. Oh swimming pools. We don’t use "public baths" in South Africa. its swimming pool/s public or private. I didnt know that in certain locations people actually see each other naked at swimming pools. I thought they dressed up in swimming trunks and swimming stuff for women. I didnt know they skinny dipped. thats only done in private swimming pools usually when there are hot girls around and some champagne to get the ladies to loosen up a bit.
  7. Apologies sister! As a woman, dearest sister, my views do not change. I don’t know where you are from but I would still advise you to know yourself since if anything goes wrong as a woman you are at a more disadvantage but if you are "brooding" as in your female biological instinct to procreate and bear human life has kicked in then nothing and no one will persuade you otherwise. Nothing ever gets in the way of nature. All I can say then is God bless you and goodluck.
  8. Me thinks some people are stuck in the stone age and somehow they need to be dragged into a portal that transports them into 2019 where even long before 2019 women are already leading pioneers in a whole lot of causes that advance progress. Funnily, I was watching a documentary on this in India and China, apparently a generation of females was aborted, as in literally aborted. So now the men of this generation are willing to date and marry females as young as 15 because women in their generation have been aborted. I think though thats in Hindu India. and China in some places. I think though, w
  9. "Public Baths"? What the hell does that even mean? Forgive me "guest", Im very ignorant of the term "public bath" because it doesnt exist in my geographical location. If you could further provide more insight into this "public bath" where apparently it would seem that being "naked" is normal. Im perplexed.
  10. "Thuglife" I assume you took your AKA from 2PAC AMARU SHAKUR. You don’t think like him at all. in fact to look at people and just assume because of their religion they are going to burn in hell is exactly what will get you a scholarship to go study for a Doctorate in a Wahhabi madrassa. You are a man in desperate need of enlightenment.
  11. Salaam Brothers, @ Bowtie and @ Sumerian you guys are not each others enemies. Neither is Iraq and Lebanon enemies. don’t make fun of each others different nationalities. I think based on ample evidence far too many people have suffered and died in both countries and continue to do so. I"'ve noticed a certain truth about "Bowtie", brother can be so undiplomatic in his thinking and logic that it stings, actually hurts but but but but but..... you can’t fault his pure logic and extreme rational thinking no matter how it stings. I think brother "Bowtie" has spent far too much time and energy argu

  13. I don’t undestand why people on this chat site at times like to share their disgusting habits and the consequences of their disgusting habits. I mean T.M.I., TOO MUCH INFORMATION! Goodness me, I thought my continent of "heathens" was bad enough but really some people take way too much advantage of being anonymous on this chat site. I mean goodness, some of us actually like to nibble on snacks while we are checking out what is hopefully intellectual discussions. I mean for God's sake, there are actually women on this site. Id hope atleast your "Islamic values" would make you respect the fact th
  14. This is the white man. This is what he does!
  15. Y You sound like a graduate of a Masters in Arts or something like that. Funny thing, hip hop music didnt start like that. It started as the voice of the ghetto even though "gangsta hip hop" like Snoop Dogg in his original days was not kind to women but it was not what it became today. Hip hop got hijacked by those Jews on corporate music labels. They all Jews amazing fact. Men like Jimmy Iovine and Lyor Cohen (an Israeli), all Jews who sell this garbage and keep most of the profits to themselves. it doesnt sound like Atheistic Satanism, it is Atheistic Satanism. rapping about killing
  16. I like Sufism because the day I understand it, I will be able to withdraw into myself without going crazy or having a psychological break down because South Africa is not a country where you can easily withdraw into yourself. Churches are social institutions and those who don’t like religion, tend to have social institutions of alcohol and the "good time". Both I have distanced myself from. Maybe brother it is the Sufi of Iran you don’t like, I don’t know how well travelled you are but I have never been out of Africa, much less South Africa. There are Sufi's in Cape Town, I forgot their Arabic
  17. Alright I watched that video in that old post. Some cultures do take their deviations from orthodoxy way way to the extreme. In fact I doubt they even engage intellectually with Islam. I was just impressed with the Sufi influence on the Indonesian Muslims. Its far better than Wahhabism which envelopes people's minds from across the world. Rather people within their set islands and jungles practice their deviations because those deviations will never leave their little islands or jungles. But instill orthodoxy, Sunni orthodoxy is Wahhabism of some sort. In fact I can’t tell the difference betwe
  18. Check out the subliminal messages from hip hop music in America beamed live right into the minds of Negroes in South Africa: wasting money in clubs and I mean blowing thousands in American styled hip hop clubs, buying expensive booze like Ciroc and Bellvedeure and Moet etc etc you get the picture right African girls, well some, a whole lot of some girls especially from uneducated backgrounds look down on their own natural African hair so they buy weaves and make themselves up to look like the kardashians and Beyonce Rihaana blah blah etc etc you get the picture guys will, lik
  19. There is a danger you will develop a mental disorder, most probably borderline personality disorder or something along those lines. You need to attend therapy because one way or the other you will start exhibiting Post-Traumatic Stress disorder much much later on in life and this will impact on your own family you have created. Emotional wounds are dangerous especially from parents. They have a stubbornly long term effect that just refuses to go away.
  20. Your words give me a psychological insight into your character especially when comparing all previous posts from memory. you are hiding what I sense is for some reason complete or partial disgust of women. especially of Muslim women since I sense you are disappointed that none of them live up to actual "Islamic values" or what your standards are simply too high and unrealistic. I will tell you again, there is no such reality as a perfect human being. I have no issue with infallibility and perfection of Ahl-Bayt because they're dead anyway. some are in occultation and that concept doesnt make a
  21. You keep repeating that. This must be the tenth time. Fiction or not, I get it, you write fiction and all of that. Creative and all of that I get it, my older sister does the same and me and her are very very different. She is an outgoing creative bubbly personality, Im introverted more into books. I get it. But you keep repeating the same sentences. You'll find women like that, in Saudi Arabia hey maybe in Iran, even in your homeland of Pakistan women are raised to be like those illusory characters. Lowering their eyes in extreme vulnerability to the power of men and the tragedies that are in
  22. Thats a good question, it took me a while coz I had to think but then I realised there is no antidote unless the capitalist order that rules our world is completely overthrown. These freaks serve them from New York, Washington to London. these freaks serve the Anglo-American Empire. They created them. Everything they do serves them. Everytime they blow up or kill an American or a few Americans or more it fools ignorant Americans in believing the lies their own media [edited] have created about Islam and the world and then the military industrial complex can choose where to test their new weapo
  23. Remind them of Guantanamo Bay, where countless men such as El-IBRAHIMI were arrested and detained at that facility just on suspicion of being terrorists or having connections to terror. in the end, this man like countless men were completely innocent. Its called "extraordinary rendition", where the CIA can snatch you anywhere in the world just on the suspicion of having ties to any FBI listed terror groups. mind you these terror groups always benefit from American aid. anyway you get snatched, are denied complete legal representation and kept in solitary confinement for as long as they wish. S
  24. I think your love of jinns and houris is compensation for what you have missed out on Earth as a consequence of the extreme difficulties you have gone through since childhood. If you actually think about it, the concept of pure and perfect love your imagination has created (with encouragement from the Holy Qu'ran) is what you have never had on Earth. You should be looking for such possibilities right here right now on this planet instead of focusing on the pleasures of the here-after in Paradise. We don’t live to worry too much about the here-after especially when we try to live by religious p
  25. You want to enhance the torture of not getting any from "your wife"? Or make the wait more pleasurable? Make it more anticipating the day they tear each others clothes off? Coz the dad refuses because he KNOWS. That dad knows, he has been there and done it. and no way will he allow his daughter to give it up for Mutah Oh hell no
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