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  1. Thank you for the guidance. I am unable to accept that my daughters will be living with another man who their mother marries, in case if i agree for khula.. i dont know how would i be.
  2. Thank you. I am fulfilling the duties to second wife and child too, Inshallah I will follow only the islamic way... feeling a bit sigh of relief
  3. Thank you very much for your input... I know i didnt given thought to the repurcussions, I might have lost the track due to chain of various petty reasons with my first wife, having said that I am not putting any blame on her, it was my ignorance and stupidity and i am repenting for my actions. Inshallah I will stand firm with what Allah says in this. Thank you very much for your guidance... Please you too remember me in your duas.
  4. I am visiting her every 3 months, supporting her financially and emotionally .. my fourth child is no different than my other 3. I plan to bring them here so that they will have continuous support as usual inshallah.
  5. Alhamdulillah I am supporting them financially as much as possible.. I will have sabr, i left everything on Allah .. i cannot reverse my mistake.
  6. they are not listening to anyone, let alone aalim i don't think they are considering sharia too... yes i am supporting them financially and seeing my kids every saturday alhamdulillah
  7. السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته i need the most, please pray for my family ... I want my wife to comeback home with my kids and get her free from her 3 brothers. jazakallah
  8. Assalam alaikum, Seeking the guidance from you guys, it’s a matter of my 3 young kids (boy 15 - girl 12 - girl -9). Obviously I love my wife ... I made a blunder made a mistake that cannot be undone and I think I have already paid heavy price for it... I did Mu’tah with a Muslim woman, had a child out of it who is 2 years old now... and I am in contact with her once in a year... it was two years ago, my wife came to know about it and left the home since then I am living alone ... my wife lives in his cousin home, I have done everything she demanded, sell the home and gave her maximum money, paying expenses for children every month... she was melting a bit as I continuously pleasing her .. she hasn’t ceased having conjugal relationship... she too loves me and was understanding that my mistake was big but she is ready to move back to me, but the problem is her brother who are not letting her come back to me as they are demanding to bring my second wife and in front of them I should give talaq saying that she was my mistake... for which I do not want to do, I cannot humiliate a woman. now her brothers threatened me that my wife would take a qula if I don’t do that... how can she take qula when she was having physical and loving relationship with me? What are the basis that she can get qula? I was providing her with home and other necessities and more over requesting her to comeback home so that I can talk to my second wife and settle things... what do I do? I’m in a very complicated situation... I love my kids and my wife very much and do not want to loose them.. on other hand I have responsibility of my other wife and child... can I let marja to contact her brothers and convince if I’m on haq. your help and advise would be appreciated and inshallah will dua for you in Karbala as I will be doing arbayeen there. p.s: I live in Australia and my other wife live in India along with the child.
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