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  1. I come from a Sunni family, i am Shia now... And have always been told that the finger pointing during prayer was to point out that God is one. Not to point where God is... But His Oneness.
  2. W. Salam Read Ziyarah of Ashura for 40 days it brings miracles. Inshallah And don't you have any common friend? Try to talk to your husband through his social media accounts... Or create a fake account, try calling him from a different number. You seem so hopeful to mend your relationship. Inshallah he will come around as well. It is very sad what his family is doing. Now a days people are very religious but yet not afraid of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى)... Lack of fear of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) makes people do horrible things... And they don't even realize they a
  3. @rkazmi33 i understand what you mean. I don't have friends. I've got my family though. . Alhamdullillah and thats all. I've got no social life... And its awkward. Who doesn't have friends, right?? Anyway i've suffered alot about wanting to know more people,making good friends, having good relationships, being normal...mending broken relationships.. Connecting with extended family members.. Cousins.. A whole lot of relations are missing from my life. Someone told me that the more you grow up the harder it is to connect and trust people. And that is so true. And Ima
  4. Alsalam Alaikum, You can not pray for someone who is alive. And if you are feeling guilty than don't worry Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) will forgive you Inshallah. No soul can take the burden of another. You just try and convince your friend to do his Qadaa.... But thats all you can do. You said you didn't know whatever it was. So you didn't do it on purpose. Or donate some money if you have any. Giving charity always helps with everything.
  5. I need a civil and an islamic divorce. My marriage is registered and to get divorce i need both divorces. My family is Sunni and i could get a shiaria law divorce but will still need to get civil one. It was an arrange marriage, my husband has mental health issues. I only got to know him after we started talking after our nikah... So it can not work. Even now its been so many years we haven't talked but he doesn't care... His parents are doing everything.. Or rather nothing. They have made it an ego issue. It's all messed up. And i have read some articles on pk websites that if i ha
  6. Alsalam alaikum I need to know if a woman who has right to divorce her husband on Nikah Nama, can get divorce without going to court? I am despairing... I have no one who can help me.. Patience has become very very hard.. Being patient since 3 years. But keep doing so to not make my father mad/angry at me. I have separated from my husband from 3 years but they refuse to divorce. My father doesn't want to go to court because i was married to my cousin and its family so... And plus he thinks it takes years and years to get divorce in Pakistan and my husbands father is a lawyer h
  7. Alsalam alaikum I really wish well and health to everyone who claims to have the coronavirus... Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) knows if they are lying or telling the truth. I am just using common sense, not blaming anyone but I find it really really weird that all the famous people who claim to have tested positive get well eventually. Like all of them. It's not like I want them to die but this is a killer virus... And healthy young people have died of it. But from Canadian prime minister's wife to Tom Hanks and his wife... They are fine now...so..uk health minister Nadine D
  8. Pirs and people who have analysed our situation say that its jinn possession... Bandish and black magic. But I refuse to go that far. From what I have experienced and are still going through its a very strong and bad evil eye... I think. Because I haven't yet encountered a very reliable sheikh or Pir. It could be that some relatives did black magic which turned into jinn possession if it makes sense. Anyway this evil eye takes good things away.. But things are going a bit better since I became Shia. But still for the long run there isn't much difference. So if you know any sheikh or you yourse
  9. Just tell him that Imam Hassan A. S. and Imam Hussain A. S. are the leader of paradise so he should think better before talking. Even Umar and Abu Bakr can not enter paradise without their permission. Also arguing with some people is like banging your head against the wall....because they are blindfolded by what they believe in. Also everyone eventually is going to die... Just tell him to wait and watch... Once he dies he will get to know the truth about everything and everyone 's value and status. Its not your fault if he' s got a hate page insulting Shia faith. Don't feel guilty a
  10. I pray that your friends gets free fromall these evil things Inshallah. My family is going through same issues. Is there a way to break away from evil eye? Do we need Sheikhs or Peers to do that as well or are there any kind of prayers or duas to do that. People who put evil eye probably want us to die and are sworn enemies so can't reach them to take back the evil eye.
  11. Inna lilla he wa inna alehi rajeoon Can't even tell you to be strong, because you will have to keep this pain inside of you as long as you live. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) give you sabr. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) give her a high rank in Jannat. Ameen sum Ameen
  12. Alsalam Alaikum So my brother has a Syrian friend who is happy for Soleimani 's death. Astaghfirullah. He believes him to be a terrorist. So this Syrian told my brother that Soleimani killed a lot of innocent people in Syria thats why he is a terrorist and that Syrian president is friendly with Ayatollah Khomeini and thats how Iran is involved in the killings of Syria's innocent people. I know this is all a propoganda against Iran... But can someone give me facts and help me get to the truth so I can explain it to my brother that Iran is not guilty. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ ت
  13. W. Salam Do you have anxiety? What you feel and what you are going through is normal. Have you talked to your parents about your OCD? If it's been quite a long time for you having these thoughts maybe you should talk to your parents about it. You are so young, its very important that you get proper help for this condition. Wanting to ask for forgiveness after having bad thoughts or after having done something wrong is a very good thing. Whenever you get these thoughts it is very important that you think that its okay... Its not the end of the world and these thoughts do not ma
  14. Asalam Alaikum I've always been envious of how much my mum loves my elder sister. Everyone in our family knows that mum loves her dearly. Recently I was fine with it but from a couple of days im feeling really jealous and I am noticing every little thing my mum does for my sister. If we give money to our mum she spends them on her and she mentioned that we should give her more money for her use... And I know she's going to spend them all on my sister. It's foolish and stupid... I work and earn, I don't need my parents money or attention, I have been through so much but I just can not ove
  15. Alsalam Alaikum Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) in Qur'an says that he gives gives a long time to sinners to do what they want and can just to see how far they are willing to go.... But everyone will be held accountable of what they did. I believe that people who get punished in this world are lucky because it might release them from the distress of Akhirat... But if one doesn't get time to repent or they don't get punishment for the injustice done in this world then they will get their own justice on the day of judgment. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) forgive us all. Alla
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