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In the Name of God بسم الله

Fatimaflow

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  1. Salam alaikom all, Thank you very much for all the reply . It's so hard and it's scary as well, in all my life I never knew people like those, I mean this husband and his friends. I think it's doesn't matter if the criminal is woman or man, it's about the thing itself. People using religion and feelings in dirty way. Issues like this destroying the religion as well, because somehow even me I connect it with the way of Islam what this man following. I also can't understand this feelingless, heartless people. My most big problem with this topic that I feel he took alot of things from me, I mean I will never be the same.
  2. Rahmallah waldiek, thank you very much. I will try to see what can I do about it. I wish Allah will let me see what's gonna happen to this person
  3. Salam 3alaikom all, I'm someone, totally destroyed and just want to share my story with you and also I have questions, maybe someone more smart than me can answer. I'm a Shia woman, with mixed background, live in UK. I met with someone sunni man, looks like very respected and serious person. I had terrible issues before and also I was like broken when my friends (I thought they were my friends) introduced me someone. We started to talk, meet, he moved like near to me to give chance to meet every day. After one month we went to masjid and made an Islamic marriage. As man and wife we moved in together. By March after I was made redundant, he had moved out (one presumes that because I was unemployed I no longer met the criteria to help him with his immigration status) . I now have to religiously divorce at financial cost. During this time he was trying to make me feel weak however his behaviour changed as soon as we married and he became very controlling and emotionally abusive also very much connected us emotionally and I began to uncover things about his real immigration status. It transpired that he was illegally in the UK and was using a fake Passport. I had married a fraudster and one who I suspect was targeting another women. When he realised that his plan to regularise his status in the UK was not going to work he left. In way I can't explain how painful it was. It happened some days ago but until now I have like nightmares, crying and even if I'm making myself busy during the day by searching for a job and fix my life, the nights are terrible. I'm not able to pray and eat almost nothing. My question is that is this marriage valid according to the sharia law? As far as I know since he even didn't give me my mahar and it was all lie and fake its not. The second that what Allah will do for this man? What is the punishment for breaking the heart and life for someone has no one in this country and who depended on her husband, loved and cared for him? What he will have? Thank you very much for reading this
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