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  1. 4 hours ago, Ron_Burgundy said:

    He gets like 5 hours to eat. 


    1 hour ago, realizm said:


    I looked at sweden timings, Maghreb 21:50 and Fajr 01:36.

    Very long but not impossible... I could not live there for such reasons though.

    Btw, timetable shows an imsak of 30 minutes, and 36 minutes between sunset and Maghreb... Quite long isn't it?

    I appreciate the reply, but I am looking more for rulings 

  2. My brother is living in sweden in a region place where the sun sets only for for a very short time

    According to the the calculator here : http://izhamburg.de/ (this is a shia center in Germany), his fast would be a bit more than/around  22 hours. which gies basically 1.50-2.00 hours to consume food.

    Can someone point to fatwas on this topic. 

    Thank you all very much

  3. 31 minutes ago, M666 said:

    I definitely don't want revenge. At first I thought maybe I should start contacting his family but now I am leaving it to Allah to serve justice. My revenge will be nothing compared to Allahs justice. Allah works in amazing ways.. I have 100% faith in that. His parents clearly have no sympathy for me. Me crying in front of them will not achieve anything. 

    Furthermore I have no time to argue with him. The more I do, the more time I waste. I am going to block him. Enough is enough.  

    Can you guys please keep in your prayers. I really need them right now. I want Allah to give me strength. Sorry guys I keep on asking you what to do when I get confused and upset. But I need someone with a rational approach rather than me acting in emotions.  

    He has left me in a very lonely state. I have no friends who I can trust and I don't want to keep on discussing it with my parents to make them upset 

    Why do you think you are in a lonely state? We are followers of Allah, AhlulBayt a.s and Imam Mehdi (a.s). Our belief is in presence and help of our Imam of our time. When Allah s.w.t has said in quran "وَلَقَدْ خَلَقْنَا الْإِنسَانَ وَنَعْلَمُ مَا تُوَسْوِسُ بِهِ نَفْسُهُ ۖ وَنَحْنُ أَقْرَبُ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ حَبْلِ الْوَرِيدِ - 50:16" And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him, and We are closer to him than [his] jugular vein"

    He is closer to us than our jugular vein and knows what our soul whispers to him, why do you feel alone then ? 


    also many sisters from this forum ( including yours truly) are with you, there is no need to feel lonely or lost. Trust in Allah, ask for a halal relationship ( ask your parents, aunts from mothers / dad's sides ) and I am 100% sure you will find a great partner. Live your life, but just keep doing two things (1 wajib prayer and 2 Ziyarat -e- ashura) and Imam Hussain a.s. has himself said he will take care of the person who reads ziyarat-e-ashura for 40 days.

  4. 5 minutes ago, M666 said:

    He keeps calling me on my Watsapp, so I answer, even though I don't want to buy it gets a little difficult sometimes . But I am thinking of blocking him in a few days once my dad talks to his dad. I don't want to be with him anymore. But I want his dad to call my dad and speak once and I say something too so I have my final words. 

    my opinion, which I posted earlier is, that neither you, nor your family can find true closure by talking to him, his parents or anyone in particular. You can find revenge, not closure nor justice. And seeking revenge should never be a part of us. We have the best example of  all our Imams for this. Only praying to Allah s.w.t can bring you closure and justice. As I PMed you, trust in Allah, and read ziyarat e ashura, everything will fall into place.  

    2 minutes ago, Sisterfatima1 said:

    Block him now delete his number delete his photos 

    look at what he did to you 

    a real man would not do that 

    100 % agreed to this. Block him, delete him, cut him off completely. You have to be strong and pray when weakness comes. You will find happiness and satisfaction at the end of this tunnel. 

  5. 6 minutes ago, Ashvazdanghe said:

    It’s highly advisedly Ahlulbaytbayt (as) I think it was from Imam Sadiq (as)  if we can participate in prayer & funeral & other religious practices beside Sunni bro&sis sis if it not cause harm for us.

    ofcourse, I am not against it, nor am I saying not to participate in it..but I would like to pray in the safety and away from "bad-looks" of others

  6. 1. Yes always think beforehand you bring kids into this world in any enviorment

    2. There are good / bad things in all environments, its upto parents to guide and inform their kids towards the right path and make them understand why things are good/bad. Good parenting trumps all environments and challenges

    3. We are believes of Al-e-muhammad s.w and Allah swt , so use knowledge and ilm to present your arguments and reasoning to kids instead of force and they will never try to rebel against logic and reasoning.  

  7. 11 minutes ago, Mishael said:

    Clearly you don't know history 1948 war Israel completely annihilated the Arab armies America didn't actually statrt providing military support for Israel until the 1970s. Arabs were also being backed by the Soviet Union during many of the wars. The Arabs have never really had their own super power moments even Iraq at Saddams time which Arabs claim was such a strong army got beat badly by the Iranian army plus it had support from almost every nation while Iran had Russia only and had just come out from a revolution. Numbers don't win a battle Israels strategy and also the incompetence of the Arabs armies won them the war. By the way who fights Hezbollah for the US who fights Bashar Al Assad on the behalf of the US Israel does you might say doesn't the US have a big enough army to do that themselves well yes but why get their hands dirty and let their reputation be ruined in the eyes of the world like in Iraq when Israel can do it for them and get the blame for it.

    Please read again..US and UK allowed jews and Holocaust survivors ( jews) to join Israel ...otherwise Israel wouldve getting beaten badly - 

    "During the 1948 War, around 10,000 Jews were forced to evacuate their homes from Arab dominated parts of former Mandatory Palestine.[226] But in the three years from May 1948 to the end of 1951, 700,000 Jews settled in Israel, mainly along the borders and in former Arab lands,[21] doubling the Jewish population there.[227] Of these, upwards of 300,000 arrived from Asian and North African nations.[228][229] Among them, the largest group (over 100,000) was from Iraq. The remaining came mostly from Europe, including 136,000 from the 250,000 displaced Jews of World War II living in refugee camps and urban centers in Germany, Austria, and Italy,[230]and more than 270,000 coming from Eastern Europe,[231] mainly Romania and Poland (over 100,000 each). On the establishment of the state, a top priority was given to a policy for the "ingathering of exiles", and the Mossad LeAliyah Bet gave key assistance to the Jewish Agency to organize immigrants from Europe and the Middle East, and arrange for their transport to Israel. For Ben-Gurion, a fundamental defect of the State was that 'it lacked Jews" 

    Israeli Forces 1948[173]
    Initial strength 29,677
    4 June 40,825
    17 July 63,586
    7 October 88,033
    28 October 92,275
    2 December 106,900
    23 December 107,652
    30 December 108,300
  8. I would pray at home...because I want to much rather pray openly, without fear, without judgement, without any issues and with peace of mind , where I can concentrate on Allah s.w.t and the sacrifice of Imam Hussain a.s , that he gave his head and family just so that I can bow before Allah and which allowed me to still practice this religion. end of.

  9. Just now, Mishael said:

    You forget America was not there during 1948 or six day war infact America didn't even establish close ties with Israel until the early 1970s. Israel vs the whole Arab league and Israel emerges the victor. US needs Israel who acts as the shield of the US in the Middle East. Israel develops its own technology such as the Iron dome aswell.

    "America was not there"....ofcourse it was..it had just been fighting the Nazis in the world war and was providing security to the jews running away from them...lol America has always funded, supported and helped Israel. Ofcourse not saying American doenst want  Israel..but its not because of Israel being the superpower ...instead its the opposite. The sheer number of forces Arab countries have, and the fact that its surrounded by muslim countries, if muslim countries wanted ( and they werent in bed with America in the back channel), Isreal wouldve had no chance to succeed. 

  10. 47 minutes ago, Mishael said:

    I believe Israel's countless victories against the Arab armies when the odds were always against them kind of proves they can survive on their own. The US constantly sucking up to Israel also shows the US needs Israel while Israel does not need the US. Does the US actually like Israel no since the West sucks up to people when opportunity can be found wheather in Saudi or Israel despite both countries that are allies of the US having completely different ruling styles and are not friends with each other.

    lol...Israel's countless victories...Israel doesnt need America...lol..The day, the day america even for a second backs out of supporting of Israel, it will no longer cease to exist. Israel is america's b----, every kid knows this.  

  11. Just my opinion below :

    I think for you to be a non-believer, you need to know what you dont believe in...i,e they got the message, but still choose to be a non-believer.

    If you never got the message ( this is another discussion that does everyone get the message in one way or the other) , you are ignorant, not a non-believer..i,e you dont know what you dont believe in..kinda like explaining a color to a person who has never seen..he doesnt know what he hasnt actually ever seen



  12. 18 hours ago, Walidgaleb said:

    I know that the Quran is not the only source for legal question that was why I also talked about hadiths...

    I have a dog as pet (companion) it this haram? 

    Another question what if you rescue stray dogs and share your home with them? Then you have the dog because of a reason

    keeping a dog is not haram. Dog is a najis animal, so its not preferable to keep one, unless for a purpose

    Special care must be taken against its sliva as its najis.

  13. 9 hours ago, justAnothermuslim said:

    so which is more preferential to shaitan: don't go for Hajj or [unknowingly] supporting the atrocities in yemen? i wish i know the answer. Since Quran already declares he is our open enemy, i'll choose his lesser preference, if forced to make a decision. Allah knows best.

    Thats the thing : I knowingly cant give money to the same person, who sponsors atrocities in yemen, terrorist cells all over the world, killing of innocent, target killings in Pakistan, death and destruction to shia / (and some sunni) communities all over the world.....I would much rather use this money to go to ziyarat where my mind will be much more at peace  

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