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  1. If you don’t mind me asking, how old is he? Because it seems like a very serious issue, he needs to go counselling. Even if he screams or physically hurts himself, he is in a state where he needs to seek a health professional. Don't let your parents yell at him if he doesn't pray. Leave the prayer for now, that will eventually come to him naturally because sometimes forcing a child to pray isn't a good thing
  2. Salam brother, first of all, this isn’t a punishment rather a test. Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) tests his believers out of his sincere love, therefore we shouldn’t question our hardships I know it’s hard, but your parents need to be patient with him. If your parents force religion or for instance force him to pray or to follow the main obligations, it’s going to make things worse for him. It will drive him away from Islam even more therefore you should encourage him and show how Islam is a beautiful and simple religion. did your brother already know that it wasn’t meant to be? Did he already know that dating or marrying a girl whose not even from the ahlulkitab is forbidden in Islam? I’m pretty sure he’s old enough to understand right from wrong, but chooses to ignore it. suicide is one of the grave sins in Islam, because only Allah brings life and death, we can’t just bring death at our own hands. Rasullulah(Sawas) refused to pray the janazah for a man who killed him self. may Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) make it easy for you and your family. Keep watching over him, and try to talk to him with words of kindness. Tell him the consequences of marrying the girl he loves, how it will be problematic in the future especially when they have kids.
  3. this is my style and you wierdo whats with the cringy title
  4. Salam everyone, I want to know what's the ruling on covering the feet according to Sayyid Sistani or any other marj'a. My own personal belief thinks that theres nothing wrong with it however I heard that some marj'a say that wearing enclosed shoes while going out is obligatory Any thoughts about this
  5. That part of you wanting to see her is your soft spot, because she's been your friend for a very long time. You can give her the gift, but it's better to mail it to her than seeing her face to face so that she can get a taste of her own medicine and realises how petty she's been to you. You honestly deserve someone so much better And don't worry about your parents, it won't be embarrasing to them because they're your family. Just briefly explained what happened between youse and how youse went your seperate ways
  6. I honestly hate people who are like that, it’s drives me crazy. It annoys me how people can be so cold hearted by being so mean and distant to a person whose done so much for them. Your situation is somewhat similar to one of my friends, who also went through the same thing, she had no choice but to cut off the toxic friendship. She is basically using you and wants to keep the friendship so that she can keep asking you for favours. Tell me one good favour she’s ever done for you throughout these years. I mean yeah forgive and forget, move on, but it’s hard to forget. And if you choose to continue being friends with the person, she won’t stop continuing her same habits even if she apologised 10 times. That’s just how some people are im not saying stop talking to her or cut her off completely. Just don’t consider her your best friend anymore, and keep it distant. Theres nothing wrong with telling her you’re coming, see what she says. Just don’t spend too much time with her. People nowadays are just turning into toxic human beings. may Allah make it easier for you and bring you someone better
  7. There is this really good book by Muhammad al tijani called “Ask those who know” . I’m not sure whether you can get it from ebook, but the way the sheikh logically explains Shia Islam is just amazing
  8. Salam alaikum , 1) with your first question, it is 100% true, we do not follow their fiqh , Shias follow the Qur'an and the Ahlul Bayt (عليه السلام) 2) I think it depends what the Hadith is about. For example, there are a few hadiths of some ahadith are praising the Ahlul Bayt(عليه السلام), then there’s no reason to reject them. 3) no we don’t have any doubts about the Qur'an as we believe it has been standardised before rasullulah (sawas) passed away and we also believe that it was Imam Ali (عليه السلام) who collected the verses 4) I haven’t really heard the full story about this, however I heard that Umar burnt scrolls that contained tafseerat of the Qur'an
  9. The fact that you have lost your faith is the reason why you're feeling like this. I understand how you're feeling because from my own experience I have also lacked faith, but that didn't mean I gave up on Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) or stopped praying completely, and performing the obligatory tasks. And the fact that you can't stop praying clearly shows a sign that Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) doesnt want you to completely turn away from your faith and stop worshipping Him, He doesn't want you to let go of that one good deed that you're still holding on to and you don't even realise that. Seriously what's with the repetition of "I wish I didn't have faith"? Would you rather be like those people who indulge in zina and alcohol? Would you rather be like those people who do not know anything about the akhira? Be grateful and praise Allah that you were born and raised Muslim, and that you have to abstain from these kind of acts. I'm no perfect Muslim either and I have sinned alot, but at the same time I realise just how lucky I am as well as you and the rest of us Muslims that our religion has protected us from engaging in these acts. Of course you can’t seem to let go entirely, you just can’t. You've been praying for years, worshipping Allah for years and now all of a sudden you just want to let go? But as you can see, because Allah is so merciful He doesn't want you to. Just remember when you leave faith, you're going to face thousands of obstacles throughout your life and you'll have no one to help you. Sooner or later you'll be all alone in the darkness crying for help. Crying for someone when you got nobody but Allah. So don't even think about it brother, its all the tricks and wicked acts of the shaytan Faith is what keeps people going
  10. Salam why don’t you just get married? I know sometimes it may not be easy to look for a good spouse nowadays, but just have faith in Allah, and inshallah it'll pass The fact that you feel bad about it still makes you a good person,
  11. Lol isn’t 30kg good ? Try protein shakes, they might help. And diet is also important. Are you eating enough steak and chicken ?
  12. Tell me what is your view on Abu Bakr usurping the caliphate from Imam Ali(عليه السلام)? What is your view on Aisha fighting against him? Tell me what is your view on Abu Bakr refusing to give Sayyida Fatima (عليه السلام) her Fadak. All of this is mentioned in Sunni sources yet when we pick them out youse choose to deny or ignore it.
  13. 3wliya_maryam

    the chosen one

    In a time of ignorance A period of injustice and profanity Where it was filled with insanity Hearts were filled with vanity He sent a true messenger To fulfill a mission that would change humanity To forbid atrocity and spread morality To guide His creatures towards the true message To remove the calamities and wreckage The hypocrites wouldn't stop mocking him Calling him names and throwing dirt He let them do so freely, for he was never hurt 'Cause the Lord was always by his side Every night he raised his hands and cried Praying that his people would follow the truth A man of respect and dignity A man who preached unity He who gave women their rights He who gave the nation its might The Holy Book and the Holy Progeny The two things that held the nation together But he still knew about the bad prophecy He could already sense the wild weather Ya Rasullulah, Can you see how your nation tore apart When it used to be only one Can you see the amount of bloodshed Leaving thousands of your Muslims dead Can you see the amount of hatred and sedition Leaving thousands of your Muslims in a heartless condition Waiting for your chosen ancestor To free the Earth from the oppressors To fill it with justice and remove the tyranny You were the chosen one to mankind An immaculate soul that He designed. السلام عليك يا رسول الله ❤️ اللهم صلي على محمد و آل محمد
  14. I kinda agree with this, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with posting a normal selfie or picture with your husband. But yeah when they pose intimately with them then it’s not really good. the thing is, showing love and compassion with your husband should be done so privately and not exposed to the media so I get where you’re coming from
  15. Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is a wise and Just Being. But what do you mean by that question? Is it like saying if Allah knows the outcome of people going to hell or heaven, why did he create us in the first place? Lol I hope I understood it right anyways, some Muslims believe that Allah creates humans that are destined for heaven or hell, which is undoubtedly false, for Allah is the Most Just, he wouldn’t create someone just to destin them for hell after, it is that persons own will as to whether he or she wants to be guided to the truth or not and only Allah guides whom He wills, that is if they are willing to search for the truth and yeah astaghfirullah they even say that Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is in human form
  16. Ur talking about scholars like yasser al habib and muqtada al sadr all they’ve done is nothing but give Shia Muslims a bad image
  17. Islam is all messed up now. Even people within their sects are killing each other, you think pointing out to them as kafir or terrorists will solve anything? @Anonymous2144
  18. Yea people like yasser al habibi I’m guessing also you can’t call them kaffir, despite the fact that they always call us that, it just makes us as ignorant as they are
  19. Yeah well You don’t think a lot of Shias have already done that? And do you think it has brought any difference? most of them will choose to cover it up
  20. So Sunnis have their own Muhammad now ? What kind of logic is this yeah Sunnis disagree a lot with Shias but our Prophet is the same, so is our book, the holy Qur'an. It’s the false interpretations that leads them to mis guidance and blinded from the truth
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