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Heard about this long time ago. It might be some conspiracy but who knows

say what now

Wasalam, The word 'Muslim' itself means submission to God. Whilst I agree that we should express our pride as being Shia Muslims, it is not easy in the Islamic society we live today. It can lead to tension and possibly fitna. Some people take it to a next level, such as Yassir al Habib whose even caused fitna amongst Shia Muslims in general. Nevertheless, we have the right to stand up for ourselves since we are constantly surrounded by derogatory views that they deem upon us. Besides, there is really no point in bringing up discussions about Sunni-Shia differences, unless a Sunni person tries to slander Shia Muslims or if they are just curious, it is still encouraged to educate them about our beliefs. Sunnis will always have an opposing view against us, and they will never be convinced with what we bring forward even though most of the points we make are logical. Of course, our kids should grow up to be proud of who they are, but there needs to be some kind of balance as how we should express ourselves the right way. And what we shouldn't say that could most likely cause fitna. Because majority of both Sunnis and Shias just want to argue to prove their points. Many Muslims can't express themselves at all if they live in countries such as Egypt or Saudi. This is why teaching our kids Islamic knowledge is crucial, so that they know the ways to respond to Sunni Muslims who try to argue and prove a point. On the other hand, do we really think it is necessary? I mean if we look at the example of Imam Ali (عليه السلام), he remained silent from the first three caliphs, and refused to be involved in their public affairs unless there was the need to. He knew they were misguided, and the Prophet(sawas) advised him to withstand and remain patient.

salam been a while but i believe it doesnt go back to their beliefs. it goes back to their ideology of power. you have men who claim to be faithful muslims, and yet still believe that hitting their wives is permissible.

Salam, What you're doing isn't wrong. Islam wise it is good to help out the community with mental illnesses, Muslim or non Muslim. But how can someone possibly think that it is 'okay' to bully them because they're gay? I mean we do have strong opposing views about homosexuality but that isn't an excuse to treat them like crap.

The coronavirus has reached to Western Australia, with two confirmed cases in Perth. May Allah protect us from this deadly virus.

The coronavirus has reached to Western Australia, with two confirmed cases in Perth. May Allah protect us from this deadly virus.

Is there a hadith or link to this? As far as I know men psychologically tend to have these thoughts, so its not so easy to control them. Your intention and action are what matters

They say that to easily guilt trip you. My parents say that all the time. Unless I’m doing something very bad, then that’s completely different. Our parents are trying to steer us clear from haram, but as you said yourself a lot of the times it can be too overwhelming. Sis we’re on the same page here lol. It always depends on who you hang out with. You need to show them that they can trust you. How is that any different from going to uni by yourself and hanging out with a bunch of different people? believe me this will take time. U need to keep talking to them

I’ve watched the clip myself, and I don’t think it was related to the corona virus. It was probably referring to either SARS or Ebola

I kinda agree, my parents were having a discussion about this. And the reason makes sense in the first place, because it coincidentally occured whilst the US was pressuring China's economy. Unfortunately I cannot find the source, but a few weeks ago, it was on one of the Arab channels my family were watching that apparently some reporter has stated that the virus was found somewhere in the US Embassy. Then you also have a bunch of other researchers who say that all these conspiracies are false and only trying to create fear. https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/cotton-repeats-coronavirus-conspiracy-theory-despite-evidence-n1137701 Senator cotton has emphasised on the fact that the virus came from the US I found these aswell: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-Europe-51413870 https://www.jpost.com/Middle-East/Arab-media-accuse-US-Israel-of-coronavirus-conspiracy-against-China-617021 Only Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) knows best

Wa alaikum salam, I completely understand exactly how you're feeling, and it sucks. I'm 19 turning 20, and my parents are still the overprotective type. But I want to give you really solid advice on how to get through this. Last year when I stepped into uni, some things were difficult. And one main aspect was my parents, who were constantly getting suspicious even if I was just studying at a library, so I really understand the struggle. Now, one thing that did bother them the most was my interactions with the opposite gender. I got in trouble a number of times for working with them and texting them which they found out somehow. I tried to convince them that it was only about studies and nothing else, but they still found an excuse to make it seem like it was some atrocious act even though I know deep down I did nothing wrong. It still gets to me sometimes, because I was tired of trying to make them understand that I'm not longer in a private school, this is freaking uni for crying out loud. It was really stressful, and on top of that I had way too much studies to even be messing around in the first place. This led to a lot of lying too. And then I realised that the reason why my parents never trust me was because of lack of communication. That was the missing piece. The more you don't choose to speak up, the more they'll think you're hiding something. I always knew about this at the back of my head, but I never even tried because I felt like they were always hard headed. So I didn't bother. But using alot of communication makes a difference. I'm not saying you should tell them EVERYTHING that goes on in your life, but include the things that they'd expect to hear, like how hard your studies are and what you learnt in your lectures today. I used to complain to them that it has always been difficult for me, so that they know I'm actually putting in the effort rather than wasting time. YOU NEED TO SPEAK UP. Trust me you will regret it. You need to make them understand that you're no longer a child, and your life and future career depends on you being independent. You need to reassure them that there's nothing to worry about. My parents were the type to even disclose the topic of marriage with me. They thought it could distract things and want me to solely focus on my studies. I was the one who chose to open up the topic, because if not now, then when? I made sure to my mum that she should never feel suspicious about this. That is what changed everything, because after the advice she gave me, I knew what they expected now. So you need to do that. You need to tell them right now. They can't just keep having this control over your life, even though they are your parents. You need to show them you're an adult and can rely on yourself. When I read this, I assumed that you were from an Iraqi background. Because our family also has these customs where its wrong for a girl to go out alone. I know its in other cultures too. This tormented me even as a kid. I never went anywhere out unless that included dragging a parent with me, even if it was with a group of friends. That's just how their mindsets are, they were born in a completely different generation and so they will carry these beliefs with them because they feel like its the best thing. Your parents aren't going to change instantly, but eventually they are going to have to force themselves accept the changes that you will face now that you've finally stepped into the real world. And that only begins if you choose to speak to them. About everything. I've noticed this within my parents too. So I know its easier said, but try to not worry about it too much. Because things will certainly get better, only if you put in the effort NOW. its all about right now. I pray that Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) makes it easier for you and give you success in the future fee amanillah

Salam, I understand it’s hard and you never chose to be this way. It really sucks. There was a shiachatter here also going through the same problem, I forgot his name. but you’re right, as long as those thoughts don’t lead to action, then you’re still just as faithful. I honestly believe that you have higher iman than most people in general, because it’s not so easy for them to resist a huge sin like this. So the fact that you’re trying to be as faithful as you can because you fear Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is just beyond amazing Honestly reading this post annoyed me a little. The brother is clearly asking for advice and you’re here trying to make him feel worse. Where’s your source? For that hadith

Yes it does seem complicated. And there is a possibility that the guy who suffered from abuse may have mental health problems like anger management. So yeah its quite risky. If he's a really good guy as you say, then obviously I have to get to know him more first and whether he is meant to be in my life or not. The rest is up to Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى). If I truly loved him, and wanted to fight for him regardless of what his family says, then we both need to be aware of the fact that there are going to be many obstacles in the way that could potentially jeopardise our relationship. We have to be fully prepared for that and take action if we must. And then whatever happens definitely happens for a good reason, all part of Allah's plan.

According to ekhart tolle’s the power of now (a book I highly recommend everyone to read), all the pleasures of life are only temporary. They don’t make you truly happy. Say you were sad and depressed, and you decide to go shopping. It might lift your mood up, but then you’re drawn back to darkness. he talks about inner peace, that is accessible to us now, something that is way beyond our minds. Whether you’re religious or not doesn’t make a difference to boredom or you being a fun outgoing person. Back in school I used to get told I was boring a lot. But really it depends on the people you surround yourself with. A lot of people don’t realise this within themselves but they have some kind of uniqueness that is only in them and not in everyone else. the more you socialise, the more you read and gain knowledge, the less boring you become imo