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  1. Salam alaikum, Some of youse may have already read this and some of youse may have not (including myself although I have just read it today). https://www.al-islam.org/ghurar-al-hikam-wa-durar-al-kalim-exalted-aphorisms-and-pearls-speech/believer These are the guidelines of Ameer al Mo'mineen (عليه السلام) when it comes to a believer. Unfortunately after reading this, it made me realise that the vast majority of Muslims (mainly Shia Muslims, and in this case including myself), are not true believers, therefore only Muslim by name. Even when they say they believe in Allah an
  2. its better not to pray behind them imo. if u have the choice to pray on your own than why not
  3. 3aalam al dhar. i wanna know why i chose to come to this corrupt world.
  4. Salam alaikum, Inshallah everyone here is in the best of health in 2021. I would like to bring forth a topic about defining real success. I was hoping if anyone here can share some thoughts. What do you believe is high success? Does it have to do with pursuing medicine, law or engineering? Or is it something deeper, like purifying the soul, gaining spirituality with Allah, strengthening your personality and/or contributing towards your community? Unfortunately some ethnic families claim to have faith in God yet they hold beliefs that nothing is more successful than becomin
  5. They can, but unfortunately in several communities when it comes to girls, they cannot, and is deemed as shameful. They forget that Khadijah(عليه السلام) herself proposed to the Holy Prophet (sawas), but if a woman were to do that in this day and age then it would be unacceptable. In fact Islam does not prohibit a Muslim, male or female to find their partners but there are certain limits and boundaries (which includes not being alone together). Love at first sight. I don't know, sometimes even non Muslims marry after talking for a few months. It just depends on the two and
  6. We’re back to these mut3ah threads again
  7. Educate yourself more on the matter, your fear will most likely decrease. I'm saying this is because if you are a good Muslim and have been trying your very best, and say you died and went to barzakh, you can redeem the sins you have. there are narrations which state a deceased person (like a family member or relative) may come to you in a dream asking for help if they are in distress or in a dark place. For example if you had prayers you needed to make up for, or other sins that you have not repented for or redeemed there is a chance to do so in barzakh. I don't know about it fully but it is
  8. Salam, Music is everywhere. Might as well not go to the shop, or a public place where music is most likely played there. Or a tv show where the music is most likely played in the background. It’s not something we can control. As long as you’re not the one playing or dancing to it, then you should be good. also this isn’t an excuse to listen to music. Obviously if we’re at home and choose to put on music than that’s wrong. I’m talking about situations in which we can’t control. With that being said, go enjoy and meet your family members, congratulate your cousin.
  9. This is extremely true, I've witnessed this a number of times and its absolutely degrading. Obviously not every boy is like that but it all comes down to the parents' upbringing. To not sound like im generalising, the same applies to girls but it is clear enough that it is mostly guys who are given the freedom cause after all, they're guys. Still I'm generalising in a way but they're not opinions, I'm merely stating the facts. My opinion however is that since girls are often sheltered and protected, guys get into more trouble and therefore there the ones that should be more guarded. I'
  10. Salam 3alaikum, بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم اللهم صلى على محمد و ال محمد I’ll just make this brief; but I’m looking for narrations or sayings in Islam that talk about refusing an invite to a majlis a family is hosting of an imam (عليه السلام) or deceased member in the family without a valid excuse. I’ve been close friends with a sister of mine for a long time however I was not allowed to attend a single majlis of hers at her house and I feel bad for doing so. I was really hoping if there were any verses or narrations that I may use just to show that this may be wrong to refuse
  11. A marriage always has to have balance, regardless. So yes, a man CAN cook, but again there needs to be 50/50. If he's at work, keeping a roof over the family's head, paying loans and debts, then the wife would take the responsibility of the house and vice versa. In fact, it is actually recommended for males to help with the affairs of the house; Imam Ali (عليه السلام) used to help Sayeda Fatima (عليه السلام) manage house duties. it is recommended if he does Imam Ali ((عليه السلام).) often helped Fatimah (s.a.) in the house affairs. He said, “Once, the messenger of Allah (S
  12. This narration is narrated by Abu Hurayra, I highly doubt that it is even authentic. A woman is not a toy for God's sake. The narration also does sound to make it seem like women are inferior. Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe. (2:223) there are still limits as to when and how a man does intercourse with his wife.
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