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  1. I wish someone had given me advise before when I needed it but I will say this: Who the person really is , shows in a few months. In this case you are seeing the true colors. If you are already fed up, the person will not magically change after marriage. Should you choose to proceed further, you are accepting him in this form.
  2. You can use an ultra sound to interpret this dream
  3. Aleykum Salaam sister, Here is one dua that you can recite: Du’a for Pregnancy Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (A.S.) has taught the following dua: Transliteration: Allaahumma laa tadharni fardanw wa anta khairul waaretheen wah’eedanw wah’sheeyan fayaqs’uroo a’n tafakkori bal habli a’afiyata s’idqin dhokooranw wa onaathan aanaso behim minal wah’shate wa askuno ilaihim minal wah’date wa ashkoroka I’nda tamaame ne’matin yaa wahhaabo yaa a’zeemo yaa mo-a’z’z’amo thumma a’at’eni fee kulle a’aqibatin shukran h’atta tabloghani minha riz’waanoka fee s’idqil h’adeethe wa adaaail amaanate wa wafaain bil ‘ahde Translation: O Allah! Do not keep me solitary though You are the best of Inheritors. I am alone and terrified of loneliness. This worry has reduced my thankfulness to You. So bestow on me true forgiveness and give me female and male children so that by their company I can cure my terror of loneliness. By which my loneliness is cured. So that on the completion of this bounty I can thank You. O the greatest Giver, O the Greatest, O the Bestower of greatness, after this bestow me with tawfeeqthat I thank You for every kindness. Till I can achieve Your kindness by thankfulness, by speaking the truth, by returning trusts and by fulfilling oaths.1
  4. Another reason is that the older generation actually went out to do activities together. Be it sports or to even socialize. These days a like or a direct message on instagram/Whatsapp/Snapchat/Facebook suffices them for that social experience. When they meet in real life or other people, they act awkward naturally.
  5. Brother I can tell you that you need to cut out this habit from your life as soon as possible. It will be difficult at first but think of it this way. The longer you get occupied with Porn and Zina, the harder your test will become and your prayers of a real genuine woman may get delayed. Struggle now and be happy later.
  6. Salaams, Keeping your Khala in my prayers inshA. Please do keep me in your prayers as well.
  7. Although the current standard of this award is in shambles, It would be amazing for Agha to get that recognition
  8. InshA, make dua for me as well akhi
  9. SisterFatima1 you have a good ability to have topics that create commotion
  10. Killing such a great Syed ....Gaddafi died in a very humiliating way..videos are still out there.
  11. you need to have 25 posts akhi. Hang in there. i am in the same boat
  12. I have never heard of this Dua? do we make this Dua to attain beauty?
  13. I think its OK to have an overall calm demeanor and it matters who your audience is. In front of non-Muslims you always have to be at your best and attract them with your Akhlaq. But if you look at Nahjul Balagha and the way Our Imam responds to people when he is right or in the Haq. He does not really hold back. Balance is needed.I assume this audience is muslim here. Sermon 19: Amir al-mu’minin was delivering a lecture from the pulpit of (the mosque of) Kufah when al-Ash’ath ibn Qays objected and said, “O’ Amir al-mu’minin this thing is not in your favour but against you.”Amir al-mu’minin looked at him with anger and said: How do you know what is for me and what is against me?! Curse of Allah and others be on you. You are a weaver and son of a weaver. You are the son of an unbeliever and yourself a hypocrite. You were arrested once by the Unbelievers and once by the Muslims, but your wealth and birth could not save you from either. The man who contrives for his own people to be put to sword and invites death and destruction for them does deserve that the near ones should hate him and the remote ones should not trust him.
  14. This with actual medical advice and you will be set! powerful dua.
  15. Aleykum Salaam Akhi, i am not iraqi so not really familiar but I want to wish you the best in your future journey. Keeping you in my prayers.
  16. Salaam Marbles, I am just going through something similar like this if not worse, how is your cousin doing now? Why cant i private message on this forum? Thanks,
  17. Salaams Kawther, I pray your condition gets better! When I feel down, I always continue to remind myself about these 3 verses: Remain patient, Allahسُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى is surely with you! وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ بِشَيْءٍ مِنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِنَ الْأَمْوَالِ وَالْأَنْفُسِ وَالثَّمَرَاتِ ۗ وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ {155} [Yusufali 2:155] Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere, الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ {156} [Yusufali 2:156] Who say, when afflicted with calamity: "To Allah We belong, and to Him is our return":- أُولَٰئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِنْ رَبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ ۖ وَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ {157} [Yusufali 2:157] They are those on whom (Descend) blessings from Allah, and Mercy, and they are the ones that receive guidance.
  18. May Allahسُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى have ease on your trails akhi. Dua Mashool is a fantastic dua as it calls out Allahسُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى in the most beautiful ways through his many names. Based on experience I noticed praying as on time as possible is the most beautiful thing.
  19. Salaams Sister, I can relate very much to your pain, I am going through something similar if not worse! I was surprised at how much stuff continues to be thrown at me and somehow i am able to handle it, I know you are strong enough and you will persevere. Duas and things that help me get through the day: Dua Mashlool, Recite Quran, Praying on time, and reading and find out how to have sincere tawakkul. Remember this verse, it always helps when i read it: (2:155) "Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere" If you want to talk further, feel free to message me!
  20. Jazakallah sister. You people have been very helpful I ask that you keep me in your prayers InshA if a MOD sees this thread can be closed
  21. When I threatened her with divorce a week ago, she said she wants to continue to try. I highly doubt and know for sure there’s is no other man. When I ask her when things will go back to normal, her answer is that she needs time. She’s unable to find it in her to forgive me just yet. I want to be clear. My trips prior and after have been sports or with friends based. Not business.
  22. I am sensing a heavy feminist vibe from you, you dont think i apologized months ago?
  23. Thanks for your response, I have tried to apologize and even purchased some gifts...to no avail. I guess i need to just continue to show unconditional love.
  24. Ahsant brother, will try and follow this for the time being
  25. I do prefer someone with more knowledge..Maybe a moderator PM me or someone well versed in this matter contact me directly. I do not prefer this public forum method. Thanks for all your suggestions.
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