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In the Name of God بسم الله


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  1. You could basically reply to every single post with " there is always 3 sides etc" and then create your own little version. People post when they are in need, and we can only respond with the info given.
  2. Bro, have some self-respect for yourself. This woman does not respect you at all. Considering you just got married and then she refused to come and her family doesn't even want to get involved with her? that should be a clear sign for you. This is absolutely not what a marriage should be. She probably likes someone else or is with someone else already. End this and move.
  3. Have you understood what he has told you? He clearly knows the solution is to life separately but cannot currently do that. Your advice to him does not make any sense in his current situation.
  4. Not to put the islamic intricacies in the back seat but there are bigger issues at hand here. Which country are you from? You need to involve a third party either family members and if that doesn't exist then we need to find your countries laws that can protect your mother. Sorry you have to go through this. You will come out strong from it
  5. Salaams sister, This is an extremely toxic situation not just for yourself, but more importantly your child as well. The positive here is that you recognize it and are willing to stand up for yourself. I know someone who was in a similar situation and Alhamdulillah after some struggles, she is the happiest I have ever seen her. She did the following steps: 1. Gather your evidence for abuse, record if you must. This will help you get sole custody of your child. 2. Speak to a good lawyer before making any drastic decisions like leaving the house etc. Unless it is a danger
  6. Are you crazy or what? Firstly you have to communicate, if you sense the love from her end is no longer there, then its no longer there. You can’t make someone love you. Maybe the first time you were in love/relationship with her, you should not have been a naughty boy and instead worked on making it halal at that point.
  7. Apparently if its a cat hair then you can burn the cat hair and make a wish
  8. There are RED flags all over this. Burning cat hair, collecting sticks etc leads me to believe this is an attempt at some voodoo stuff. Which is a massive HARAM. The breath holding spells should only be looked at by doctors and only their recommendations should be taken. They will laugh at you if you tell them you are burning cat hairs.
  9. Salaams, Are you able to provide further details in regards to the specific issues you are facing so we can give you better advice? If you have some free time watch this video :
  10. You know your family(s) best, so it would come down to your decision as to who you should inform specifically so they can perhaps facilitate the therapy process if he does not listen. Someone who doesn't escalate things but is the most learned/religious and composed. Without an ultimatum or a method to check if what you are suggesting to your husband will work, you wont truly know. Acquiring a nude from a co-worker is still a form of cheating. It does not have to be sexual. He will be seeing this woman everyday I assume? This is up-to your tolerance. I would start marriage counsell
  11. Salaams sister, There are many issues at play here unfortunately . Porn addiction is something very detrimental to a relationship and with the right methodology it can be stopped and some issues can be resolved(sexual, attraction etc). There are many working threads on reddit about ending masturbation, but you have far bigger problems here. People who are addicted to porn don’t really need to be hiding somewhere or be outside at 2-3 AM, to watch porn. Its quite easy these days with the cellphone. It is very much possible that he is cheating on you because a female co-worker sending h
  12. If I am understanding correctly you caught her cheating 6 different times? What did you do after the first time? You need to end this marriage as soon as possible. Inform your and her family members of her filthy actions. You may struggle for a couple of months of maybe even days (Just think about her being done in by another dude) and it will make it easier to forget. You will have something better for you
  13. Its not haram but I would not recommend it, Crush has too much sugar. Which one specifically? Orange or Grape?
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