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  1. I’m not saying their the ones at fault. But your message shouldn’t have been directed at sisters only. That’s subjective especially when the message really relates to men
  2. LOL too bad there’s not much decent men out there, so this message should really be directed at men more so than women
  3. hmm, many of us women know this already, this message should be directed at men more so than woman. Women, though, should make it clear that there are boundaries and shouldn’t be crossed.
  4. It’s not a dying sunnah, I can name 100 people that I know who have second wives... no joke
  5. This is so disheartening and heartbreaking. Allah be with her parents.
  6. Ruqaya101

    Iraqi gang

    who's Iraqi on this site?
  7. Takes a very very long time, but yeh with time, it heals. Still hurts when you remember it, but not as much as when it’s still fresh.
  8. brother, get outta here, im the funniest person on ShiaChat. Admit.
  9. اللّهُمّ صَلّ عَلَى مُحَمّدٍ وَآلِ مُحَمّدٍ
  10. Sellam, I am as ignorant as you perhaps, however, it is dependant on what happened and how it occurred. But yes, theres actually many stories told by sheikhs from what ive heard and know. And I don't know if "imraad" means necessarily, given an "answer" to, its in Arabic, and I don't know how to exactly translate it. There is many Hadiths, where the Imams mention that, Maybe im wrong, if you visited their shrines, then of course, your hajjahs will be heard, also, I believe sincerity of the Dua is taken into consideration. You could refer to it as a coincidence, But for some, I guess, depending on what occurred, some see it as an answer, even if it was a coincedence, its still a blessing, and should be regarded as one, BUT, going to the shrines itself, is a blessing at its entirety. sorry, I couldn't be much of a help, I am as ignorant as you are perhaps when it comes to this, if anyone knows more, let me know.
  11. Something very similar happened with me at the shrines of Imam Hussein AS except I was handed a white candle. Usually what it means is that you’ve been given “your answer” or as they would call it in Arabic “imraad”. I would, in your case, take some of the roses and keep them and some I’d make rose water out of.
  12. According to hadith, there are about 800 (if im not mistaken by the number) of ayahs from the holy Qur'an referred to ayaat al maal, in which it refers to maal or money being allahs amaanah (as hadith says, don't know which hadith) Can someone tell me a little more abut this? Also, can you refer me to any ayahs of the sort?
  13. what hadiths do you know of ahlul bayts perspective on life? I would really like to know what the majority of the Ahlul Bayt thought about life in general, any advice they gave, any quotations, the difference between right and wrong. Or any stories in general.
  14. In a recent thread, the derailment of one topic brought up a light to do with the discrepancies men and women, in both roles and responsibilities as well as character traits of men and women. My opinion, is why make a big deal and debate, why not recognise and accept, why not follow the roles of women of Ahlul Bayt, both with husbands and independently. They are our role models. Men (not all) seem to portray a disliking to the fact that women aren't always submissive. Why make everything so complicated? Just follow the examples of the Imams in the way they treated women. The sayedas recognised their self worth as women. Why don't you?
  15. I remember we had this discussion in high school. Neediness is a character flaw that in my opinion, has positive aspects to it. Neediness is related to being an emotionally attached person. Negatively, a person with the character flaw of neediness feels suffocated, lacks dependence and doesn’t have much personal space in terms of finding their true identity. However, they could use that and channel it to a positive level by being more open, paying attention to even detail, and showing empathy and desire for another.
  16. damn... exaggeration is mainly a womans forte, but I think its really polluted the brains of men. the worlds going to end?!!!!!!
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