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Ruqaya101 last won the day on September 27 2019

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  1. Sallamu Alaikum everyone, I pray that all the believers of ahlulbayt here are healthy and well. I would like to know of any narrations from Shia books or (authentic) sunni hadiths/articles/stories and alike about the love of Khadija and The prophet SAWS. Kind Regards, Ruqaya.
  2. If you’re a Muslim, and you’ve never dated someone, then they’re not your “ex”. If you’re saying that about a Muslim sister, then you’re harming her dignity whether you mean it or not. Also, it is rude to not answer back to them if they simply want to say sallam and ask about you as their **brother**. This is Islamic opinion by the way, think about the way the Prophets treated women and do not compare it to “western societies where they don’t talk and ignore their ‘exes’”. May Allah guide us all.
  3. My little brother who is 6 now, also used to lie because he thought my mum would get angry at her, since usually whenever he did something wrong, she'd show an angry reaction. Eventually, whenever he did something wrong, my mum would shout out from the other room, "what happened, what was that noise" and my little brother would go,"nothing mama!", then he'd run to me and whisper "shh, don't tell mum, come with me" and then I would go and see what mischief he was up to, or what accident was made (like pooping on the ground because he couldn't reach the toilet). So, he learnt that I never had an angry reaction to anything he did, and that whenever he did something, I would always console him that accidents happen but we must learn from them, and I would always sit him down and teach him what to do better the next time. However, whenever theres something that does need an angry reaction, I'd usually go tell my mum. We always do the "good cop, Bad cop" with him and it works wonders.
  4. hmm, I read somewhere that it means something else... I just forgot what it was.
  5. What does "Sell your soul" mean when it doesn't refer to Satan?
  6. Thank you so much. Im still kind of struggling with it, As I worry about my modesty. But inshallah khair. Yeah but my boots are just plain black, and theyre wide too, They don’t stick to my legs. and usually my dress passes the top of the boots too. It looks like any one else wearing boots, which a lot of girls do in my university as we have to have closed boots on for labs. But thank you.
  7. You're going to get the following excessive statements... from both women and men! "That us women aren't submissive little dolls" "We're not all damsels in distress and we don't all want a prince charming to sweep us off our feet" "Women are there to give birth" "Women are driven by the Shaitan" -_-
  8. This thread is going to get real defensive soon from some very defensive women LOL. and some read accusations from some accusative men LOL. hang on, I need some popcorn!
  9. From what I understand, anyone who comes as a refugee must have sufficient evidence or good reason to be approved. If not, they'll have to wait in refugee centres till they're approved. Though, in his case, I'm not sure.
  10. ⬜️Manus refugee suicides in Brisbane, offshore detention claims another victim A 32-year-old mentally-distressed Afghan refugee, Sayed Mirwais Rohani, has committed suicide in Brisbane. The Afghan doctor jumped to his death from the 22nd floor of a Brisbane hotel on Tuesday, 15 October. Mirwais is the eighth Manus refugee death. Mirwais was brought to Australia from Manus Island in 2017, as his mental health badly deteriorated following his detention on Manus Island in September 2013. He had been living in community detention in Brisbane for the last year. The tragedy is shocking tale of deliberate abuse and neglect. Mirwais had a medical degree from a Chinese university which is recognised by Australia. He completed his degree in English and spoke six languages. He offered to work in the Lorengau hospital for free and was moved out of the Lombrum detention centre on that basis. Despite being moved he was not allowed to work in the hospital. As his mental health declined he was attacked, beaten and imprisoned. His father, a refugee living in Britain, travelled to Manus Island in 2016 in an effort to have him released so Mirwais could join his parents in Britain. Peter Dutton refused the request on the basis that Mirwais was over 18. There was a second attempt to try to get Mirwais to join his family in Britain after he was moved to Australia. That attempt also stalled with Peter Dutton and the Department of Home Affairs. His father visited Mirwais again in 2018. “Manus Island, offshore detention and Peter Dutton are responsible for yet another refugee death,” said Ian Rintoul, spokesperson for the Refugee Action Coalition, “In 2010, Australian of the Year, Patrick McGorry, labelled detention centres ‘factories of mental illness’. Mirwais death is yet more evidence of the damage that offshore detention is doing. It’s time offshore detention was ended.” Link to Refugee Action Coalition statement ◽️ refugeeaction.org.au/?p=8057 Honestly, this is so sad. My close family friends were in the same position with 2 little boys and they suffered a lot of neglect until alhamdulilah, Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) answered their prayers, but others are still left in there, people with so much potential that are being abused, neglected and mentally drained. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) help them all.
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