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Hussaini1912

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  1. Haha
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from hasanhh in What made you laugh today   
    I would have done that to be honest
  2. Like
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from hasanhh in I think I have a genius idea, or perhaps not   
    Because that feeling is just temporary you know.....
  3. Disagree
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from hasanhh in I think I have a genius idea, or perhaps not   
    I don't know why im laughing maybe just because I was curious at first like " what is this cool idea" but in the end..... 
    okay so yeah it is a good idea. 
  4. Haha
    Hussaini1912 reacted to hasanhh in What made you laugh today   
    Reading this l wondered if there was a site "adjectives for children". All l found were politically correct titles like "100 positive adjectives for children", "200 . . . " and other neo-nonsense rather than accurate descriptive words.
    What made me laugh is when this woman wrote that her child's 4th Grade teacher asked her to "describe her child in a million words or less"; and that this irked her so much she wrote she "almost threw the coffee table book at him".
  5. Haha
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from hasanhh in What made you laugh today   
    what made me laugh today was that my young brother was in the bathroom this morning before going to school and he had his test of learning the shapes. When I was passing infront of the bath room I heard him saying with so much force:
    Ceee-Aiiii-Arrrrr ( heavy breaths)
    Ceee- Elll- Eiiii
    C-I-r-c-l-e.
    I even imagined his red face  man he was struggling so hard.
  6. Haha
    Hussaini1912 reacted to hasanhh in What made you laugh today   
    If you have some time:
    https://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Poetry-Donald-Trump-Canons/dp/1786892278/ref=asc_df_1786892278/
  7. Completely Agree
    Hussaini1912 reacted to starlight in I think I have a genius idea, or perhaps not   
    What does the "dudette" get from all this? Unless he is offering insane sums of money as Mahr and the women is the type who wouldn't mind engaging in this for just money. 
  8. Thanks
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from Haji 2003 in I think I have a genius idea, or perhaps not   
    I don't know why im laughing maybe just because I was curious at first like " what is this cool idea" but in the end..... 
    okay so yeah it is a good idea. 
  9. Haha
    Hussaini1912 reacted to Haji 2003 in I think I have a genius idea, or perhaps not   
    If it isn't I can always hide the thread.
    Anyway.
    It's about the two most favouritest topics on this forum.
    And I was wondering whether one could be solved with the other in an innovative way.
    Hear me out, I think this is pretty cool.
    Would it work if a dude did one M in order to get their partner to do the other M for them (rather than doing the latter for themselves which is haram)? That way the dude gets 'relief', but without the rules, regulations, implications etc attendant on going all the way.
    This way when the dude finally gets married and the wife asks did you ever masturbate, he can say, "nope". And if she asks him if he's still a virgin he can say "yes".
    And if she asks him to swear to this, he can do so.
    OK this might not get me a Nobel prize or anything, but I thought it might help.
  10. Haha
    Hussaini1912 reacted to Sirius_Bright in What made you laugh today   
    Pakistan sent Hubble Telescope. lol. 
     
  11. Like
    Hussaini1912 reacted to Al-Mufeed in Exposing Imam Shaikh Brother Mohammad Tawhidi   
    (salam)
    This is a public service message to the community at large in regards to an individual who is purporting to be a scholar of the howza.
    I am aware of the sensitive nature of these types of subjects, and I am only doing this as a duty for the believers to not become misguided by such individuals. This particular individual has been warned by others about his behavior but thus far has not heeded these words.
    His own statements and behavior actually expose him on their own, and when reading the things that he writes one can see clearly already that he is not a person who carries the akhlaq and wisdom of Ahlulbayt (as).
    However what is important here is he is damaging the institution and the Maraja in the eyes of the people.
    This individual is going by the name of "Brother Tawheedi".
    He has set up for him self a facebook page:
    http://www.facebook.com/BrotherTawhidi
    As well as a twitter page:
    https://twitter.com/BrotherTawhidi
    He is also in the process of starting his own website, which (alhamdulillah) at this point is not functional:
    http://www.tawhidi.com/
    He has been speaking at various venues internationally.
  12. My Prayers
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from Revert1963 in Suicide   
    Okay , so when I did'nt knew about this story, I was suffering from such thoughts similar to those that victim had. So I thought that it was only me who had these thoughts. But when this story came up , I for a moment was shocked that these thoughts led him to do this. And I was having same similar thoughts and maybe I could have done the same thing? who knows I am a big procrastinator and an over thinker. But I read some articles and books like " Forty Rules Of Love" which changed my perspective and I used those thoughts constructively. However after hearing this incident I felt that what if I knew it before about him , and could have helped him get out of this, just because there was no one who he could have talked to or to share with, which is a very hopeless situation I went through, maybe this would not happened.
    I have been active in my holidays on many forums and website like "7 cups" where I used my sufferings and experiences or in other word you can say depression, to help others to understand others, to help them get out of what I went through or make them happy in other words so that they wont experience what I did. So that it can alternatively cure me and give me inner peace aswell.Because I know how hopeless and depressing situations there are, where you hate yourself and everything to such an extent that this"suicide" can happen. Seriously you feel like to explode the whole world.
  13. My Prayers
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from Mahdavist in Suicide   
    Okay , so when I did'nt knew about this story, I was suffering from such thoughts similar to those that victim had. So I thought that it was only me who had these thoughts. But when this story came up , I for a moment was shocked that these thoughts led him to do this. And I was having same similar thoughts and maybe I could have done the same thing? who knows I am a big procrastinator and an over thinker. But I read some articles and books like " Forty Rules Of Love" which changed my perspective and I used those thoughts constructively. However after hearing this incident I felt that what if I knew it before about him , and could have helped him get out of this, just because there was no one who he could have talked to or to share with, which is a very hopeless situation I went through, maybe this would not happened.
    I have been active in my holidays on many forums and website like "7 cups" where I used my sufferings and experiences or in other word you can say depression, to help others to understand others, to help them get out of what I went through or make them happy in other words so that they wont experience what I did. So that it can alternatively cure me and give me inner peace aswell.Because I know how hopeless and depressing situations there are, where you hate yourself and everything to such an extent that this"suicide" can happen. Seriously you feel like to explode the whole world.
  14. My Prayers
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from hasanhh in Suicide   
    Okay , so when I did'nt knew about this story, I was suffering from such thoughts similar to those that victim had. So I thought that it was only me who had these thoughts. But when this story came up , I for a moment was shocked that these thoughts led him to do this. And I was having same similar thoughts and maybe I could have done the same thing? who knows I am a big procrastinator and an over thinker. But I read some articles and books like " Forty Rules Of Love" which changed my perspective and I used those thoughts constructively. However after hearing this incident I felt that what if I knew it before about him , and could have helped him get out of this, just because there was no one who he could have talked to or to share with, which is a very hopeless situation I went through, maybe this would not happened.
    I have been active in my holidays on many forums and website like "7 cups" where I used my sufferings and experiences or in other word you can say depression, to help others to understand others, to help them get out of what I went through or make them happy in other words so that they wont experience what I did. So that it can alternatively cure me and give me inner peace aswell.Because I know how hopeless and depressing situations there are, where you hate yourself and everything to such an extent that this"suicide" can happen. Seriously you feel like to explode the whole world.
  15. Completely Agree
    Hussaini1912 reacted to Revert1963 in Suicide   
    It sounds very much like he suffered from depression. Having depression should not be considered shameful. It could happen to anybody and with the help of Allah you can overcome it.
    Suicide just doesn't make sense from an Islamic perspective. Even if you think you are a big sinner, killing your self will end your possibility to improve. It will remove your possibility to pray for Allahs forgiveness and it will bar you from doing good deeds that may counter your sins. And if you are such a big sinner as you think the only thing you can look forward to in the Akhirah is the worse option. So why not escape it as long as possible.
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    Hussaini1912 reacted to hasanhh in Suicide   
    Somewhat is l believe. See dw.com "Kickoff" the "Special: Robert Enke". He was a goalie that suffered from depression but was afraid it would become known. He committed suicide. The doctor interviewed explained how depression is a chemical imbalance illness like several other bodily diseases/infirmities.
  17. My Prayers
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from hasanhh in Suicide   
    nope not this part. I understand what he was going through as I also went through such thoughts but as I mentioned I didnt went that severe
  18. Completely Agree
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from 3wliya_maryam in Suicide   
    Like once I shared with my parents that I cry that im not a ood Shia and how will I face Imam Ali((عليه السلام)). I was I guess 13 so my parents laughed and did not took it serious. That is when I realised this problem isnt taken serious in our society.
  19. Completely Agree
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from 3wliya_maryam in Suicide   
    Yeah this is the first time I also heard about it. However as he was a paki, and ik the society here so he might have faced some other difficulties as well such as bullying being degraded etc. However such psychological issues should be dealt thats what I beleive
  20. Completely Agree
    Hussaini1912 reacted to 3wliya_maryam in Suicide   
    a possible reason is that religious OCD is what many Muslims go through, hence they think it shouldn't be considered something serious because its common. But it can have its severities and the story of that brother you shared with us is an example
  21. Completely Agree
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from 3wliya_maryam in Suicide   
    Yeah I think this matter should be taken seriously, I feel the same thing
  22. Completely Agree
    Hussaini1912 reacted to 3wliya_maryam in Suicide   
    I know it doesn't make sense and I never heard anything like this before. They feel like as much as they try to please God and keep up with their prayers, they think its not enough or that they're still sinning. Alot of the youth tend to misunderstand the fact that God is not a strict being, and in some cases there are conservative societies that make Islam seem like a complicated religion when its not. But this is the first time I ever heard something like this where it lead to someone killing themself. I don't think the suicide part had to do with OCD. The thoughts he was getting was related to OCD but I think it most likely had to with environmental surroundings. It does not make sense, was he aware about the fact that suicide is a grave sin? Or maybe did he think that Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) was not pleased with him either way so he chose to end his life? Allahu a'lam
  23. My Prayers
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from 3wliya_maryam in Suicide   
    I hope you all are with good health. So recently in my neighborhood a young man of about the age of 25 committed suicide.His parents told that apparently he had no psychological issue or depression, that would cause him to do so. However they told that he used to consider himself a bad human being, a sinful Muslim.It was to such extent that whenever he used to do wuzu he never held Qur'an in his hand because he thought that he was najis or ghalees from inside. He used to think and cry that he is not worthy to pray namaz or even go to masjid. So these thoughts were getting severe. He tried his best not to do sin but whenever he did one he couldnt forgive himself or he used to think that Allah didnt forgive him or is angry with what he did.His parents were first happy that their son is a thoughtful Muslim. But later on they tried to explain him that being a human its our nature to do sins and no one is perfect except Allah or the Prophets and their Children. But it didnt had any effect on him.The maulvi refused to pray his Namaz e Janaza, so his father did. He was their only son.
    Now I do also have such thoughts and sometimes I cry a lot even.But frankly speaking it didnt get this severe and somehow we all are used to the sins we do everyday like music and all.This person here was so sensitive that even the slightest of sin made him crazy. So what are your thoughts on this? he however did a major sin before departing from this world, however no one knows what Allah has planned for him or maybe he can be forgived.
    waslam.
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    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from Sirius_Bright in Suicide   
    Thanks alot 
  25. My Prayers
    Hussaini1912 got a reaction from Ali~J in Suicide   
    I hope you all are with good health. So recently in my neighborhood a young man of about the age of 25 committed suicide.His parents told that apparently he had no psychological issue or depression, that would cause him to do so. However they told that he used to consider himself a bad human being, a sinful Muslim.It was to such extent that whenever he used to do wuzu he never held Qur'an in his hand because he thought that he was najis or ghalees from inside. He used to think and cry that he is not worthy to pray namaz or even go to masjid. So these thoughts were getting severe. He tried his best not to do sin but whenever he did one he couldnt forgive himself or he used to think that Allah didnt forgive him or is angry with what he did.His parents were first happy that their son is a thoughtful Muslim. But later on they tried to explain him that being a human its our nature to do sins and no one is perfect except Allah or the Prophets and their Children. But it didnt had any effect on him.The maulvi refused to pray his Namaz e Janaza, so his father did. He was their only son.
    Now I do also have such thoughts and sometimes I cry a lot even.But frankly speaking it didnt get this severe and somehow we all are used to the sins we do everyday like music and all.This person here was so sensitive that even the slightest of sin made him crazy. So what are your thoughts on this? he however did a major sin before departing from this world, however no one knows what Allah has planned for him or maybe he can be forgived.
    waslam.
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