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    husband hitting wife

    Is husband allowed allowed to hit his wife for no reason???
  2. PLZ PLZ DNT THREATEN HER..dnt make her insecure that she will b out of ur life..its clearly shown from her reply that she want to b with u . if she needs time give her time.. dnt do anything just show ur love... i dnt know what u have done so she cant forgive u give her time show u love.. a woman`s heart is not so hard that wont feel her husband`s love.. show her ,make her feel and she will forgive u.. i can only b so hard with my husband if he gets involved with anyother woman because i cant bear that.. i dont know whats in her heart but keep trying.. with patience
  3. salam brother.. as i am a woman i can tell u about our emotions.. first of all she is hurted by u that much that she dont accept u as a husband.. women cant say to her husband a harsh sentence until not even her heart but her soul is badly hurt.. and on times like this only saying sorry or to apologize is not enough... and sometimes ur words dont do the effect at all but ur caring and silence love can do.. what a wife wants from her husband is only love.. obviously she needs other things 2 but they are secondary.. as she dont say or talk, no problem u can do little things for her that a women want to fell that she is being loved.. silently show that u love her and want this relation ship to heal.. like if ever she look at u , u can give her a friendly lovely smile .. she dont smile back or ignores u no problem continue smiling.. another good idea.. u can give her a blanket at night when she lie down to sleep but remember without touching her..if she gets sick take care of her like a mother does for her child this is the best way to say that u love and care.. wait for her when having food so she comes and start her own meal.. when she walks or sits around u look at her from time to time that she know that u looking at her and u concerned about her.. place a red rose next to her pillow from time to time .. place a card on kitchen slab that says u love her.. bring her, her favorite chocolates or a book or her favorite perfume.. show concern about her family members.. there can b thousands of these little things that can bring her closer to u.. but remember it will take time b patient and pray 2 IN SHA Allah Allah WILL HELP U..
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    Which masum would you meet?

    when i read this post i just close my eyes and one SHABEEH came that is of MY IMAM HUSSAIN A.S.. if i ever get this beautiful chance i know i wont be able to say a word i will kiss the soil under his feet and cry and cry and cry for HE is the most MAZLUM IMAM.. and i know HE is the key path to all other MASOOMEEN A.S
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    hey sister dont b soo disappointed.. i can feel ur emotions as females r very sensitive in this matter... when u didnt tell him what u feel for him then whats the regret.. in a way isnt it better that u knew what was in his heart.. imagine if u told him or he came to know about ur feelings and then he regected u what have happend then u must b totally broken..this is our belief that what ever Allah do is the best for us but we dont know so plz lift ur self up u will defienetly forget him and after some years u will remember this time and laugh on urself that how u use to cry read ZIARAT E WARISA every day and u wil feel much better.. offer ur prayers regularly recite QURAN..what else we want sis and come on give us a cute smile of urs
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    Difference between Sunni and Shi'a

    i am not as knowledgeable as all of these posts have given u .. but i just have to say one thing.. the one and the foremost reason for muslims to stay on rite path is the reward which is JANNAT for momoneen.. as IMAM E HUSSAIN A.S is the leader of the men in JANNAT then how can u enter it if u dont accept HIS FATHER AMEER AL MOMINEEN ALI IBN ABI TALIB A.S WALLIULLAH AND AHLUL BAIT A.S... im not saying this... many AHADIS OF MUHAMMAD S.H.W.W have been written not only in shia books but also in sunni books.. so plz think about it
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    i think u r from pakistan and understand urdu.. watch ALLAMA SHEHANSHAH HUSSAIN NAQVI majlis on matam u will know then why we do matam
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    ♥ Marriage ♥

    yes i will defenietly read the book amd make effort.. thank u soo much..
  10. women can go in jalus.. i havent went to a jaloos in pakistan but i was in a jaloos in KARBALA went to HOLY SHRINES..
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    i dont know anything about it an havent thought about it either..i would like to read the answers to this question 2..
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    Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can be

    i think they cannot bear the situations at that time and try to commit suicide... when the situation or emotion go beyond thieir tolerence level as they think or feel so they try to end life...
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    plz read my post

    who ever sees my post say aloud from ur HEARTS SALAM YA HUSSAIN LABAIKA YA HUSSAIN as i want OUR MAZLUM IMAM to know that everyone on this page is with HIM
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    plz read my post

    who ever sees my post plz say in a loud voice from heart SALAM YA HUSSAIN LABAIK KA YA HUSSAIN
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    ♥ Marriage ♥

    my husband is not older then me but still he is the boss.. he is the one planning everything,, giving advise.. always guiding what to do and what not... what should i do then.. im not an independent type of a person but still i got fedup sometimes like im the most ignorant peron who dont know nothing
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    ♥ Marriage ♥

    yes, i pray the same to Allah for me 2 ......
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    Purpose of Life

    i wish i also get to know my purpose of life soon
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    Haa Seen Yaa Noon

    very very beautiful.. it seems like u r saying the words of my heart as i always think about whaT if i were 2 with IMAM HUSSAIN A.S at that time n prefer shahadt instead of leaving my IMAM A.S.. VERY BEAUTIFUL WORDS..
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    muharram main haleem pakana

    i respect u alot becoz u r a SYED but i think u need to search ur self instead of telling others as all of us know that on 9yh and 10th of moharrum AHLUL BAIT A.S were got ready for shahadat how can any one at that time cook haleem and eat
  20. للّهُمّ صَلّ عَلَى مُحَمّدٍ وَآلِ مُحَمّدٍ
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    Mahmood Karimi appreciation thread

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    Have you gone to Karbala?

    KARBALA is a heaven on earth im dying to go there again.. and once u go there u want to go again and again
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    muharram main haleem pakana

    what type of a question is this plz read ur question again.. there was not a single drop of water in karbala and u r asking what was cooked on 9th and 10th of Moharrum... AHLUL BAIT A.S were thirsty for three days and hungry for dont know how many days... and u r asking about cooking????????
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    Have you gone to Karbala?

    praying to go again...it is such a paradise on earth where u once visit u will want to visit again and again..
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    What is saf matam?

    saf e matam is a urdu word. it means a floor where u sit or stand to mourn