Salamalaikum,
I would like to share my experience with the readers and would like to know their perspective regarding this issue. i wont make this a long essay get and straight to the point.
My sister recently got engaged with her fiance in about 3 months ago, as we all know that time period of engagement is for the boy and girl to get to know each other and make their decision.
my sis has been interacting with the boy and they shared their social media accounts ids . my sis has been recently bringing up a statement that the boy has alot of female friends on instagram whom he follows and likes their pictures. (this guy is living in Canada) the pictures contain mostly nudity and filth, most astonishing thing is that the girls whose pics He likes are from His university where he studies and are infreinds. not that my sis is spying on him, its just that he spends alot of time in talking to those females as well as liking their pictures which are 90% of the time nude. He even follows pornstars on instagram. When my sis talked to him regarding this issue he yelled at her saying that what nonsense she is speaking. the guy even refuses to communicate mutually and come to a point.
Now my sis is in a dilema as to what decision she must take next. the boy has a good name from the family and friends but on the other hand she finds the boy this way.
is this behaviour of the guy normal?
is it a normal thing to follow and like filth for men?
should their women be concerned or just let it slide?
I know that i have been doing a wrong thing spying on this guy and checking whom he follows on instagram and whose pics he likes, i am just worried about my sisters future.
please give me your advice and suggestion
thankyou