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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Ali Hamieh in Muawiyah Spoke Fondly Of Ali (ra) Not Cursing Him   
    muawyah not only fought war with Ali but he also killed Malik al ashtar (the right hand of Ali) by poisoning him with honey , then he said " god has soldiers in honey" لله جنود من عسل
    he killed mohamad bin aby bakr the right hand man of Ali and his governor over egypt and he put his body in a dead donkey and burnt it
    He killed ammar bin yaser (the first adviser of imam Ali) in the war of Siffin
    he killed imam hasan through one of his wives by poison
    he killed aburrahman bin udais al balawy who is one of the people who gave bai3ah under the tree
    he put yazeed and directly caused the killing of imam hussain after betraying the treaty that he had with imam hassan
    also he killed hijr bin Adi for refusing to curse Ali
    his love was so much for imam Ali that he killed all of Alis friends and supporters and government officials that Ali specifically chose
    in arabic they say " some types of love actually kills" من الحب ما قتل
    maybe muawyahs love for Ali was so extreme that he killed all his friends and tried to killl him too if he managed to get his hands on him !!!!
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Waiting for HIM in At What Age Should A Girl Get Married? 9, 15 Or 25?   
    (salam)
    payam:
    when islam made polygyny mustahab and made it a sunnah of the prophets and the infalibles didnt Allah know that sweden will have 49% females and 51% males????
    Did Allah say " polygyny is only mustahab in iran and not in sweden" ???
    are you joking ???
    when you calculate ratios you have to be careful,,,, you dont calculate the total but you claculate the people capable of marriage
    for example little kids below puberty are not capable
    if you count all the females above 10 years old and all the males above 15 years old you will definatly have millions extra females , not only because females mature earlier but because they die later and have a higher life expectency
    there are many other complicated factors like homosexuality which is practised by males double of the females
    other factors like prisoners is also a contributing factor in increasing the female population because most prison inmates are males and in some countries like the usa they represent almoist 6% of the total male population
    all this and we dont have accurate stats and all stats are contradictory
    for example let me give you example
    iraq has lost millions of males and the CIA statistics is still saying that the male population below 65 years is more !!!!!!
    the iraqi TV channels said that they currently have one million widows only from this last war ,,,,,,
    so ina country of 6 million adult males how could killing two or three million withing few years not skew the population ????
    thats why i dont trust the CIA fact book statistics
    iraq's population has been stagnant for so many years and most of the deaths are on young males so how could the males still be more ??
    just doesnt make sense ,,, go there and you will see how much females are there and how many of them live and ie without marriage because of the evil false monogomy that has been imposed
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Maryaam in Forced Marriage - A Male Perspective   
    so if your parents told you to go and kill some one you will do it ?
    they told you to marry a human whom you don't like and you agreed? did you have any consideration for the girl that you married? that you dont like her and hence you will destroy her life forever and maybe thats her only time that she would get married ?
    in islam there is no such thing as obeying the parents infact the quraan says to disobey them when they order you to do evil.
    the only thing the quran says is to have a kind companionship with them due to the many favors they have on you,
    its very unfair and love can come after marriage and maybe your current relation will fix up inshallah. you can always marry the other one too as Allah encourages that but if you are to be a mumy's boy and listen to whatever (good or bad) instructions that your parents give then i advice you to not marry anyone and destroy their lives, because you never know maybe they will order you to harm the wife and you would say " my parents i have to respect them and harm the wife"
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from wayfarer. in Muslim Gays marrying lesbians   
    (salam)
    gays and lesbians have no place in islam and there must be zero tolerance towards them and thier evil actions
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Hasan0404 in Is Mutah Common In Your Area?   
    salaam
    am also in Australia, melb, the society is extremely hypocritical... fornication is rampant, gays, all sorts of sexual corruptions. Hardly any of the young people with me in university or school did not fall into major sexual corruptions.
    maybe the best girl in my section of the university only held hands with boys in public (even though she had hijab) so I dont want to say what the worse did and they also had hijab...
    This same hypocrite society fights temporary marriage while it dwells in the most hideous and ugly sexual deviations.
    the parents living in complete denial and illusion and delusion of the reality of their kids and each of them says " no my kid doesn't do that"
    I dont know what to think whether they are genuinely stupid or that they have self imposed stupidity ??? I mean they remember their own self when they were young so why would they expect their kid to be any different than what they were? Did they forget their own scandals?
    1) we have an example of a girl who was in a haraam relationship with a man for 2 years and she admits that she fornicates with him but not the complete fornication, she has hijab and goes to the mosque ,,,
    This same girl was accusing and ruining the reputation of another girl who contracted mut3a as an engagement with the man that she later married permanently.
    guess whose reputation was destroyed in the society and who made it to the front lines? the admitting fornicator or the legitimate follower of the sunnah applying mut3a in its most suitable application (engagement)?
    The prophet told us that at the end of times evil will be seen as good and good as evil
    that same girl who admitted her corruption was faced with a big test after the two years of illegitimate relationship/// her fornication partner suddenly decided to do mut3a with her so he proposed that to her ...
    she got very offended and made a big fight with him how dare he says mut3a lol
    2) I Faced a similar situation myself,,, i went with a girl who used to have boyfriend i the past , also she wears hijab, she wanted a relationship without any contract, when i proposed mut3a she got very offended lol
    she wasn't offended having a haraam relationship but she got very offended from temporary marriage and destroyed the relationship with me for that reason even though she really liked me!!!
    also this one goes to mosques
    3) One of my relatives their son was very into sex from a young age. people complained that he was molesting other girls or trying to but he was very young...
    when he started approaching puberty and passed it we talked to him about muta . His parents got very offended and said dont talk to our son and kept him away ..... later after many years i met him... he has a girlfriend and he is saying that he is expecting a baby from her,,, i said did you do a marriage? he said NO ,,,, I didnt know who to curse
    whats your excuse? Oh i dont know how its done!!!
    I wrote it for him on a paper and i condemned him and told him that he needs to quickly turn to marriage.
    he did so later as he claimed.
    these people are also hijab wearing allegedly conservative people and come to the mosque often and always read hadeeth al kisaa and dua abu hamza and kumail ibn zyad
    4) another guy who used to come to the mosque I opened the topic with him and he said " yes i have a girlfriend and i practice sex with her" I said to him why didnt you marry? whats so hard about that? he has no answer but to say: I dont know how?
    I didnt know who to curse , the second one ? not really cause his influence is only supposed to be over his followers and these people claim to be followers of ahlulbait...
    I gave him the formula and wrote it for him on a paper and he didnt seem to have problem with applying it .
    5) we have two boys from our community of "[Edited Out]e" (but without the "e" at the end) got convicted of Rape and both belong to mosque visiting alleged religious hypocrites.
    there are countless other scandals which i dont want to say.
    all the above people are not secular or aussies or sunnies, they are allegedly shia conservatives who would kill our brain with their talk about honor and modesty ...
    what do you think ha your experience in australia been any better? tell me so we could move to your suburb lol
    salaam
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from aliasghark in Is Mutah Common In Your Area?   
    most societies are currently doing haraam engagements and fornication relationships before marriage so whats the big deal if instead of that they legitimized it by reciting the 3 words contract?
    Its like kosher and hallal slaughter,,, people already kill the lamb any way so whats so hard about following few extra procedures to legitimize it according to the order of your lord ?
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from wayfarer. in 13 Year Age Difference?   
    14 years is a perfect age gap
    i wish they had a dislike option on shiachat
    do you expect a 31 years old to have never married or tried to marry before ? are you crazy? you want a priest ?
    and why on earth shouldnt he marry???
    yes you would find some one who never married before but that doesnt mean he never fornicated or fell into other marriage related curruptions
    actually youll be lucky if he did mutahs and got married because that will mean its more likely he stayed away from sin if that really matters to you oh but i forgot thats not important is it ? its more important the queer idea of a virgin male lol
    Its not the best its the worst for a man to stay a decade after his puberty and not try to get married by mutah or permenant
    but your imaginary 31 year old suitor who never married before... oh how cute he reserved himself for you ,,, how gay what a turn off when women start to prefer queers as thier ideal
    This is not nieve its delusional and evil criteria because marriage is not a crime but the sins are
    a proper girl who is seeking a 31 year old guy should put a conditions that " he must have either tried or did marry before" otherwise it would be a dagerously scary sign of a guy to say he didnt try or marry at all
    you can expect this sort of thing if the guy is 14 years old but if the girl is herself old and she wants the guy a bit older than herself then this criteria will gurantee her the worse men out there
    1) a liar who married but hides it to satisfy her delusional criteria
    2) a nonreligious who doesnt care about marrying because he practises forication or other curruptions so marriage is non of his concern
    3) a queer who is not intrested in females
    so ismahan is digging her own grave ,,, we warn against this sort of evil criteria because its equivilant to digging your own grave and if she insists on using this criteria then the day will come where we hear abd news about her
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from wayfarer. in This Community Is Worthless   
    salaam
    ali asghar:
    Usually its the femenists who make personal attacks not me,,, I attack thier anti islamic statements and actions but they start assuuming things and making judegements based on those assumptions.
    for example lets say I promoted early marriage straight away I get a million accusation all ready based on suspecions and most of them personal and nothing to do with the technicality of the topic!!!!....
    so how is this an islamic site when islam can not be promoted as a solution for life???
    we have so many people sitting on the fence because everybody is concerend with thier own popularity in the eyes of the humans and no one dares to argue against the femenist religion which has many ideologies in direct conflict with islam and its dictating its misguided system on us and our children by force...
    how do we falsely claim that islam is going to be a solution yet we disable its lawfuls and allow its unlawful in our life??
    how do we falsely claim that we belive islam is the solution yet we punish everyone who tried to implement its laws in thier life?
    how do we falsely claim that we ove ahlulbait and the prophets why in our life the most hated lifestyle is thiers?
    we are fakes we need to look in the mirror harder and report what we see...
    I personally have never used the report button because i dont really belive that the admins are fair as many of them sit on the fence and are not ready to declare thier views., they are more worried about thier popularity and the votes than the principals and hence they indulge in double standards. \
    for example if person A agrees with me about 9 out of 10 things he/she will keep silent about the 9 things afraid from the reaction of the people yet he/she would wait gladly to point out that 1 issue that they disgree...
    this is a sign that its not the principals which drives the people but its the intrests...
    I was constantly insulted for saying " temporary marriage with prostitute is lawful and hence is a solution for the desperate to avoid haraam" eventhough one of the admins here one day admitted that he did muta with a prostitute, he wasnt picked on because he wanst defending ideology but in my case its so different it turned into the shirt of uthman,,, any topic people disagree with me they bring it up!!!!
    The prophet said " a mumin is the mirror of his momin brother"
    I am being a mirror and people can not stand to see thier ugly realities so they get very angry at the mirror and try to break it......
    I mean look at what i posted here, so far I received many insult at least 4 or five and more if you count the people liking it but what was my crime in this topic? I posed hadeeths supporting laws in which they hate.... thats all
    None of them is going to explain to us what the hadeeth means or why it is fabricated but they will just say:
    "alimohamad is a fool or haydar hussain is stupid that his fingers would stick together or that HH is the abu huraira of this website,,,, things like this"
    they also use explicit language when they insult which I am unable to repeat so haji did a good thing editing ruqayahs post when she made that comment.... its crazy that these girls are more explicit than men!!! i wonder what happened to tiher femenine nature? the praise of shyness in the female but unfortunately its as the prophet said about the last days :::
    he sai:
    the liar will be belived and the truthful will be denied (accused of lie) , the bad will be praised and the good will be condemned .....
    the men will act like women and the women will act like men.
    the women will rule and the men will listen and follow
    the acceptance if homosexuality
    the increase in fornication
    when you look at all this conflict we have in simple terms i am promoting marriage and tehy are promoting forincation ... very simple
    the altrnative of marriage is forincation and this is proven and is all around us in large percentage...
    They hate these hadeeths but am not saying these things its actually imam Ali who is syaing them ??
    is he also a fool?? or is this fabricated and falsely attributed to him? if yes show us how and why with evidence and guide the fools
    if you are merciful you would guide the fools and the misguided and not let them suffer in thier misguidance so please guide us what these hadeeths mean ???
    they are blatently saying that what you promote and do is EVIL
    If this site was truely islamic they would not allow islam to be rediculed like this and they would not allow people who are totally within the islamic boundries and trying to do thier obligation of amr bilmaroof and nahi an almunkar to be attacked so much for doing the right thing...
    I was banned in the past for arguing against a so called "convert" who was saying " death sentence must be abolished" and many things like this which were directly against islam.... so i asked her " which religion are you? what your saying totally contradicts islam!!" she got angry and then they were all on my throat dont offend the poeple whom we are trying so hard to bribe into islam!!! dont wreck our work.....
    as if islam needs people who belive ine the complete opposite of its laws????
    I am trying to tell her that if the base of her religion is on the foundation of abolishing the death penalty then she chose the wrong religion as that will not happen in islam..... i was beign honnest to her but people dont want to hear honnesty ,,,
    The others were saying " dont argue dont offend" they try so hard to "increase the number of converts" as if islam needs quantity not quality ,,,,
    or as if those converts are doing a favour for God so we need to not condemn them them even if they spread falsehood.
    they work on the anti islamic base that the aim justifies the means so we can delude people to bring them to islam!!! your not bringing them to islam at all in that way even if they declare islam,,,
    I would appriciate if instead of the name calling that some one can answer the questions and give thier tafseer of the hadeeths that I posted.
    salaam
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from always searching sister in Question About Marriage Proposal Hadith   
    Salaam
    As far as I remember what is makrooh is not muta with virgin but it's the consummating of the muta with virgin
    Regarding precaution fatwas, you have two options:
    - Preferably, to consult a scholar who has a definite fatwa (regardless allowing or prohibiting)
    - Otherwise, to just take the precaution, but sometimes if the scholar has many precaution fatwas (due to his uncertainty) this will disable your life by prohibitng the lawful, and hence opening haraam doors due to the unneccesary closure of halaal doors.
    This is because, not all precautionary fatwas are based on evidence of 'karahiyya' (reprehension), but some of them are based on the uncertainty of the scholar. Therefore if it is based on karahiyya it is better to take the precaution, but if it based on the uncertainity of the scholar, it is better to consult the certain one (irrespective of his opinion, prohibition or allowance, what you like to hear or what you dislike to hear).
    Therefore it is prefered to not rely on precautionary fatwas, but rely on definite ones.
    Salaam
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Abdullah88 in This Community Is Worthless   
    Salaam,
    Yes, I think she has to accept it, it is not her business to reject things that God accepts, and it is between two other people, so why would she stick her nose in and dictate what other people should or should not do?
    Do you put your nose in other people's relationships and tell them they are not allowed to get married?
    Likewise, the first wife is a third party to the second marriage and has no say in it.
    It is the need and the want and the God given right of the husband and the second wife, therefore no other creature has the right to interfere and prohibit the lawful, that is why Imam Ali says 'the jealousy of the female is kufr' (in najul balagah).
    Otherwise you explain to me what it means, for the jealousy of the female to be equated to kufr?
    No, that is not true,
    There are reports that Imam Ali contracted Mutah (very likely in the time of Fatima)
    Also, he has other women along with Umm al Baneen who is highly regarded in Islam
    The fact that they start off their life with one wife, is not an indication that they were aiming to be monogamous. What counts is the end results when the conditions allowed them, they took more than one wife and that's what counts.
    also what counts is what they said... not only what they did because maybe thier condition doesnt allow them to practise everything that they want to promote yet they promote it by the words...
    for example imam Ali propotes just leadership but he was psuhed away from it can we say " imam doesnt belive in just leadership because he didnt practise it ?"
    this is false because he was pushed away from it and his condition didnt allow him
    Having multiple wives is an attribute of the Prophets because it is a sign of successful leadership.
    One haddith of imam redha says:
    in the white rooster there are five traits from the traits of the prophets:
    knowledge of the prayer times, jelaousy, generousity, bravery and many wives
    reference wasael alshia volume 20 page 152-157
    another hadeeth by imam redha
    three things are from the sunnah of the prophets, perfume , trimming the hair and many wives
    imam sadiq said :
    no possesiveness is allwoed except to men. possessiveness from women is jelaousy and possesiveness is just for men.. This is because a woman is only allowed a single man where as men are allowed four wives, and Allah is too generous that he would allow for them jealousy, while it is hallal for a man to have three wives other than her.
    reference wasael alshia volume 20 page 152-157
    imam assadiq said :
    indeed Allah the exhaulted and glofiried has not given (or allowed) posessiveness to woman. EVIL women are posessive , and the believing ( mumin) women are not. however Allah the exhaulted and glorified has given ( allowed) posessiveness to men, because it is allowed for a man to have up to four wives or his mulk alyameen girls, whereas a woman is only allowed her husband. therefore if she desires another husband alongside of him, then she is a adulteress before Allah.
    reference wasael alshia volume 20 page 152-157
    Also when the prophet started his mission he had a secret mission because the conditions were not ready so we can not say " his objective was the secrecy of the mission"
    also imam Ali was pushed away from leadership for 22 years and he was digging wells ..... but we can not say that imam Alis ultimate ambition was to dig wells while his knowledge and justice could have turned this world into a heaven had the people followoed him!!!!
    any way i debated this issue so much with so many different people here so you can discuss it in the other topics which are already open so they dont come and close your topic or get yourself in trouble
    salaam
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Abdullah88 in Question About Marriage Proposal Hadith   
    Salaam
    As far as I remember what is makrooh is not muta with virgin but it's the consummating of the muta with virgin
    Regarding precaution fatwas, you have two options:
    - Preferably, to consult a scholar who has a definite fatwa (regardless allowing or prohibiting)
    - Otherwise, to just take the precaution, but sometimes if the scholar has many precaution fatwas (due to his uncertainty) this will disable your life by prohibitng the lawful, and hence opening haraam doors due to the unneccesary closure of halaal doors.
    This is because, not all precautionary fatwas are based on evidence of 'karahiyya' (reprehension), but some of them are based on the uncertainty of the scholar. Therefore if it is based on karahiyya it is better to take the precaution, but if it based on the uncertainity of the scholar, it is better to consult the certain one (irrespective of his opinion, prohibition or allowance, what you like to hear or what you dislike to hear).
    Therefore it is prefered to not rely on precautionary fatwas, but rely on definite ones.
    Salaam
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    alimohamad40 reacted to Haydar Husayn in Question About Marriage Proposal Hadith   
    That's true, but I doubt there is any marja out there who says that doing mut`a with a rashida virgin is outright haram, so in any case you could just keep moving down the chain until you got to Rohani (or someone else who gave the same fatwa). There are sahih ahadith that say it's allowed after all. Also, considering Rohani became a mujtahid at 14, I don't think it would be very unlikely that he would be near the top of most people's list when it came to most knowledgeable marjas.
    Sure, but the rules of taqlid allow someone else to be consulted. Anyway, the point is that it is not correct to say someone's marriage would be null and void in these circumstances.
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    alimohamad40 reacted to Haydar Husayn in Question About Marriage Proposal Hadith   
    If a certain marja, such as Sayyid Sistani says that out of obligatory precaution a rashida woman needs the consent of her wali, and another marja, such as Sayyid Rohani says she doesn't, then in any case the muqalid of Sistani can take Rohani's fatwa since Sistani's was only out of obligatory precaution. I therefore seriously doubt that Sistani would say that the marriage of someone who took Rohani's fatwa was null and void (or even haram).
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Wahdat in Are Men Attracted To Intelligence?   
    In reality the truth is far from what you say. Most women love empty and arrogant jerks and this proven you can ask relationship experts
    In my experience the most arrogant and abusive men got the most women. In my uni there were examples like that.
    I think when the men is arrogant and shows that he is not desperate and doesn't value her much then she starts chasing him and sticking
    Men also seem to prefer bimbos because they are also empty.
    Good people however are very different to this.
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Ruq in To improve ShiaChat.com... [OFFICIAL THREAD]   
    sorry this might be irrelavant to whats being said right now but to answer the origional question:
    To improve shiachat i would : add a dislike button and dont limit the number of dislikes so I wouldnt end up like Goku begging for more "likes" because he ran out of his quota at the first day of the month .....
    I would clock my dislike quota in the first hour of the month
    salaam
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    alimohamad40 got a reaction from Abu Hadi in Are Men Attracted To Intelligence?   
    In reality the truth is far from what you say. Most women love empty and arrogant jerks and this proven you can ask relationship experts
    In my experience the most arrogant and abusive men got the most women. In my uni there were examples like that.
    I think when the men is arrogant and shows that he is not desperate and doesn't value her much then she starts chasing him and sticking
    Men also seem to prefer bimbos because they are also empty.
    Good people however are very different to this.
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