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Afsaneh14

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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Eddie Mecca in Jehovah Witnesses knock at your door...   
    At first i used to discuss with them but they didnt really listen they just talked about their own thing, but most of the things we agreed on (eg the return of christ). BUT THEY COME EVERY SINGLE DAY IT IS SO ANNOYING. I actually hide from them now. They are like spongebob. Clingy and annoying
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Northwest in Depression associated with my home   
    Brother I understand exactly where you are coming from. For long time I suffered from clinical depression/bipolar disorders and it is one of the most diificult battles to fight in your life. Everyday is like a war inside your head.
    The most important thing to remember that God is with you. God would not have put you through these things if he did not believe you were strong enough- He has more faith in us that we have I ourselves.
    Of course, you need to help yourself as well. remember, sometimes there isn't a "root cause", it is just god's will, or due to uncontrollable factors like genetics. Get help from the people you are close to, find a hobby (it takes a long time, I still don't have one!), exercise, eat health etc
    May Allah grant you shifa ameen

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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Ansar Shiat Ali in Gay   
    @Ron_Burgundy @Islandsandmirrors @Sindbad05 @Gaius I. Caesar You know, i think from our last experience, trying to come up with a conclusion on this topic is like a dog chasing its tail. There are just so many elements from nature vs nurture,modernity, feelings vs actions, mental health, culture,  It will never end. 
    As humans, the best thing we should do is love one another, just as Amir ul mumineen taught us too. A master loves his servants. The creator loves all his creations, but hates its sins. And the best way to reverse sins is through love
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from AmirioTheMuzzy in know any ex shias?   
    Hassan Shemrani -_- 
    Aka Donkey that tries to be a lion at hyde park's speakers' corner and tries asserting dominance by shouting like an ogre, but never actually has any valid arguments.
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Ashvazdanghe in Chador vs Hijab   
    I stayed in iran for ages. If you go to places like tehran all women wear chador- literally half hair all showing and underneath you can wear almost anything, so long as no skin is shown. I remember in tehran we used to wear jeans.
    I will never understand why some people complain about chador in iran. It is so simple to wear it and because it is so loose and half of most womens head is showing anyway, how is it "impractical" or oppressing in anyway.
    Literally, you are just getting a thin cloth and chucking it over your head (even though this isnt actually proper hijab)
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from SeyedMoAbbas in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam everyone i want to thank you all for your kind messages. It really means alot. With a heavy heart  my sister sadly passed away in february. Thank you all for trying to help, inshallah Allah will have mercey on her. 
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to 2Timeless in Is the extravegance on the shrines necessary?   
    I know I'm going to get sooo much hate for saying this.
    If you've been to the holy shrines in Iraq, ( I haven't visited the ones in Syria and Iran so I wouldn't know) you'd know that they are very very extravagant. It's obvious great amounts of money have been spent on them. 
    Thing is, as soon as you pass through security into the haram it's like you're entering another world, it's not like the city outside. The streets of Iraq are full of poverty and destruction . We all know about the children and women who have been orphaned and widowed because of Isis. No doubt, the families of the shohadaa need financial help. 
    When you see the shrines and the continuous renovations being made on them, don't you think the money could be better spent elsewhere ? 
    Of course, the imams deserve the greatest respect and honour. But surely the imams wouldn't want more and more money being spent on materialistic things (the appearance) instead of helping those in need in a suffering country. Does anyone think the excessive spending on the shrines is justified when there's so much corruption outside? 
  8. Subhanallah!
    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from SeyedMoAbbas in I’m engaged!   
    Mubarak bashe azizam  may Allah grant you happimess in your life always ❤️
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Islandsandmirrors in I’m engaged!   
    Mubarak bashe azizam  may Allah grant you happimess in your life always ❤️
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to Islandsandmirrors in I’m engaged!   
    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! I can’t believe it! 
    I was NOT expecting a proposal today!  Now I wish I had done my nails a few days in advance. Lol. 
    Pics coming soon!!!!!!!  
    I don’t know what else to say other than I’m SOOOO excited to be marrying my best friend!!! I think I’m still in shock!!! 
  11. My Prayers
    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Soldiers and Saffron in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Yes Allah is All merciful. Everything is for the best intention, thank you brother for reminding me of this, it is very comforting
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to Soldiers and Saffron in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un!
    I am sad to hear that, you know sometimes death is a form of mercy. For example if Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى knows the person will do worse staying alive in terms of sins, He might take him/her before their bad deeds start to overweight their good deeds. Likewise some times sickness is form of mercy. For example some people may get very sick before they finally pass away, this can be because Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى wants us to pay for ours sins in this life rather than the next.
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to AbdusSibtayn in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Innalillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon.
    May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى forgive her.
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to shadow_of_light in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    خدا خواهرتون رو رحمت کنه و به روحشون آرامش بده و غم و غصه های شما رو هم به شادی تبدیل کنه.
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Islandsandmirrors in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam everyone i want to thank you all for your kind messages. It really means alot. With a heavy heart  my sister sadly passed away in february. Thank you all for trying to help, inshallah Allah will have mercey on her. 
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Mansur Bakhtiari in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam everyone i want to thank you all for your kind messages. It really means alot. With a heavy heart  my sister sadly passed away in february. Thank you all for trying to help, inshallah Allah will have mercey on her. 
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Ashvazdanghe in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Thanks for kind words, means a lot. Sometimes death seems easier than living Allah always does what is best, alhamdilillah
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Soldiers and Saffron in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam everyone i want to thank you all for your kind messages. It really means alot. With a heavy heart  my sister sadly passed away in february. Thank you all for trying to help, inshallah Allah will have mercey on her. 
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from Hameedeh in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam everyone i want to thank you all for your kind messages. It really means alot. With a heavy heart  my sister sadly passed away in february. Thank you all for trying to help, inshallah Allah will have mercey on her. 
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from SeekingHeaven in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Whatever Allah wills is best. She was beyond physical help in drug addiction was in the final stage. But alhamdilillah she tried hard with spirituality. The lord works in mysterious ways
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to SeekingHeaven in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam sister, sorry for your lose, I hope you don't mind me asking but what was the cause of her passing?
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to mesbah in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Inna lillah wa inna ilayhi raji'un
    To God we belong and to Him we return.
    Condolences.
    I remember you said you (and she also) had a difficult life with several losses at young age, May Allah reward you for your patience and compensate what you have lost with His blessings and bounties. 
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    Afsaneh14 reacted to ireallywannaknow in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    So sorry to hear about your loss. Duas for you, your family and sister. 
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from SeekingHeaven in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam everyone i want to thank you all for your kind messages. It really means alot. With a heavy heart  my sister sadly passed away in february. Thank you all for trying to help, inshallah Allah will have mercey on her. 
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    Afsaneh14 got a reaction from ireallywannaknow in sister getting married.. in a different way   
    Salam everyone i want to thank you all for your kind messages. It really means alot. With a heavy heart  my sister sadly passed away in february. Thank you all for trying to help, inshallah Allah will have mercey on her. 
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