Ziaratekarbala

I'm not afraid of being alone, I actually love it and am very independent. Unfortunately I love him... or maybe its the fact that he's the father of my kids and I can't imagine another man taking that place in my kids lives... that's the real problem. Really believe in marriage as something you only do once...especially when kids are involved..

LOL! If only

LOL!

I had a dream I am confused about. My friend is gone for ziarat currently with her husband. I dreamed she came to visit me all ready dressed in black. Shes standing in my house with her husband. Im lying on the couch with a blanket on asking her if she has everything she needs. I offer her black slippers saying she will need them... Quote

I hope I can be as strong as you and learn to let go...

Im sorry to hear about your situation Notme. Im just being defensive because its hard to open up and write about the things I've been through. I don't like telling people and I just feel vulnerable. It can't have been easy.. I am going through something very similar.Im sorry if I offended anyone here .. I put this post up for a second opinion, because I don't want to make a decision I may regret later on. At least things are a little clearer in my mind now :/

You think as a man. What you forget is the Imams where Imams, not average men. There is very few men who can do justice like this now. Prophet Muhammed s.a. never remarried while bibi Khadija a.s. was alive and Imam Ali a.s listened to bibi Fatimah a.s. request to not marry while she was still living. Im not perfect but I have worked very hard on my marriage.

m not interested in ever marrying again. He never treated us equally.... Endtimes you really must think more before quoting. This is about my current marriage. On one hand you are saying his marriage is acceptable and also discouraging me on second marriage? There are many sisters who are happy in second marriages. I just want to discuss my situation which is he is not supporting us. I earn and run the house, he earns and sends money to a woman who has no responsibility other than to look beautiful for her husband. When I complain he tells me he has no money.

Sorry guys. i can't stop laughing at all these comments Hes a loser I know but he is the father of my kids. Endtimes I have been married for 19 years and have 3 kids. sorry about the bad english, was typing while driving. Anyway the funniest thing is the ones who are mostly questioning whether I should go through with divorce are actually men. If the tables were turned and it was the woman doing this I wonder how many men would still advise me to think carefully... There's lots I left out from this story, like the bit that the second wife is a golddigger and will wait it out

I would like some advice on my marraige situation. I have been married for 19 years and have children. Our marraige has been very rocky. I lived through alot of opposition from my husbands family because we are from diffetent cultures. Personally I think he only married me to begin with for a british passport. During our marraige we lived apart on many occasions because of his unstability and not having a permanent house. He visited Pakistan alot during those times and threatened to remarry. Luckily his uncle talked him out of it. When my youngest son was 1 year old things got really bad

I also had a dream i am confused about. My friend is gone for ziarat currently with her husband. I dreamed she came to visit me all ready dressed in black. Shes standing in my house with her husband. Im lying on the couch with a blanket on asking her if she has everything she needs. I offer her black slippers saying she will need them...

I also had a dream i am confused about. My friend is gone for ziarat currently with her husband. I dreamed she came to visit me all ready dressed in black. Shes standing in my house with her husband. Im lying on the couch with a blanket on asking her if she has everything she needs. I offer her black slippers saying she will need them...