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In the Name of God بسم الله


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  1. It seems a trend for many Muslims to easily labeling as haram on almost anything such as music, sports, driving, riding bicycles, movies, TV, INTERNET including youtube, etc. thus unnecessarily harming health, work and educational opportunities for many, especially for women. Such trend would be a catalyst for attacks on Islamic system as a whole from inside and out if left ignored. In going over how things are ruled as haram(prohibited), let us start with Quran as a source. Ayat can be muHkam or mutashabih. The muHkam /clear verse which can be ‘aam / general, khaas / spec
  2. Some people reported here that they are afraid of losing faith by listening to music. What kind of weak faith they got? It is important to review and assess why they got such shaky weak faith to begin with.
  3. I guess monad is not aware of "growing evidence that listening to music help stimulate seemingly lost memories and even help maintain some cognitive functioning." Please see the Harvard article I posted earlier, and more links posted below. https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/music-and-health https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/music-can-boost-memory-and-mood Music helps to prevent dementia and even helps people with Alzheimer’s Disease by enhancing memories. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2914108/
  4. Is there any references in shia hadith so we can locate the source to examine?
  5. Being majority is not any proof of fact or truth by itself. If majority is always right, then Sunni would be the right one from that logic. Understandings or beliefs by the majority change over time. So it is individual choice to follow understanding of the majority, or the most powerful of time, or his own reasoning. I personally understand "Idle talks" as fighting words and gossiping other people's business. If you put all music under "idle talks" category but not including movies, animations, novels, cartoons, comedies and chatting, you are not making sense. May
  6. Yes, It is fine with me for someone deciding never to listen music in his life, or chose to do things or avoid as he understood for his life. However, problem comes when someone forces others his/her understanding of Quran or hadith.
  7. It is important to know for any women/girls before marriage if fiance is not affected by pervert-like ideas given by bad friends, internet, or other influences that might harm her health. What if he was a serial muta doer who is very unhealthy physically and psychologically? It is essential to make sure he has clean mind and body. Ideally, it is good to have professionally prepared questionnaire for him to answer under oath. Then professionally analyzed. There are many dangerous activities out there that can kill us.
  8. Could you tell me proofs of that Music is haram according to Quran or hadith, exactly? As matter of fact, Music and Dance are proven to prevent dementia and improve memory according to researches. http://neuro.hms.harvard.edu/harvard-mahoney-neuroscience-institute/brain-newsletter/and-brain-series/dancing-and-brain Whenever certain understandings from hadith or Quran harm our health or mind, I would like to examine and analyze where such teaching came from. There is music therapy for autistic children. Music encourages many people going through difficult times. Dancing is good f
  9. Excuse me? What do you mean by that? Please kindly tell us examples under what situations that someone stronger could justify abuses, torture, violence against weaker ones.
  10. Was Allah all alone before start creating? Allah with complete, permanent, non-changing knowledge of what he is going to create would wait before creating? Time is relative concept of order or sequence, some say. Allah is a creator by nature, so Allah would create. Allah al-awwal actually describing causal relationship instead of time difference? Since Allah will not change, Allah would not start having the will to create at some point of time? Created beings exist after Allah wills it with His power with His words based on His knowledge. 7:54 and 11:7 give impression of time frame during All
  11. There are good and bad people in this world, and even bad people become parents. There are many toxic parents who tells wrong things to children and show bad examples. There are selfish and abusive parents who harm or sacrifice own children for their desires. Since no parents are infallible, we can't not blindly obey our parents to follow wrong orders and destroy ourselves. I hope there are hadith or other sources in shia that provide guidance to unfortunate children of such parents. Does anyone have any?
  12. * Correction! * My stance there was to assume innocence unless proven guilty. But especially with opposite gender.. especially with men,,, it might be right to assume everyone as potentially bad unless proven otherwise. And possibility of you being right is higher at the 2nd stance. It would be so ironic when good sisters are trying to learn Islam and good brothers are kindly offering knowledge on Islam,, and they both end up sinning together.
  13. Indeed. Certain things are hard to imagine without actually been there as she said also.
  14. Terminal cancer patient is usually go under palliative care that is "a medical care that focuses on providing patients with relief from the discomfort, pain, symptoms, physical and mental distress to improve quality of life as the priority rather than cure. It is best to have loved ones, family and friends supporting emotionally the individual going through terminal cancer. I wonder if the individual going through terminal cancer should keep their faith and hope up for miracles and cure, if so, how long? And when should he/she accept death and prepare for it spiritually and emot
  15. Normally, city ordinance in many countries has quiet time after 10 PM. Do they make noise beyond such hour? And how many days or hours the noise persists?
  16. The photos shows only a handful photos of normal looking brothers. For more photos of hosts, you have to register and log in. So tell me what are you talking about? I am too lazy to register it to see atm.
  17. Of course sisters hosting sisters, brothers hosting brothers. Quran 2:177 says to help travelers. لَّيْسَ الْبِرَّ أَن تُوَلُّوا وُجُوهَكُمْ قِبَلَ الْمَشْرِقِ وَالْمَغْرِبِ وَلَٰكِنَّ الْبِرَّ مَنْ آمَنَ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ وَالْمَلَائِكَةِ وَالْكِتَابِ وَالنَّبِيِّينَ وَآتَى الْمَالَ عَلَىٰ حُبِّهِ ذَوِي الْقُرْبَىٰ وَالْيَتَامَىٰ وَالْمَسَاكِينَ وَابْنَ السَّبِيلِ وَالسَّائِلِينَ وَفِي الرِّقَابِ وَأَقَامَ الصَّلَاةَ وَآتَى الزَّكَاةَ وَالْمُوفُونَ بِعَهْدِهِمْ إِذَا عَاهَدُوا ۖ وَالصَّابِرِينَ فِي الْبَأْسَاءِ وَالضَّرَّاءِ وَحِينَ الْبَأْسِ ۗ أُولَٰئِكَ الَّذِينَ صَدَ
  18. Actually, there are 34732 people in Tehran, both male and female in Iran that hosting travelers their couch/sofa right now! Thanks to the link provided by Certainclarity above. Iran got almost everything available!
  19. Do you mean there is a low cost camp site, cabin, or lodges in parks? I met a girl from Germany couch surfing in Canada. https://www.couchsurfing.com/ That is a system that travelers sleep on someone's sofa for free but I am not sure that is available in Iran. And there are some reports of murder while couch surfing, so beware. Is there bed and breakfast system as seen often in Europe and North America where someone rent out a room to a guest for a fee higher than Youth hostels but lower than hotels in Iran?
  20. Religion comprise of many things such as theology, jurisprudence, etc. Philosophy is a thinking tool to organize thoughts such as Logic, "what is knowledge" in epistemology, and "Is there God?" as part of metaphysics in Philosophy. So you would be very strong in understanding by doing both.
  21. I heard there is an excellent teaching method of Persian language there that people learn enough Persian to attend lectures in 3 to 6 months.
  22. There are exceptions to backbiting prohibition. 1. You are being oppressed, abused, or being violated of your rights, you have right to consult with others. (4:148) 2. For purpose of asking fatwah and explaining the situation 3. Someone asking you information before marrying. There were more. But these are what I can remember at moment.
  23. Why don't you go to study at hawza in Qom, Iran? It seems the best way.
  24. Salam, sis.

    I am very much interested in contact method to Sheikhs who are answering questions.


    1. StarryNight


      I sent you a private message ;)

  25. @StarryNight I have sent e-mails and QA box to Sheikhs but never got replies. So far, same gender I have met so far never had answer, unfortunately. Not all opposite gender is controlled by sheytaan. I will PM you to request sheikh's contact address. Thanks.
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