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In the Name of God بسم الله

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  1. First, you don’t know him very much. So be wary. Second, you have to decide by your intellect. Everyone has intellect, but unfortunately, they mostly do not use it. Third, there is a difference between love and lust. You should know who the right person is. Fourth, hanging around with a different gender is not a good advice. The best friend of you could be found in the same gender. Fifth, the satisfaction of romantic relation is dissimilar between males and females. Men satisfy in a sudden, women satisfy gradually. So long time relation shows the reality. Sixth, any ro
  2. I am a Muslim and I do not hate anyone just because of his or her religion. There is an interesting verse in the holy Qur’an about Christians: So Islam does not urge any Muslim to hate any person just because of their religion. Instead, it commands to abhor the ones who have self-arrogance and are real tyrants. Looking at the Islamic narrations, you find some attributes of the ones who Allah, the Exalted, hates: So, anyone who has some above-mentioned attributes is most despised by the Lord, His Messenger, and Muslims. لَتَجِدَنَّ أَشَدَّ النَّاسِ عَدَا
  3. Hijab is a general rule for every person. Nobody is allowed to appear naked in the public. The difference between Muslims and non-Muslims in hijab issue is just the limitation of covering. A Christian woman observes some type of covering when she walks in the street, but it is not absolutely a perfect covering. We should note that hijab is not just an Islamic command. Jews and Christians have hijab. Look at the pictures below: The interesting point is that even western women about 100 years ago observed hijab. So, why a Muslim girl should not wear hijab?
  4. It is worth mentioning the opinion of Iran’s Supreme Leader about this issue: Source: The Leader's View of Hijab
  5. Unfortunately, there are lots of discrimination in the world, especially about the jobs. After modernization in 18th and 19th centuries in the west, the governments attempted to open new factories and manufacture new products. In order to have better outputs, they employed lots of employers. Among them were women and even children. They paid them very low income with the high working day. It was a prevalent discrimination until lots of protests staged after the advent of some novels like ‘Oliver Twist’. After that, the labor laws were passed banning employers from engaging children for hard wo
  6. The covering body was one of the first actions of the wise human being. According to Islamic narrations, Adam and Eve (peace be upon them) had some sort of hijab. When they tasted of that forbidden tree, they became naked and then attempted to cover themselves. The Holy Qur’an attests the story: “So they both ate of it, and their nakedness became evident to them, and they began to stitch over themselves with the leaves of paradise. Adam disobeyed his Lord, and went amiss.” Thus, it seems that covering the body roots in the nature of the wise human beings. Hijab was observed gradually by
  7. Salamun Alayhum. First, the command of hijab is revealed by the Lord. “ O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the faithful to draw closely over themselves their chadors [when going out]. That makes it likely for them to be recognized and not be troubled, and Allah is all-forgiving, all-merciful.” Second, when there is a paradox between the command of your creator and your parents, you have to obey Allah, the Exalted. “ But if they urge you to ascribe to Me as partner that of which you have no knowledge, then do not obey them. Keep their company honourabl
  8. The Holy Messenger of Islam peace be upon him said, ‘Love children and have mercy on them.’ ‘Part of the prosperity of a man is that he has a righteous child.’[ii] ‘Whoever has a child should act childishly to him.’[iii] A sensible and well-balanced family system is the very foundation of a happy life. Indeed, it is the root of an advancing civilization. Religion comes to take human beings nearer to Allah. Therefore, it must create an atmosphere conducive to that ideal; otherwise, it cannot achieve its goal. The Holy Prophet said to `Ali (a.s.): “O' `Alli, there are as many rights o
  9. It is a grave sin. The grave sin is a kind of sin which Allah, the Exalted, has mentioned punishment for it in the Qur’an. A grave sin could also occur when someone insists on a sin which s/he thinks is not so important. But it is very important to avoid them. A non-hijabi woman continuously commits a sin. The Holy Qur’an has ordered women to cover themselves in some situations. “And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts and do not display their ornaments except what appear thereof. And let them wear their head coverings over their b
  10. Salamun Alaykum. Allah, the Exalted, has created everything on the earth or in the sky. He is the one who created Love and Compassion. He loves what he has created. It is the free will of human and Jinn that sometimes banish them from the Lord’s bliss. Allah, the Exalted stated in the Holy book of the Qur’an: “Say, ‘If you love Allah, then follow me; Allah will love you and forgive you your sins, and Allah is all-forgiving, all-merciful.’” Thus, it is you who can make such a good relationship with Allah, the Exalted. Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, ‘Whoever wants to know the st
  11. Since the beginning of time, women have always been exploited. Known for our gentleness, delicateness, and beauty, women are often used as mere objects to attract men or sell products and services. Unfortunately, today a woman’s physical beauty is likened to a man’s trophy, to be shown off to the whole world. In an interview with former rapper “Napoleon” from Tupac Shakur’s band, the OutLawz, revert Mutah Beale said, “The music industry is where they really exploit and degrade women. We’d pay them a hundred bucks to strip for our music videos, and they’d do it!” Sadly, women have become well a
  12. It could be a lot, but I love my parents. Everyone should love his or her parents, although they may have some disagreements. Nobody should offend or discredit his or her parents. The Holy Prophet of Islam peace be upon him says: “Beware! Abstain from angering the parents. The fragrance of Paradise is perceived even at a distance of a thousand years, but those who are disobedient to parents and those who cut off ties with relatives will not be able to smell it.” The Holy Prophet peace be upon him also said. “One who displeases the parents, (it is as if) he has displeased Al
  13. Naming children the name of animals or evil creatures is really dreadful. You should call your kids with a name that when you call him or her you feel pleasure and respect. The holy Prophet of Islam, peace be upon him said: 'Name your children after the prophets.' Imam al-Kazim, Shiites’ seventh Imam (pbuh), said, 'The very first act of kindness of a man towards his son is to give him a good name, so keep good names for your children.'[ii] I think the most favorite name can be Muhammad, because it means someone who is praised. رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : سَمُّوا أولادَكُم أسماء
  14. According to the Longman Dictionary, sexist means “someone who believes that one sex is weaker, less intelligent, or less important than the other, and treats them unfairly because of this – used to show disapproval”. If your husband feels he is the higher gender and suppose you as an inferior, you are facing a problematic issue. Most of the time, this kind of personality forms in a person after a change in their ideology or beliefs. No one is born sexist. Thus, omitting the reasons of making him such a person will bring him back to the real life. You may deliver some good books to him to read
  15. It is not a general problem for all husbands. It is, I assume, pervasive in some specific sort of men who perhaps did not make a right and conscious decision about their couple. It could be also prevalent among married women who think their husbands do not deserve them. If you understand your mutual life and your partner and s/he also realizes your interests and needs, your life will not be constrained to sexual behaviors. Some couples get married to each other just because of presuming to love each other. After a while, when they understand that they have more needs than sexual affairs, they
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