Sirius_Bright

I think your father is interested in your choice and would not deny if you talk to him again and push the matter further. Once you get his approval your problem is solved. If father is the decision maker in your home then care less what your brother thinks. Once your dad explicitly agrees with you bring the matter when sitting with the family. Then ask your guy to officially come with his parents to ask for your hand.

Lol..

Yea, walmart is selling spouses at 50 percent discount.

I disagree. There are parents who genuinely look into what their son or daughter wants others care too much for culture, race, nationality. Being with them for 23 years doesn't mean they are right with every decision. It is possible they have some reason and better option available for her but I believe she would have know that reason if it was the case. In anycase, parents should be respected and as a Muslim, their respect is wajib. Does your dad already know about the person you wish to marry and is disagreeing or he is yet to be informed about your choice? Does your brothers know about your case?

Condolences to the Imaam of our time on shahadat of his jaddah Janabe Zehra (s.a.). Read this thread. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) bring divine punishment to her killers.

Marriage obsessed teenagers (including you).

Definitely.

Praying Salaat is for himself. Helping others is for Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى).

Person 1.

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And what better soil than khaak e Karbala.

@Salsabeel @skyweb1987 Questions: 1. How do we distinguish Mohkam and Mutashabeh verses? Any hadith? 2. Does a verse appearing as simple, decisive (Mohkam) have different interpretation and be a Mutashabeh verse?

Salaam brother, The verse is incomplete and gives wrong meaning. Surah Aal-e-Imran, Verse 7: هُوَ الَّذِي أَنزَلَ عَلَيْكَ الْكِتَابَ مِنْهُ آيَاتٌ مُّحْكَمَاتٌ هُنَّ أُمُّ الْكِتَابِ وَأُخَرُ مُتَشَابِهَاتٌ فَأَمَّا الَّذِينَ فِي قُلُوبِهِمْ زَيْغٌ فَيَتَّبِعُونَ مَا تَشَابَهَ مِنْهُ ابْتِغَاءَ الْفِتْنَةِ وَابْتِغَاءَ تَأْوِيلِهِ وَمَا يَعْلَمُ تَأْوِيلَهُ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَالرَّاسِخُونَ فِي الْعِلْمِ يَقُولُونَ آمَنَّا بِهِ كُلٌّ مِّنْ عِندِ رَبِّنَا وَمَا يَذَّكَّرُ إِلَّا أُولُو الْأَلْبَابِ He it is Who has revealed the Book to you; some of its verses are decisive, they are the basis of the Book, and others are allegorical; then as for those in whose hearts there is perversity they follow the part of it which is allegorical, seeking to mislead and seeking to give it (their own) interpretation. but none knows its interpretation except Allah, and those who are firmly rooted in knowledge say: We believe in it, it is all from our Lord; and none do mind except those having understanding. (English - Shakir) وَالرَّاسِخُونَ فِي الْعِلْمِ - And those firmly rooted in knowledge - refers to Aimma (ams).

This is tricky. If you're interested in him and thinking of a future with him then you should show kindness. If you want to avoid him because of his drinking habits, girlfriend, etc. you shouldn't show any kindness or rudeness just be normal. My two cents: don't fall for him.

I'll advise you to listen to Nauha or Mankabat instead. This way you'll be saved from a sin and instead get reward I. A.