Well, I think that the person that can be a true infidel is the one who can take off partners, if the person can not, it means that he or she has to be a believer... I'm kidding you again, just joking.
I've noticed that at least in this country, people hate the ones who like to give alms to people, they say that is because people who beg are swindlers that either have a lot of money and don't need to beg or are just people that don't want to work.
And some people look at me bad when I give (sometimes not always), and I say s"#~w y/u, I don't have to live like they want me to live, I'm not your puppet in which you can decide how I should live, what I should say. I'm free not a robot.
I respect if they have reasons for not giving but it's my bussiness if I want to give or not.
And in all english classes I was, when there was conversational classes only, they picked up that topic about beggars and why we should give and even at the end of one class the teacher turned to me and said: "Now you see that we shouldn't give, you're not going to do it again, right?" and I said to him: "Of course I'm going to keep giving, if you don't want, don't do it, but I want to"