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rxdbx

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    rxdbx reacted to AkhiraisReal in Bleeding after birth control   
    It actually scares me how many women just take these pills and have no idea what they do to their bodies long term wise other than that the pills are  contraceptive.
    Sure I might be exaggerating, but when we go against our nature our body, of what it's meant to do, there is going to be some damage left, the question is how much is the damage done? 
    When you are meant to be pregnant, but through pills you stop it, what are the damages done to your body?
    It's safer for a man to use contraceptive since they don't have to swallow pills. 
  2. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Hameedeh in Feeling lonely   
    I have friends and people I'm surrounded with, but I feel lonely from the inside. Kinda like God isn't in my life
  3. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Dalal in Abaya in the west   
    Please make dua for my father to let me wear the abaya & accept & support that I want to try putting religion before anything
  4. Sad
    rxdbx got a reaction from Ashvazdanghe in Feeling lonely   
    Salam alaykum,
    lately I've been feeling so empty and lonely. 
    Does anyone have any tips on what to do.
  5. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Stitcher in Feeling lonely   
    Salam alaykum,
    lately I've been feeling so empty and lonely. 
    Does anyone have any tips on what to do.
  6. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Hameedeh in Feeling lonely   
    Salam alaykum,
    lately I've been feeling so empty and lonely. 
    Does anyone have any tips on what to do.
  7. Like
    rxdbx got a reaction from Maryam.It in makeup   
    Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 5/392 
    2 – It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah said: “Allaah has cursed the women who do tattoos and those who ask for tattoos to be done, those who ask for their eyebrows to be plucked, and the women ask for their teeth to be filed for the purpose of beautification, changing the creation of Allaah.” A woman from the tribe of Bani Asad whose name was Umm Ya’qoob heard of that and she came and said, “I have heard that you have cursed So and so and So and so.” He said, “Why should I not curse those whom the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed and who are mentioned in the Book of Allaah?’ She said, “I have read what is between the two covers [of the Qur’aan], and I did not find anything in it like what you have said.” He said, “If you have read it, have you not read that Allaah says,  
    ‘And whatsoever the Messenger (Muhammad) gives you, take it; and whatsoever he forbids you, abstain (from it)’
    Therefore it's not allowed for Sunnis to pluck their eyebrows, because they have this Hadith, but we don't follow Tafseer al-Qurtubi or any other Sunni book, and the Hadith can only be found in Sunni books. Furthermore most of our marjas have said that it is permissible to pluck your eyebrows. However I personally don't know of any Shia Hadiths regarding plucking eyebrows.
  8. Completely Agree
    rxdbx got a reaction from Maryam.It in makeup   
    Sunnis aren't allowed to pluck their eyebrows, however for us it is permissible.
  9. Like
    rxdbx got a reaction from Ashvazdanghe in Fasting everyday   
    Salam,
    I was wondering whether fasting everyday is permissible (except days like eid), and if it is, is it healthy/safe for us? 
  10. Disagree
    rxdbx got a reaction from Propaganda_of_the_Deed in Fasting everyday   
    Salam,
    I was wondering whether fasting everyday is permissible (except days like eid), and if it is, is it healthy/safe for us? 
  11. Like
    rxdbx got a reaction from Hameedeh in Fasting everyday   
    Salam,
    I was wondering whether fasting everyday is permissible (except days like eid), and if it is, is it healthy/safe for us? 
  12. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Aflower in Cutting of relatives   
    She hasn't read or responded to my message
  13. Completely Agree
    rxdbx reacted to Soldiers and Saffron in Difference in religious practice between spouses   
    Ws,
    Remember that it is the father of your future children that you are picking and that he will have a great influence on your spirituality as well as that of any future offspring.
  14. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Gaius I. Caesar in Reporting father   
    My mom can go to jail, but my little sister is a minor and also heavily influenced by everyone around her, so she won't get penalized for it, however my mom is just lying to save my dad so that's her choice.
  15. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Ashvazdanghe in Reporting father   
    My mom can go to jail, but my little sister is a minor and also heavily influenced by everyone around her, so she won't get penalized for it, however my mom is just lying to save my dad so that's her choice.
  16. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Ani in Reporting father   
    Here is an update on my situation, 
    the Monday after the day I ran away to the women's shelter, my dad came home and they (parents and sister) supposedly went out and had pizza together, and he wasn't mad. However this will probably happen again in future, and I'll be happy I left. I want to focus on fixing my mental state and building a life for myself where this isn't something I'll do to my own possible kids in the future.
    The police has said that since there isn't any proof, that he'll most likely be free, because they'd rather let a guilty person walk free, than imprison an innocent person.
    I haven't ever taken any picture of the bruises he has caused me, since running away and reporting him, was never a step I would have dared taking, also they used to take my phone away after he beat me up. I don't have any bruises on myself now either, bc the last time he beat me up was in December, I've also never recorded him doing anything, or told the authorities or anyone (including friends) before this, because I felt so embarrassed. So I don't have any proof.
    He is currently in pre trial custody along with my two uncles, and they'll get released in a week. When they get released I'm going to get a restraining order on the three of them. My mom hasn't messaged me since Sunday, and I haven't messaged her either. Today me and two friends went to the house, and I though that my mom was at work, so I planned to get my sister and make her go home and make sure no ones there, so I could get a couple of things, however my mom was at home and I wasn't able to, but I did get to talk to my sister, and she said that my grandma and aunt on my dads side knows, and my moms relatives in Pakistan think I ran away with a boy lol, so does my grandma here. My aunt said "what jinn got into her". 
    After the incident where my uncle came to the police station, he told the police that he saw my two friends smoke outside the police station.. Lol I guess he wanted to just get them in trouble for something (btw they don't smoke), however it's not even illegal since one is 18. My family is blaming this on my friends, saying that they influenced me to do this, but I would have done this without them.
    My family thinks that I ran away with a guy, however no one has contacted me or anything. I'm going to get the police to go home to me and get my mom to pack a couple of my things, including my winter jackets, since I won't have anything to wear then, at first I didn't approve of the idea since I though it was going to hurt my mom so much to pack my things and all, but I really need my stuff so I'm going to ask them to do it.
    My little sister and mom had their interrogations with the police, and of course they lied in it. So basically it's my word against everyone who's involved.
    I still live in a women's shelter, and things are just really tough right now, I'm trying not to lose hope, however it's just so difficult. But thank you to everyone who made duas and prayed for me. May Allah bless all of you, and help you through your own difficulties. Please continue making duas for me, and pray that I get a good place to live, and that I succeed my education.
  17. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Ashvazdanghe in Reporting father   
    Here is an update on my situation, 
    the Monday after the day I ran away to the women's shelter, my dad came home and they (parents and sister) supposedly went out and had pizza together, and he wasn't mad. However this will probably happen again in future, and I'll be happy I left. I want to focus on fixing my mental state and building a life for myself where this isn't something I'll do to my own possible kids in the future.
    The police has said that since there isn't any proof, that he'll most likely be free, because they'd rather let a guilty person walk free, than imprison an innocent person.
    I haven't ever taken any picture of the bruises he has caused me, since running away and reporting him, was never a step I would have dared taking, also they used to take my phone away after he beat me up. I don't have any bruises on myself now either, bc the last time he beat me up was in December, I've also never recorded him doing anything, or told the authorities or anyone (including friends) before this, because I felt so embarrassed. So I don't have any proof.
    He is currently in pre trial custody along with my two uncles, and they'll get released in a week. When they get released I'm going to get a restraining order on the three of them. My mom hasn't messaged me since Sunday, and I haven't messaged her either. Today me and two friends went to the house, and I though that my mom was at work, so I planned to get my sister and make her go home and make sure no ones there, so I could get a couple of things, however my mom was at home and I wasn't able to, but I did get to talk to my sister, and she said that my grandma and aunt on my dads side knows, and my moms relatives in Pakistan think I ran away with a boy lol, so does my grandma here. My aunt said "what jinn got into her". 
    After the incident where my uncle came to the police station, he told the police that he saw my two friends smoke outside the police station.. Lol I guess he wanted to just get them in trouble for something (btw they don't smoke), however it's not even illegal since one is 18. My family is blaming this on my friends, saying that they influenced me to do this, but I would have done this without them.
    My family thinks that I ran away with a guy, however no one has contacted me or anything. I'm going to get the police to go home to me and get my mom to pack a couple of my things, including my winter jackets, since I won't have anything to wear then, at first I didn't approve of the idea since I though it was going to hurt my mom so much to pack my things and all, but I really need my stuff so I'm going to ask them to do it.
    My little sister and mom had their interrogations with the police, and of course they lied in it. So basically it's my word against everyone who's involved.
    I still live in a women's shelter, and things are just really tough right now, I'm trying not to lose hope, however it's just so difficult. But thank you to everyone who made duas and prayed for me. May Allah bless all of you, and help you through your own difficulties. Please continue making duas for me, and pray that I get a good place to live, and that I succeed my education.
  18. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from SeekingHeaven in Reporting father   
    Here is an update on my situation, 
    the Monday after the day I ran away to the women's shelter, my dad came home and they (parents and sister) supposedly went out and had pizza together, and he wasn't mad. However this will probably happen again in future, and I'll be happy I left. I want to focus on fixing my mental state and building a life for myself where this isn't something I'll do to my own possible kids in the future.
    The police has said that since there isn't any proof, that he'll most likely be free, because they'd rather let a guilty person walk free, than imprison an innocent person.
    I haven't ever taken any picture of the bruises he has caused me, since running away and reporting him, was never a step I would have dared taking, also they used to take my phone away after he beat me up. I don't have any bruises on myself now either, bc the last time he beat me up was in December, I've also never recorded him doing anything, or told the authorities or anyone (including friends) before this, because I felt so embarrassed. So I don't have any proof.
    He is currently in pre trial custody along with my two uncles, and they'll get released in a week. When they get released I'm going to get a restraining order on the three of them. My mom hasn't messaged me since Sunday, and I haven't messaged her either. Today me and two friends went to the house, and I though that my mom was at work, so I planned to get my sister and make her go home and make sure no ones there, so I could get a couple of things, however my mom was at home and I wasn't able to, but I did get to talk to my sister, and she said that my grandma and aunt on my dads side knows, and my moms relatives in Pakistan think I ran away with a boy lol, so does my grandma here. My aunt said "what jinn got into her". 
    After the incident where my uncle came to the police station, he told the police that he saw my two friends smoke outside the police station.. Lol I guess he wanted to just get them in trouble for something (btw they don't smoke), however it's not even illegal since one is 18. My family is blaming this on my friends, saying that they influenced me to do this, but I would have done this without them.
    My family thinks that I ran away with a guy, however no one has contacted me or anything. I'm going to get the police to go home to me and get my mom to pack a couple of my things, including my winter jackets, since I won't have anything to wear then, at first I didn't approve of the idea since I though it was going to hurt my mom so much to pack my things and all, but I really need my stuff so I'm going to ask them to do it.
    My little sister and mom had their interrogations with the police, and of course they lied in it. So basically it's my word against everyone who's involved.
    I still live in a women's shelter, and things are just really tough right now, I'm trying not to lose hope, however it's just so difficult. But thank you to everyone who made duas and prayed for me. May Allah bless all of you, and help you through your own difficulties. Please continue making duas for me, and pray that I get a good place to live, and that I succeed my education.
  19. Like
    rxdbx reacted to aaaz1618 in Reporting father   
    You're very much in our duas and on our minds.
  20. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Vindemiatrix in Reporting father   
    Here is an update on my situation, 
    the Monday after the day I ran away to the women's shelter, my dad came home and they (parents and sister) supposedly went out and had pizza together, and he wasn't mad. However this will probably happen again in future, and I'll be happy I left. I want to focus on fixing my mental state and building a life for myself where this isn't something I'll do to my own possible kids in the future.
    The police has said that since there isn't any proof, that he'll most likely be free, because they'd rather let a guilty person walk free, than imprison an innocent person.
    I haven't ever taken any picture of the bruises he has caused me, since running away and reporting him, was never a step I would have dared taking, also they used to take my phone away after he beat me up. I don't have any bruises on myself now either, bc the last time he beat me up was in December, I've also never recorded him doing anything, or told the authorities or anyone (including friends) before this, because I felt so embarrassed. So I don't have any proof.
    He is currently in pre trial custody along with my two uncles, and they'll get released in a week. When they get released I'm going to get a restraining order on the three of them. My mom hasn't messaged me since Sunday, and I haven't messaged her either. Today me and two friends went to the house, and I though that my mom was at work, so I planned to get my sister and make her go home and make sure no ones there, so I could get a couple of things, however my mom was at home and I wasn't able to, but I did get to talk to my sister, and she said that my grandma and aunt on my dads side knows, and my moms relatives in Pakistan think I ran away with a boy lol, so does my grandma here. My aunt said "what jinn got into her". 
    After the incident where my uncle came to the police station, he told the police that he saw my two friends smoke outside the police station.. Lol I guess he wanted to just get them in trouble for something (btw they don't smoke), however it's not even illegal since one is 18. My family is blaming this on my friends, saying that they influenced me to do this, but I would have done this without them.
    My family thinks that I ran away with a guy, however no one has contacted me or anything. I'm going to get the police to go home to me and get my mom to pack a couple of my things, including my winter jackets, since I won't have anything to wear then, at first I didn't approve of the idea since I though it was going to hurt my mom so much to pack my things and all, but I really need my stuff so I'm going to ask them to do it.
    My little sister and mom had their interrogations with the police, and of course they lied in it. So basically it's my word against everyone who's involved.
    I still live in a women's shelter, and things are just really tough right now, I'm trying not to lose hope, however it's just so difficult. But thank you to everyone who made duas and prayed for me. May Allah bless all of you, and help you through your own difficulties. Please continue making duas for me, and pray that I get a good place to live, and that I succeed my education.
  21. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from aaaz1618 in Reporting father   
    Here is an update on my situation, 
    the Monday after the day I ran away to the women's shelter, my dad came home and they (parents and sister) supposedly went out and had pizza together, and he wasn't mad. However this will probably happen again in future, and I'll be happy I left. I want to focus on fixing my mental state and building a life for myself where this isn't something I'll do to my own possible kids in the future.
    The police has said that since there isn't any proof, that he'll most likely be free, because they'd rather let a guilty person walk free, than imprison an innocent person.
    I haven't ever taken any picture of the bruises he has caused me, since running away and reporting him, was never a step I would have dared taking, also they used to take my phone away after he beat me up. I don't have any bruises on myself now either, bc the last time he beat me up was in December, I've also never recorded him doing anything, or told the authorities or anyone (including friends) before this, because I felt so embarrassed. So I don't have any proof.
    He is currently in pre trial custody along with my two uncles, and they'll get released in a week. When they get released I'm going to get a restraining order on the three of them. My mom hasn't messaged me since Sunday, and I haven't messaged her either. Today me and two friends went to the house, and I though that my mom was at work, so I planned to get my sister and make her go home and make sure no ones there, so I could get a couple of things, however my mom was at home and I wasn't able to, but I did get to talk to my sister, and she said that my grandma and aunt on my dads side knows, and my moms relatives in Pakistan think I ran away with a boy lol, so does my grandma here. My aunt said "what jinn got into her". 
    After the incident where my uncle came to the police station, he told the police that he saw my two friends smoke outside the police station.. Lol I guess he wanted to just get them in trouble for something (btw they don't smoke), however it's not even illegal since one is 18. My family is blaming this on my friends, saying that they influenced me to do this, but I would have done this without them.
    My family thinks that I ran away with a guy, however no one has contacted me or anything. I'm going to get the police to go home to me and get my mom to pack a couple of my things, including my winter jackets, since I won't have anything to wear then, at first I didn't approve of the idea since I though it was going to hurt my mom so much to pack my things and all, but I really need my stuff so I'm going to ask them to do it.
    My little sister and mom had their interrogations with the police, and of course they lied in it. So basically it's my word against everyone who's involved.
    I still live in a women's shelter, and things are just really tough right now, I'm trying not to lose hope, however it's just so difficult. But thank you to everyone who made duas and prayed for me. May Allah bless all of you, and help you through your own difficulties. Please continue making duas for me, and pray that I get a good place to live, and that I succeed my education.
  22. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Gaius I. Caesar in Reporting father   
    Here is an update on my situation, 
    the Monday after the day I ran away to the women's shelter, my dad came home and they (parents and sister) supposedly went out and had pizza together, and he wasn't mad. However this will probably happen again in future, and I'll be happy I left. I want to focus on fixing my mental state and building a life for myself where this isn't something I'll do to my own possible kids in the future.
    The police has said that since there isn't any proof, that he'll most likely be free, because they'd rather let a guilty person walk free, than imprison an innocent person.
    I haven't ever taken any picture of the bruises he has caused me, since running away and reporting him, was never a step I would have dared taking, also they used to take my phone away after he beat me up. I don't have any bruises on myself now either, bc the last time he beat me up was in December, I've also never recorded him doing anything, or told the authorities or anyone (including friends) before this, because I felt so embarrassed. So I don't have any proof.
    He is currently in pre trial custody along with my two uncles, and they'll get released in a week. When they get released I'm going to get a restraining order on the three of them. My mom hasn't messaged me since Sunday, and I haven't messaged her either. Today me and two friends went to the house, and I though that my mom was at work, so I planned to get my sister and make her go home and make sure no ones there, so I could get a couple of things, however my mom was at home and I wasn't able to, but I did get to talk to my sister, and she said that my grandma and aunt on my dads side knows, and my moms relatives in Pakistan think I ran away with a boy lol, so does my grandma here. My aunt said "what jinn got into her". 
    After the incident where my uncle came to the police station, he told the police that he saw my two friends smoke outside the police station.. Lol I guess he wanted to just get them in trouble for something (btw they don't smoke), however it's not even illegal since one is 18. My family is blaming this on my friends, saying that they influenced me to do this, but I would have done this without them.
    My family thinks that I ran away with a guy, however no one has contacted me or anything. I'm going to get the police to go home to me and get my mom to pack a couple of my things, including my winter jackets, since I won't have anything to wear then, at first I didn't approve of the idea since I though it was going to hurt my mom so much to pack my things and all, but I really need my stuff so I'm going to ask them to do it.
    My little sister and mom had their interrogations with the police, and of course they lied in it. So basically it's my word against everyone who's involved.
    I still live in a women's shelter, and things are just really tough right now, I'm trying not to lose hope, however it's just so difficult. But thank you to everyone who made duas and prayed for me. May Allah bless all of you, and help you through your own difficulties. Please continue making duas for me, and pray that I get a good place to live, and that I succeed my education.
  23. Disagree
    rxdbx got a reaction from Ashvazdanghe in Cutting of relatives   
    Salam, 
    if you've read my previous thread, you know of the situation. 
    I was wondering whether it is islamically right of me to cut ties with my cousins, and uncles and etc?
  24. My Prayers
    rxdbx got a reaction from Abu Nur in Reporting father   
    Salam,
    if you’ve previously read my abusive father thread, then you know that sometimes my father beats me or my Mom up.
    last night he startes beating my mom up, punching, kicking, and hitting her. He Threatened to divorce her, and he wouldn’t let her leave, he went to the kitchen and said that he was going to Get a knife and kill her. Then he told me and my little sibling to Get out of the house and go to my grandmothers. This was happening around 12 am last night. I was begging Him to stop, and he was screaming at her and everything. Then when we were Thrown out, my little sibling decide we would fall the police, so we called and Said that he was going to kill her, and that he was beating our mom up. They went  up and took him to stay with the police for the night. And They did interrogation and I said that he didn’t beat me up now, but he has done it previously, and I said every detail. I was crying and in panic. After we went back up my mom started covering up for him, and lying, on top of that right after the police went she called my uncles, they’re my fathers brothers, we don’t have any family from my moms side here. Everyone told me and my sibling to lie so that he doesn’t get sentenced to jail, but we had already told the police, my dad is returning today and I’m terrified, of him beating me up or killing me bc we called the cops. My mom is blaming us for ruining our and her life with calling the police. My uncles are blaming my mom and asking us why we did it, and saying that now we’ll lose our house and money and he’ll lose his job and maybe end up in jail.
    I feel so scared. Please pray for me, I’m so scared. I don’t even know anymore whether I did the right thing. I’m terrified of when he’s returning, please make as many duas as you can. 
  25. Like
    rxdbx reacted to Aragaia in Prayers and haram food   
    Yes. You should pray.
    No matter how enormous your sin. No matter if it's the greatest in the universe! You should pray.
    Inshallah, your prayers will be accepted.
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