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rxdbx

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  1. Salam alaykum, is the use of a menstrual cup allowed?
  2. Salam alaykum, so I was doing ghusl after shaving, and I got a couple of cuts from shaving on both my hands, and during the ghusl one of the cuts was bleeding a lot, like blood would ooze out of it constantly despite me rinsing it off during, but I still kept on doing my ghusl and trying my best to keep rinsing whenever blood would come out, is my ghusl valid and can I pray or do I have to take another one?
  3. I have friends and people I'm surrounded with, but I feel lonely from the inside. Kinda like God isn't in my life
  4. Salam alaykum, lately I've been feeling so empty and lonely. Does anyone have any tips on what to do.
  5. Salam. can I put my prayer mat on "dirty" ground and pray on it? Dirty as in I wore the shoes that I wear outside inside.
  6. Salam, I was wondering whether fasting everyday is permissible (except days like eid), and if it is, is it healthy/safe for us?
  7. She hasn't read or responded to my message
  8. My dad is home now, and so are my uncles. I can't go home, on top of that I have a restraining order on my dad and uncles.
  9. How do I maintain contact with my mother? I really don't know what to message her, last time we talked was on June 14.. I don't know what to send to her.
  10. It is allowed in Islam, but I recommend thinking about it for another year or so, just so that you're completely sure on the decision, bc once you do it, you can never go back. Also don't rush it and go to a cheap plastic surgeon, rather save up and go to one with good reviews, bc a girl I know completely messed up her nose (she got it done in Iran though).
  11. My mom can go to jail, but my little sister is a minor and also heavily influenced by everyone around her, so she won't get penalized for it, however my mom is just lying to save my dad so that's her choice.
  12. Here is an update on my situation, the Monday after the day I ran away to the women's shelter, my dad came home and they (parents and sister) supposedly went out and had pizza together, and he wasn't mad. However this will probably happen again in future, and I'll be happy I left. I want to focus on fixing my mental state and building a life for myself where this isn't something I'll do to my own possible kids in the future. The police has said that since there isn't any proof, that he'll most likely be free, because they'd rather let a guilty person walk free, than imprison an innocent person. I haven't ever taken any picture of the bruises he has caused me, since running away and reporting him, was never a step I would have dared taking, also they used to take my phone away after he beat me up. I don't have any bruises on myself now either, bc the last time he beat me up was in December, I've also never recorded him doing anything, or told the authorities or anyone (including friends) before this, because I felt so embarrassed. So I don't have any proof. He is currently in pre trial custody along with my two uncles, and they'll get released in a week. When they get released I'm going to get a restraining order on the three of them. My mom hasn't messaged me since Sunday, and I haven't messaged her either. Today me and two friends went to the house, and I though that my mom was at work, so I planned to get my sister and make her go home and make sure no ones there, so I could get a couple of things, however my mom was at home and I wasn't able to, but I did get to talk to my sister, and she said that my grandma and aunt on my dads side knows, and my moms relatives in Pakistan think I ran away with a boy lol, so does my grandma here. My aunt said "what jinn got into her". After the incident where my uncle came to the police station, he told the police that he saw my two friends smoke outside the police station.. Lol I guess he wanted to just get them in trouble for something (btw they don't smoke), however it's not even illegal since one is 18. My family is blaming this on my friends, saying that they influenced me to do this, but I would have done this without them. My family thinks that I ran away with a guy, however no one has contacted me or anything. I'm going to get the police to go home to me and get my mom to pack a couple of my things, including my winter jackets, since I won't have anything to wear then, at first I didn't approve of the idea since I though it was going to hurt my mom so much to pack my things and all, but I really need my stuff so I'm going to ask them to do it. My little sister and mom had their interrogations with the police, and of course they lied in it. So basically it's my word against everyone who's involved. I still live in a women's shelter, and things are just really tough right now, I'm trying not to lose hope, however it's just so difficult. But thank you to everyone who made duas and prayed for me. May Allah bless all of you, and help you through your own difficulties. Please continue making duas for me, and pray that I get a good place to live, and that I succeed my education.
  13. Salam, if you've read my previous thread, you know of the situation. I was wondering whether it is islamically right of me to cut ties with my cousins, and uncles and etc?
  14. I didn't leave in the middle of the night. I left during the day, but I didn't tell her I was going to the police, because obviously she would never have allowed me to. They have several times told her that she can stay in a women's shelter, and I will ask someone tomorrow whether they could get someone to talk to my mom about what she can do financially right now.
  15. It's just that my mother is one to put her kids before herself. Before eating she always made sure we were fed and everything. Always did everything for us instead of putting herself first. She has always sacrificed her wishes in life for us, always making sure we got everything we wanted and needed materialistically, and that's why I feel like what I'm doing is wrong. But in this situation she's really worried about what others will think. She's sent me a new message saying: this isn't the person I gave birth to, I don't recognize you, and that people are laughing at me and making a mockery out of me because of you, and after all I've done for you this is how you repay me. And that death would be better than this life, also that she doesn't know how to pay the rent, because it's always dad that's done that. I replied with "you can tell the police, and they'll get people that work around that field to help you with that."
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