ZelzelehAndFigs

Salam Alaykum My family is dysfunctional to say the least. and I think I'm a huge part of the problem, I just don't know if my emotions are Islamically "bad". I know I should respect my step father but I can't. I just generally have a problem with respecting people at all actually, because my mother taught me from a young age that humanity is against you, elders are backwards, you should never be afraid to stand up for yourself (which is positive but was preached aggressively) I don't know whats wrong with me tbh. I don't love my stepdad even though he's been in my life (on weekends) for six

Salam Alaikum Everyone, Okay sooooo I know it is our islamic duty to respect our parents at all times, in all situations etc. but, but. My mother is an emotionally/verbally abusive person who has anger management issues. I know I sound like a whiny child but every since I was very young she treated me as if I had the mental capacity to understand certain issues that a child doesn't at that age. This could be related to the fact that she was single and probably craving adult understanding. She is extremely explosive and never admits to making any sort of mistake. She blames me constantly