EDIT: inappropriate comment removed
I get a good laugh at the ignorance of people who have no idea about the history of the persecution of Sayeds that led to their migration towards the subcontinent but like to talk about it nonetheless.
Here is a fact - the first Muslim army led by Mohammad bin Qasim didn't come to India to fight Hindus but to persecute Sayeds...that should give you an idea of how many Sayeds came over and then multiplied over centuries.
Along with leaving after zuhr, the distance has to include "uninhabited" land meaning if you simply go through a bunch of inter-connected cities, then it is not "qasr".
Take it a step further.
CIA orchestrated the revolution in Ukraine10 years ago.
Putin fearing Ukraine would join NATO interfered (at best) in US elections in 2016 to influence Trump's election. Of course, Trump was as anti-NATO as can be so Putin did not fear Ukraine joining NATO. With Trump gone, Biden picked up where Obama left and so Putin had no alternatives left. So Putin didn't just wake up and decide to attack Ukraine. It has been brewing for decades.
BTW, Putin's preemptive strike is no different from Bush II attacking Iraq.
In 2015,
On October 3, a U.S. AC-130 gunship attacked a hospital run by Médecins Sans Frontières in Kunduz, Afghanistan, partially destroying it. Twelve staff members and 10 patients, including three children, were killed, and 37 people were injured. According to MSF, the U.S. had previously been informed of the hospital’s precise location, and the attack continued for 30 minutes after staff members desperately called the U.S. military.
Sorry you are going through this.
First - anyone reverting to Islam starts off with a clean slate in front of Allah and He is the Ultimate judge.
It is unfair of people to judge you based on pre-reversion history but unfortunately that is how people are.
I do agree with others thar you should remove your social media account from before.
Also, perhaps your husband can take you and 1 member of his family (a sister) so they can get to know you 1:1. It might be easier for you and them. Give it a shot and see if it works.