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Sabah Ali

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  1. Sabah Ali

    *Ansoo*

    Congratulations sis! I am very very happy for you. Don't forget to post your pictures. I would love to see them and I am sure that everyone on this forum would too. May Allah continue to shower you with HIS blessings.
  2. innalillah wa inna elayhe raj'oon May he rest in peace and may Allah bless his family with strength and patience. I can't imagine how his family feels...
  3. chim-chim cootie kisser...:!!!: sherhan keep it comin....:!!!:...
  4. Can you post the link for the one you saw on the brothers form? Thanks.
  5. I have watched a few of his shows on television and I do find him to be quite fascinating. All I know he talks about God, prasies HIM, and appears to trust HIM very much, which is why I admire him. I like and appreciate anyone who speaks of the existance of GOD and helps others lead in to the path of GOD (he is better than the athiests). Are there any muslim speakers who preach mostly about families, society, marital issues etc., like Joel Osteen does? If so do let me know because we truly need someone like him who can get through the muslim youth especially the one's who reside in the west.
  6. Salaam sis Rawshni, I am not sure what your point is? As for your question, I am not confused at all. Can you specify what part of my post has confused you?
  7. (bismillah) (salam) I find it very difficult to swallow that culture is practiced so faithfully over Islam. Today's society is enslaved by fashion and the media. They strive everyday to fit the year's fashion, know the complete history of celebrities, the latest music, movies and television programs so heartedly and yet know nothing about Islam and the teachings of our dear Prophet Mohammad (pbuh). Those who do make the efforts in becoming better muslims and further educating themselves about Islam are mocked and not accepted. They are the last people on the list for proposals because they are looked upon as outdated third class citizens. If they are accepted for marriage then they are the targets of everday mockery and abuse. Let's not forget about those men who claim themselves to be religous just by praying five times a day, reading islamic books etc., think they have all the knowledge of world in the palms of their hands, and whatever knowledge they gain from the books is used against his wife and children. I was once told that if a husband says to his wife to jump in fire, she is supposed to obey him because he is the husband. :mad: Where the HELL did this person get this type of information from. I don't find this logical at all. These men have NO LOGIC!!!!! They use their so calleed logic and knowledge of Islam to constantly insult the women in their family. Just because they pray they think they are free of all sins, they use their prayers as a shield thinking that they can do whatever they want as as long as the pray. Now let me tell you what these men REALLY ARE AND WHAT THEY REALLY DO. Thes men do NOTHING. They don't know what it means to be a responsible husband nor father. All they do is sleep, eat, watch television, listen to music and and watch dancing women on television all day long and yes pray five times a day, read the newspapers, and all sorts of religous books. These men are so irresponsible that I don't even know where to begin from. They sit home and complain that they can't afford their expenses. Now how can they pay their bills if they don't even wanna work. :mad: While these men sit home and sleep most of the day, the wife and chilren take over the responsibilties of the SO-CALLED MAN. Since these men consider themselves to be such religous and good men, then why don't they work hard to pay their bills, why don't they do the groceries, why don't they take out the grabage, why don't they clean the yard, why don't they repair the leaking roof, why don't they keep the house clean, why don't they pick up their children from the universities, why don't they even know what college their children are attending, why don't these men send their children to madressa's if they don't teach them Islam at home, why don't these men work to save money for their daughters, why don't they work to buy a car instead of having the in-laws purchase the car for him, why do their in-laws have to find a son-in-law for their daughters and pay for the entire wedding and then put up with the verbal abuse of such irresponsible men who claim to be such good men, why do these men find thier own reltives more interesting than his own wife and children, why does a 17 year old daughter has to work to help bring food to the table while the father makes lame excuses about not working or not having enough to pay the bills? This is where the question arises, if such men who claim to be so religous then why do they sit home comfortably while the daughter is working to bring food to the table. Doesn't it shake his soul up that the daugter is working so hard to help pay the bills when it's really not her job to do so. :cry: These types of LAZY, IRRESPONSIBLE, IDIOTIC, UNMANLY, men literally drive me insane and sicken me to the stomach. WHY WHY WHY is a question I will never stop asking myself. Unfortanely, we live in a world where JHOOT SUCH ban chuka hai aur SUCH JHOOT ban chuka hai. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: This is one of the reasons why I am afraid of marriage. I refuse to be mocked, physcially and mentally abused and insulted on a daily basis by him and his family. I would be better off on my own helping those who truly need love, care and affection to survive (orphaned children, widows, needy, poor, and the victims of our cruel society, i.e. raped and abused women and children). I rather spend my life serving them in the light of Islam and for the sake of Allah. A few quotes which I have also posted on Poetry, Lyrics Forum "No woman is required to build the world by destroying herself" - Unknown "I can not and will not cut my conscience to fit this year's fashions". - Lillian Hellman "Any girl can be glamorous: all you have to do is stand still and look stupid." - Hedy Lamarr "If I'm too strong for some people, that's their problem. - Glenda Jackson
  8. I am a product of my own pain and suffering. - Sabah (ME) I can not and will not cut my conscience to fit this year's fashions. - Lillian Hellman Any girl can be glamorous: all you have to do is stand still and look stupid. - Hedy Lamarr If I'm too strong for some people, that's their problem. - Glenda Jackson A woman can withstand everything. - Coco Chanel In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity. - Albert Einstien Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty. - Mother Teresa
  9. Happy Birthday bro. May Allah fulfill all your desires. Ameen!
  10. :mad: :mad: :mad: Will this ever end? http://www.ericblumrich.com/pl_lo.html
  11. Sabah Ali

    Khuda hafiz

    May life take you where you most want to be. Ameen!
  12. This is disgustingly outrageous!!! :mad: Where do these people get their Islamic education from???? :huh:
  13. I highly recommend this book. It was an eye opener and yes it scared the living daylights out of me.
  14. (salam) Do you really think he will tell you the truth to whatever question you ask him. I think you need to judge him by his actions, in other words his tone of voice, how sure/confident does he sound while answering your questions. If he is a jerk the fist 20 minutes than it only means he'll be a jerk for life. Trust me. Good Luck sister! You are lucky to have the opportunity to atleast get to know your partner before hand. Sabah Ali
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