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Thank you guys, really positive replys. Khalil I wish it was just a proposal, it wouldnt have been so bad. Dragon that link may really help, thank u. Since its ramadan subhanallah this is a perfect time to find out how to trust my creator before trusting anyone else.
Salam everyone, So recently Ive had a serious heart break, its not justified except in one way I can think of and that is the will of Allah that what ever I went through was meant to be. This heartbreak is one of the most difficult things I had to deal with in my life and ive dealt with tough things before but I feel like this situation has sprayed lemon and salt on every wound ive had previously. Its really hard to explain what exactly happened because I'm too afraid someone might recognise who I am referring to, even though he deserves to be publicly shamed for not just breaking my heart but my parents hearts too. The positive thing about my situation is that I didnt break down, I got on with my life like nothing is wrong, but there is this heartache that I cant ignore, I feel emotionally betrayed because I invested all my emotions into a relationship that is halal, its something I waited for for a long time and when he came along and things seemed to go well in my eyes I let my guard down emotionally...and I feel this wound is so deep that its so difficult to hear everyones advice about moving on and a worthy person is going to be sent for me sooner than I might think. But its so hard. How can I grow and mature as person when I'm so stubborn on a stupid idea that I might never get married? How can I just forget about marriage and believe that its ok to be not married, why am I an extremely emotional girl? Why can I be tough and logical? All these questions really really annoy me because all these tough situations and tests that I got through and I never seem to change or grow as a person, Im still as naive and trusty and emotional as I was when I was a teen, now as an adult this sort of attitude is not acceptable because its giving me many heartaches. Sorry if that was so long. Ws