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  1. But I thought if the guy was not interested, it would be rude if the mother calls and says that the guy is not interested or it's not going to work out because of this and that reason, like apparently you'll just not hear anything from them anymore. But now the question is, if the girl got no answer after a day or few days, does it mean it's a no, and that she needs to move on or still patiently wait for them to say something?
  2. Sallam. So if someone gets a proposal, and the parents meet up, they see the girl, and they'd like her for their son, and then they plan a day where he could come so he can see the girl and have a chat with her etc, if the guy comes and sees the girl, talks to her, just so they can both see whether they can understand each-other, and if it's the person they would want to be with or not, obviously the guy is not going to give the answer right away, so how long should the girl wait till she gets the answer? Is there a specific time when the guy's family should give an answer to the girl, like maybe few days or a week, like would it look odd if they gave the answer right away or the next day? or if they don't call the next day or give an answer does that means they haven't accepted?
  3. & are you trying to be funny?
  4. Anywhere, it doesn't matter
  5. Salam guys. Anyone here works? if you do, please comment & I'll PM you, or just PM me yourself, I need your help with something. Jazakallah!
  6. Salam! Is it normal if you just start feeling guilty for no reason? What might be the reason behind this 'guiltiness'? I mean I was just feeling okay like few hours ago, & now for some reason it just feels like I'm a worthless person & I'm not doing much for Allah or my Deen, now I don't know if it's just a feeling or I'm actually not doing much, I just feel like crying now because honestly, feeling guilty is probably one of the worst things, do you only feel guilty when you sin or there's other stuff that can make you feel guilty? Now I feel even more bad because I feel like maybe I did something that Allah is not pleased with & it could be the reason why I'm feeling this way, but I don't know what it is, could that be the reason? i don't even know what to do anymore.
  7. There's something I've been talking to him about for 2 days now, so I can't switch mods & message someone else, they'd have no idea what I'm talking about.
  8. Messaging Mods is the worst thing, I'll get a reply from them after 2 years, Muhammad Ali is taking way too long to reply to my message. You Keep telling me to wait, busy man. -_-
  9. Oh please, so many people spell Kerbala that way. I see no difference it's still Kerbala whether it's with an 'E' or 'A' ...Just kick yourself out then
  10. Dude go home, what kind of a teacher are you? My spelling isn't even that bad, What D are talking about? I'm sorry, but you need to get kicked out, you're the worst teacher I've seen
  11. I hope she's okay. I thought she stopped being active after you started this thread, i was gonna blame you.
  12. For a sec, it felt like I'm sitting in English class & my teacher Mr Martyrdom is trying to correct my spelling lol
  13. To be honest, I was like that before, I just never felt like praying reading Quraan/Duaa etc.. I was lazy. Like say if it was Maghrib prayer I'd pray 3 hours later, & when I do go pray I'd just pray really fast & get it done with & do something else, I really couldn't bother, but I feel stupid now. I had to change myself I was like you know what, I'm gonna start praying on time, I'm gonna start reading Quran every morning & read Duaa's everyday, I just had to force myself to do that & make it my daily routine & when it's praying time, i'll just quickly go make Wudu, stand on my praying mat & say Allahu Akbar ..& then I just close my eyes & try to concentrate on my salah & forget everything else, & guess what, I got use to it, this is something I do every day now, See? It wasn't that hard, Just try doing all that every day & trust me it will help, Even though you're lazy & maybe not even intereted, but just try, you're not gonna lose anything, are you?. I swear it will only become worse if you stay like that, while you're still young, you got to try to help yourself & become better. That exactly what i did, & Alhamdella everything is better now. Right now i have to read Ziyarat Ashura & Duaa l Kumayl & for some reason i'm feeling super lazy, like i just don't want to, but instead of letting shaytann take over me, i'm just gonna go read.. i'm not gonna lose anything, am i? It only takes 30 minutes, if i can spend 30 minutes of my life on the internet, then i'm sure i can spend 30 minutes of my life reading Duaa etc.
  14. Apo, I'll keep them in my prayers. - It was hard to write on that rough wall..so I guess that's the reason why my handwriting looks really bad but oh well.. I just had to write something on the wall before i leave.. don't ask why :D
  15. NooralHussain, she barely comes on, but we talk mostly everyday & i met her here so i would say she is my Shiachat "Rolemodel" we've just learnt so much from each other, & most of our conversation is about Ahlul-bayt & Imam Hussein a.s, it got to the point were we both send voice records crying over Imam Hussein every time we mention him (a.s) & talk about Ashura, She's the only person i can talk to about those stuff..non of my other friends are interested. Thanks to Shiachat, You can find bunch of great people here!
  16. Hameedeh, she always tries helping me when i'm stuck somewhere, & i always get the best advice from her, every time i'm feeling upset or need someone to talk to about something, she has always been the one. One of the loveliest & most caring lady I've ever met, Mash'Allah. I've got much more things to say but i'll leave it to that i guess. Hameedeh, you're the best!
  17. I want post Lebanese Latmiyaat but i don't know if you guys will like them, A lot of people say Leb latmiyat are old & boring, i don't think it's true but oh well I was searching for Latmiyaat on Youtube & found this.. It's not bad i guess.
  18. :o Can i ask you a question..? & ^a girl Vania & i talk about a lot (well kind of a lot i guess) in a good way, & Vania was planning to go to her house & surprise her like "hey it's me Vania" & i actually believed she was gonna do that, but nope, that's pretty creepy & yea, it never happened lol
  19. Ehmm ehm Apoo Puhlease -_- mmm well, She always tries make those young members on here sound like they're some 12 year old kiddos.. O god, Oh god Apo loll ***She sounds like a good girl now... that sounds way better, just sayin :P
  20. I have no idea who you are either, peace LeftcoastMom, someone I've never had the chance to talk to, but i see her around a lot & she sounds nice
  21. Strug, I wishh, but not really & he loves onion rings^, that's all i know tehhe
  22. I've always actually thought her real name is Apo^, i feel stupid saying this.. eyy that's embarrassing but that was like 4/5 months ago lol...& then one of the members here told me her real name & i got really jealous because i love her name :wub:
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