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laithAlIRAQI

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  1. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Hameedeh in Thoughts 2019   
    I really wish the sound in my head would just shut up and disappear.
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    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Zellali in Why Are Shi'a Kuffar?   
    Shia does NOT mean sect. It means follower of a person or a group.
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to 2Timeless in 22 and suddenly feel very scared about suitors   
    LOL specifying how tall exactly and how wide his chest is and the texture of his hair, is not having sky high standards? It's not even about standards, imo its about being petty and not seeing the bigger picture. Everyone has a 'type' but everyone always finds random people who aren't necessarily that 'type' attractive. If someone finds blond hair and blue eyes attractive it doesnt mean they always find black haired and green eyed people ugly, they may well find alot of them attractive, just not their 'type'. You need to stop being immature and have a smaller ego, with all due respect. If a guy has a slightly crooked nose or a thinner beard, still give him a chance because everyone has flaws (physical and mental). People will treat you the same way you treat others. Treat others like they're specimen to suit your requirements, and you'll be treated the same way. 
     
    Ask questions that are important to you but don't turn it into an interview. Like you said, look at how they carry themselves, how they speak etc. If you find one annoying thing, it's fine, overlook it and see what he is with every other aspect. Everyone has flaws and you'll never find someone who ticks literally every single box. What's the point of life if everything is perfect?
    That's all our fears but theres no point dwelling on the negatives. Some people are charming and are actually good people, just be cautious but also open minded at the same time.
     
  4. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from hasanhh in Thoughts 2019   
    I really wish the sound in my head would just shut up and disappear.
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    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from ali_fatheroforphans in Thoughts 2019   
    I really wish the sound in my head would just shut up and disappear.
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    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from LeftCoastMom in Feeling skin deprived   
    I'd rather not, it'll just be an awkward conversation. besides, my relationship with my parents is tense right now, because of previous issues we've had. 
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to 2Timeless in Talking to an ex (Islamic opinion)?   
    Confessing "love" is usually a mere infatuation especially in young, inexperienced Muslims. Anyway, like you said, it's not an ordinary thing in Islam and I can’t think of a situation where such a "confession" would be halal. So, with that in mind, how can you expect there to be a specific Islamic ruling on it? The ruling is the same with all other rulings on haram actions : just stop it. Forget about the 'relationship ' or whatever it was, and move on. It shouldnt be that hard if most Islamic guidelines are stuck to initially. 
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to 2Timeless in Talking to an ex (Islamic opinion)?   
    @ali_fatheroforphans I agree with most of what youve said, but calling a random person you may have developed feelings for an "ex" is just too much. By that logic people have 100 exes without ever having an actual relationship. 
    The solution to your problem is ignore attempts to reconcile if you don’t want it, and move on. It's not a big deal. I think you're giving an immature and childish infatuation too much thought. 
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to Propaganda_of_the_Deed in Pre-marital couple   
    Bless your cotton socks, I can't even plan what I'm going to eat tomorrow morning. The innocence and optimism of youth! So much will change in those six years and unless this is a Bolly/Hollywood, chances are most likely it wont work out. Both your outlooks on life and even of yourselves will change in that time.
    Now finish your homework. Yallah.
  10. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Khadim uz Zahra in Feeling skin deprived   
    How do you deal with lack of affection? I grew up with not much affection or physical contact, and I guess its just gotten to me. I have the tendency to push people away when I want affection too.
    Its making me feel tense, stressed most of the time and I'm aggressive with people for no reason.
    I can't get married at this time, so a relationship just isn't possible for me.
  11. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Hameedeh in Feeling skin deprived   
    I'd rather not, it'll just be an awkward conversation. besides, my relationship with my parents is tense right now, because of previous issues we've had. 
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    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Sumerian in Feeling skin deprived   
    I'd appreciate it if you kept your stupid, unoriginal, good for nothing comments, such as these for yourself "bruh". what's your point for telling me this, you think you're a man now? Fool.
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to LeftCoastMom in Feeling skin deprived   
    I like what @notme said. Can you talk to your family about this?
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to Sumerian in Feeling skin deprived   
    wdym man up bruv? The guy is not saying his the only one affected by this he is asking for solutions. U just want to start an argument 
  15. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from AbdulKarim313_Austin/Nola in Feeling skin deprived   
    I'd appreciate it if you kept your stupid, unoriginal, good for nothing comments, such as these for yourself "bruh". what's your point for telling me this, you think you're a man now? Fool.
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    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from 2Timeless in Feeling skin deprived   
    I'd appreciate it if you kept your stupid, unoriginal, good for nothing comments, such as these for yourself "bruh". what's your point for telling me this, you think you're a man now? Fool.
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    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from notme in Feeling skin deprived   
    I'd appreciate it if you kept your stupid, unoriginal, good for nothing comments, such as these for yourself "bruh". what's your point for telling me this, you think you're a man now? Fool.
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to notme in Feeling skin deprived   
    Go up to your dad, brother, or close friend, and just give him a hug. 
    I never heard the words "I love you" from my parents until I said them myself first. Be the example. Most likely other loved ones want affection too, but fear rejection or mockery. 
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    laithAlIRAQI reacted to 2Timeless in Feeling skin deprived   
    A real man acknowledges his weaknesses and seeks to improve on himself in any way. 
    I will be direct, but you need to man-up. 
  20. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Sumerian in Feeling skin deprived   
    How do you deal with lack of affection? I grew up with not much affection or physical contact, and I guess its just gotten to me. I have the tendency to push people away when I want affection too.
    Its making me feel tense, stressed most of the time and I'm aggressive with people for no reason.
    I can't get married at this time, so a relationship just isn't possible for me.
  21. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from 2Timeless in Feeling skin deprived   
    How do you deal with lack of affection? I grew up with not much affection or physical contact, and I guess its just gotten to me. I have the tendency to push people away when I want affection too.
    Its making me feel tense, stressed most of the time and I'm aggressive with people for no reason.
    I can't get married at this time, so a relationship just isn't possible for me.
  22. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Hameedeh in Feeling skin deprived   
    How do you deal with lack of affection? I grew up with not much affection or physical contact, and I guess its just gotten to me. I have the tendency to push people away when I want affection too.
    Its making me feel tense, stressed most of the time and I'm aggressive with people for no reason.
    I can't get married at this time, so a relationship just isn't possible for me.
  23. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from Vindemiatrix in Feeling skin deprived   
    How do you deal with lack of affection? I grew up with not much affection or physical contact, and I guess its just gotten to me. I have the tendency to push people away when I want affection too.
    Its making me feel tense, stressed most of the time and I'm aggressive with people for no reason.
    I can't get married at this time, so a relationship just isn't possible for me.
  24. My Prayers
    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from notme in Feeling skin deprived   
    How do you deal with lack of affection? I grew up with not much affection or physical contact, and I guess its just gotten to me. I have the tendency to push people away when I want affection too.
    Its making me feel tense, stressed most of the time and I'm aggressive with people for no reason.
    I can't get married at this time, so a relationship just isn't possible for me.
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    laithAlIRAQI got a reaction from ireallywannaknow in Feeling skin deprived   
    How do you deal with lack of affection? I grew up with not much affection or physical contact, and I guess its just gotten to me. I have the tendency to push people away when I want affection too.
    Its making me feel tense, stressed most of the time and I'm aggressive with people for no reason.
    I can't get married at this time, so a relationship just isn't possible for me.
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