Jump to content
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!) ×
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!)
In the Name of God بسم الله


Advanced Member
  • Content Count

  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won


Everything posted by ZainabHairan

  1. Salam Aleikum not really! Because I am converted from catholic to shia. No matter christians or muslimes. That are the same without difference! You think that is typical way of Muslime! That isnt true! It depends serious on character of people! All what I respond to your asking that is common and true! I know some christians people whether man or woman with strong character loves the another with sickness or disability! What has that got to do with anything? Muslime or Christian back and forth? You want to know about that and I give you respond as woman first then as believer or Muslima wha
  2. Salam Aleikum I dont care about that whether my husband has medical issue or ability. Really on this earth nobody is perfect. I admire strong woman and man who marry someone with medical issue or disability but because of special character. In this life we all have to go through all lessons and obstacles. Everything in this life is like light or heavy examination which we have to try to pass. Allah swt. test how much we give effort with our good action. I am disabled too and my husband know my disability but he dont care about my disability and loves me so as I am. It is very important for h
  3. Salam Aleikum yes the way of Allah is inscrutable. We all dont grasp why now or in the beginning for example Muslime since birth or later than as adult like you and me and another converted Sisters and Brothers. I had imagined the another way about Islam but I was dísabused by my husband. He had teached me what is Islam really? I was very impressed and wanted to know more about Islam. I never had thought I would convert from catholic church to Shia Muslima. When I look back to my past I never get how and why it is going now and not before. I really wish I could come into contact with Islam m
  4. Salam Aleikum thank you for this very interesting link dear Sister. I could read 8 actually Marjas. But some links of Marjas cant open. For example about Sayyed Shirazi. I dont know the reason. I will study further. How I can compare Marjas with Fatwas? What you would advise me to do first? To brother Reza: It is interesting that your Marja Shirazi is the most knowledgeable and learned. Might you have his own site where I can read his Fatwas? Or information or report? Alhamdullilah!
  5. Salam Aleikum thank you for your link! Very informativ! I didnt know exactly story of Abraham. Very interesting! Good to know! I can share this story of Abraham my friends and my kids. I see where progery from Abraham were going. Sara with Isaak and Hagar with Ismael! Everything rooted Arabian and Jews. Mohammad from Ismael and Jesus from Isaak. Allah swt. will reward you dear brother! Wasalam
  6. Salam Aleikum ok I try to explain what I mean with the asking. I mean every Muslime / Muslima follows to own Marja for example Sayedd Sistani or Sayedd Khamenei or another Marja. There are 8 Marjas. Every Muslime shall decide for his Marja and if Muslime had decided for certaintely Marja. Why this decision for this Marja? What this certaintely Marja has feature which convince Muslime for his Marja? It is difficult to write in right English. I will ask Muslime Brother to translate my German in English! I hope you understand now! Wasalam forgive me!
  7. Salam Aleikum yes sure Sayedd Sistani is the most knowledgeable. But it are maybe another reason for those choice for Sistani? I am interesting to extend my know about Marja. Might sister and brother tell me about her / his Marja! That would be nice to know near change of views here. For example I had heard from deaf sister why she had decided for Khamenei because of very strict rules same with her deaf husband. I had thought Khamenei isnt much stricht with rules because I had read sometimes good and touching stories about him. I like his stories and had imagined him as gracious and humble m
  8. Salam Aleikum thank you your advisement with choice of own Marja! My own husband follows Sayedd Sistani and I thought I could do the same as my own husband. But my own husband meant I shall take little time to study actually Marjas to decide better. It is very difficult for me to decide for Marja. At the moment I would decide for Sistani and will study the another Marja Khameni. You had written there are 4 different actually Marjas? Really? I thought actually in the world are 8 Marjas? Can you call such name of acutally Marjas? Wasalam
  9. Salam Aleikum yes I am bavarian woman! Ja ich bin eine bayerische Frau! Bavaria is a very nice country of Germany! Bayern ist ein sehr schönes Land in Deutschland. Yes I had changed my name! My name was in arabian letters. I have big issue to log in to this forum. Therefore I wasnt here since long time till last week. I had begged webmaster to change my name because of arabian name. Ja ich habe meinen Namen geändet. Mein Name war in arabische Buchstaben. Ich hatte großes Problem beim Einloggen in diesem Forum. Deshalb war ich lang nicht hier bis vor einer Woche. Ich hatte dem Administrat
  10. Salam Aleikum I want to know what kind of Marja you follow and why? There are different Marjas, actually 8 Marjas. I am on search for my own Marja but I dont know to choice my own Marja. Maybe I shall use the same Marja as my own husband. He follows Sayedd Sistani. I havent hear about him but the most about Khamenei. It would be very interesting to know what kind Marja is yours and why? Wasalam forgive me!
  11. Salam Aleikum thank you for this link! That is very great but I dont live in Hamburg! Unfortuntately! I live in south germany close to border of Austria! Not far away from Munich! Such informations to know are precious always! Subhana-illah! Wasalam!
  12. Salam Aleikum my positive experiences are drinking alot WATER! That is the best and the most important advisement which I can give you and another brothers and sisters! It is very important too to aviod carbohydrates especially WHEAT, RICE!!! Potatoes are very good but it shall eaten natural without fat! Meat and vegetable are very good and give you alot protein for burning of fat in your body! And sugar isnt good for your body! Better you take honey if you want to have little sweet. That is good but you need to save it! And the another point is important too you need to move little. Every d
  13. Salam Aleikum thank you for your concern! I thank Allah swt. that it was going well with everything. We had spent Xmas very nice and we had eaten first German Dish. Later we had handing out of presents at Christmas. Girls were thrilled about gifts and my husband and I just wanted the joy for girls. My brother was coming to us and my husband talked alot with my brother. Very nice conversations full of laughing and understanding. I was very happy about development because my husband and my brother liked each other and are similar in their kind! That was why they understood each other natural
  14. Salam Aleikum I had taken little time to give you respond of your first asking and had begged brother to help me with translation from German in English. Really your asking is very old since manhood. Everyone ask the same as you and all brothers and sisters about Universe! I have three different aspects: Human Aspect In your childhood, did you not have the feeling that you were not alone. That there was something to which you could turn to? I did have that feeling and even more. Before I knew what Islam was, I knew there was an Almighty who watched everything. As I child I wanted thing
  15. Salam Aleikum my own husband respect private spere. It is very important for him also to trust each other! We had talked alot about that! Love is meaning trust, respect and attention also! What kind of love it would be if husband dont trust his own wife? Very sad and not basic for good marriage forever! Wasalam
  16. Salam Aleikum thank you alot back! It is great always to give itself to everyone to give strength, bravery, inspiration! Really I had learnt alot since my first marriage was a failure. But it was lesson for me from my previous marriage. I was on search for respond my life long always! I never was tired to give up the hope to get respond from the Lord! My life is changed since and I think that is the best what was happened so I will share my experiences with sisters and brothers and I can give them my advisement from my own experiences. And I can learn likely from sisters and brothers too. We
  17. Salam Aleikum of course! If I will visit there someday I will use you all in my prayer with pleasure there! Insallah! Wasalam
  18. Salam Aleikum I see alot information about Martyrdom. Very worth knowing! I will study exactly who are all those important people! Really I am very confused about alot similar names of this important people! Step by step I will study by heart with support from Allah swt.! You and another sister or brother are here also too to help each other with specific question. I thank Allah swt. to show me this way how I can study Islam! This forum and my husband will support me on my way to be right Shiite! Insallah! I thank you all alot! Wasalam
  19. Salam Aleikum that is very nice and holy place! Where exactly in Iraq? I hope to visit with my husband someday there! Insallah! Wasalam
  20. Salam Aleikum my mother tongue is german and I speak German and Bavarian fluently. I talk with my husband only in English and some sign language. I use German sign language and International sign language also too. My husband and I use sometimes certaintely own sign language also too. I speak little italian and learn arabian language since just now! Arabian language is very difficult for me as deaf woman. Big challenge! A converted sister had told me that arabian language is one of the most difficult language! Oh well! I am confused really because arabian words sound similar and I cant not
  21. Salam Aleikum thank you much for your help! I didnt know where I can ask! I thought in this thread! I am very sorry that I was wrong to post that! That is good to know how to handle on this day! I will ask some question step by step in depend on certainely day or occasion! I see there are alot things to know near about Shia! How I can know where shall certainteley topic in any thread? This time I was wrong to post there. Thank you for reference! I really was wondering about no respond! Now I know the reason! I will try to do the right and put on in right thread! Insallah! I am happy
  22. Salam Aleikum I joined to this forum because I hope to get some contact with deaf or hard hearing people to make meeting each other someday. Deaf and hard hearing people really are very rare like diamond under hearing shiites. I will come and visit forum regularly to get contact to deaf or hard hearing shiite someday! Insallah! Not this only reason so the another reason why I joined I hope to get sharing from converted shiites to get overview how they had managed since they convert to Islam so I will manage my own experiences and can learn from converted shiite how to handle with my christia
  23. Salam Aleikum thank you for your best wish! I hope that! Not just for me! I want the same to you and the another sisters and brothers! If all sisters and brothers are in good condition so I can say I am satisfied and thank Allah swt. alot for nice sisters and brothers! I am happy to get permission to be one of Muslim Sisters and Brothers! That is great to know and to feel knowing not alone in this greedy and terrible world! I always will know there are sisters and brothers who want to help each other and to be each other side on side! I thank Allah swt. alot to exploit my knowledge about I
  24. Wasalam I dont miss the christian world really. I want to stay in my new world of Islam that I want to go my way with Allah swt.! I feel good with Allah swt. Why I shall miss anything from christian world! That was my old world! But I need to know more about Islam and lifestyle as Muslima to be one with them! Insallah! I dont change my mind for my christian family therefore! I am responsible for my own soul and my own life whether it is good or not. Trying the best in this life is very important so Allah swt. will know my effort in this life so long as I life I will get my peace after en
  25. Salam Aleikum my husband had told me that today is the day of the death of prophet Mohammad (as). That is the day of grief! He said no joy no making love no celebration. Now I want to know more about dealings of God-Fearing Believers with such special day! I would be happy to know more about that and know close such what the Believer does on this sad day! I had tried to find on google and on forum respond about this death of prophet how to handle it! Unfortuntately I cont find it! I hope to get respond from sisters and brothers here! Always I want to stay on updates always in this ar
  • Create New...