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Peace30

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    Peace30 got a reaction from awkwardregular10 in should i do Muta?   
    Your wife may have become overweight due to depression..you said she suffers from "psychological problems".
    Obviously, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors, but maybe she hasn't received adequate attention from you, or something else is troubling her.
    Have you tried finding out what is causing her psychological problems?
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    Peace30 got a reaction from awkwardregular10 in should i do Muta?   
    Sorry, but you should very shallow!
    Marriage isn't just about looks and an active sex life! It's about understanding and mutual respect!
    You say she has psychological problems! Well, try helping her instead of just taking care of your own desires and needs!
    You say you're good looking. You're very modest aren't you?!
    Try being a little more humble and less judgemental to your wife. I think you should be ashamed of yourself!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from ktk in should i do Muta?   
    Sorry, but you should very shallow!
    Marriage isn't just about looks and an active sex life! It's about understanding and mutual respect!
    You say she has psychological problems! Well, try helping her instead of just taking care of your own desires and needs!
    You say you're good looking. You're very modest aren't you?!
    Try being a little more humble and less judgemental to your wife. I think you should be ashamed of yourself!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from notme in should i do Muta?   
    Very well said! At last some common sense!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from shirazi5 in should i do Muta?   
    Sorry, but you should very shallow!
    Marriage isn't just about looks and an active sex life! It's about understanding and mutual respect!
    You say she has psychological problems! Well, try helping her instead of just taking care of your own desires and needs!
    You say you're good looking. You're very modest aren't you?!
    Try being a little more humble and less judgemental to your wife. I think you should be ashamed of yourself!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from ss99 in should i do Muta?   
    What a wonderful example of a noble Muslim man you are to the rest of the world!
    The response you've given is what contributes to Islam having a bad name in the West!
    Your comment and attitude is backward and primitive!
    Did you not bother to read the original post properly?! He explains that his wife has psychological problems. Where is the consideration towards her? She may be suffering from depression and all I hear from a lot of so-called men on this thread is " go ahead" without any thought for his wife. 
    People like you don't spouses..!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from ss99 in should i do Muta?   
    Your wife may have become overweight due to depression..you said she suffers from "psychological problems".
    Obviously, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors, but maybe she hasn't received adequate attention from you, or something else is troubling her.
    Have you tried finding out what is causing her psychological problems?
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    Peace30 got a reaction from MariyahLaleh in should i do Muta?   
    Yes he's being shallow if he only cares for physical appearances!
    His wife has her own problems which he appears to oblivious about! Or are you one of these patriarchal men who gives Islam a bad name? It might surprise you to learn that the world doesn't revolve around men and their " needs"!
    We're only getting one side of the story. His one.
    Maybe he's not a good husband towards her and she has her own grievances...?
    Not everything is so black and white!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from MohammadAli1993 in should i do Muta?   
    Sorry, but you should very shallow!
    Marriage isn't just about looks and an active sex life! It's about understanding and mutual respect!
    You say she has psychological problems! Well, try helping her instead of just taking care of your own desires and needs!
    You say you're good looking. You're very modest aren't you?!
    Try being a little more humble and less judgemental to your wife. I think you should be ashamed of yourself!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from Islandsandmirrors in should i do Muta?   
    What a wonderful example of a noble Muslim man you are to the rest of the world!
    The response you've given is what contributes to Islam having a bad name in the West!
    Your comment and attitude is backward and primitive!
    Did you not bother to read the original post properly?! He explains that his wife has psychological problems. Where is the consideration towards her? She may be suffering from depression and all I hear from a lot of so-called men on this thread is " go ahead" without any thought for his wife. 
    People like you don't spouses..!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from Islandsandmirrors in should i do Muta?   
    Yes he's being shallow if he only cares for physical appearances!
    His wife has her own problems which he appears to oblivious about! Or are you one of these patriarchal men who gives Islam a bad name? It might surprise you to learn that the world doesn't revolve around men and their " needs"!
    We're only getting one side of the story. His one.
    Maybe he's not a good husband towards her and she has her own grievances...?
    Not everything is so black and white!
  12. Like
    Peace30 got a reaction from Islandsandmirrors in should i do Muta?   
    Sorry, but you should very shallow!
    Marriage isn't just about looks and an active sex life! It's about understanding and mutual respect!
    You say she has psychological problems! Well, try helping her instead of just taking care of your own desires and needs!
    You say you're good looking. You're very modest aren't you?!
    Try being a little more humble and less judgemental to your wife. I think you should be ashamed of yourself!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from rkazmi33 in should i do Muta?   
    You haven't actually addressed the issues I have previously underscored..! Repeating my argument back to me doesn't make the points you raise any more valid..
    Perhaps if he examines the reasons why she has psychological problems, such as, oh, I don't know, because she could be DEPRESSED, or deeply unhappy within her marriage, or some other reason that we don't know about. Frankly, as her husband it is his duty to enquire and assist her with these needs, instead of just looking at how he can cast cast her to one side without any, seemingly, consideration towards her.
    Further, I am abhorred at the level of mysogenistic comments arising from this post. 
    Islam doesn't need reviving, but many Muslims clearly need to get in touch with the 21st century!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from rkazmi33 in should i do Muta?   
    Very well said! At last some common sense!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from Muslim96 in should i do Muta?   
    Your wife may have become overweight due to depression..you said she suffers from "psychological problems".
    Obviously, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors, but maybe she hasn't received adequate attention from you, or something else is troubling her.
    Have you tried finding out what is causing her psychological problems?
  16. Like
    Peace30 got a reaction from Muslim96 in should i do Muta?   
    What a wonderful example of a noble Muslim man you are to the rest of the world!
    The response you've given is what contributes to Islam having a bad name in the West!
    Your comment and attitude is backward and primitive!
    Did you not bother to read the original post properly?! He explains that his wife has psychological problems. Where is the consideration towards her? She may be suffering from depression and all I hear from a lot of so-called men on this thread is " go ahead" without any thought for his wife. 
    People like you don't spouses..!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from Muslim96 in should i do Muta?   
    Bring out the violins!
     
    It's so difficult being a man..! You poor things..!

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    Peace30 reacted to rkazmi33 in should i do Muta?   
    He mentioned that she cannot go to gym because she is busy in doing household chores. Since he claims to be rich, why doesn't he hire help especially when maids are available in Pakistan at very low wages. 
    He starts with 'I have very high sex drive'. What if his wife also says: 'I am overweight because I love food'. Both are carnal desires and we are supposed to control both desires. 
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    Peace30 got a reaction from rkazmi33 in should i do Muta?   
    Yes he's being shallow if he only cares for physical appearances!
    His wife has her own problems which he appears to oblivious about! Or are you one of these patriarchal men who gives Islam a bad name? It might surprise you to learn that the world doesn't revolve around men and their " needs"!
    We're only getting one side of the story. His one.
    Maybe he's not a good husband towards her and she has her own grievances...?
    Not everything is so black and white!
  20. Like
    Peace30 got a reaction from rkazmi33 in should i do Muta?   
    What a wonderful example of a noble Muslim man you are to the rest of the world!
    The response you've given is what contributes to Islam having a bad name in the West!
    Your comment and attitude is backward and primitive!
    Did you not bother to read the original post properly?! He explains that his wife has psychological problems. Where is the consideration towards her? She may be suffering from depression and all I hear from a lot of so-called men on this thread is " go ahead" without any thought for his wife. 
    People like you don't spouses..!
  21. Like
    Peace30 got a reaction from rkazmi33 in should i do Muta?   
    Your wife may have become overweight due to depression..you said she suffers from "psychological problems".
    Obviously, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors, but maybe she hasn't received adequate attention from you, or something else is troubling her.
    Have you tried finding out what is causing her psychological problems?
  22. Like
    Peace30 got a reaction from Muslim96 in should i do Muta?   
    Sorry, but you should very shallow!
    Marriage isn't just about looks and an active sex life! It's about understanding and mutual respect!
    You say she has psychological problems! Well, try helping her instead of just taking care of your own desires and needs!
    You say you're good looking. You're very modest aren't you?!
    Try being a little more humble and less judgemental to your wife. I think you should be ashamed of yourself!
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    Peace30 reacted to Muslim96 in should i do Muta?   
    Wow, you good looking, rich man, you deserve so much better. I am speechless.
    Fear Allah swt. and get closer to Allah swt. Love is not about shape and replacing your wife as soon as she is not attractive for you anymore. Sad, very sad.. I am sorry for your wife.
    May Allah swt. guide us all to the right path..
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    Peace30 got a reaction from rkazmi33 in should i do Muta?   
    Sorry, but you should very shallow!
    Marriage isn't just about looks and an active sex life! It's about understanding and mutual respect!
    You say she has psychological problems! Well, try helping her instead of just taking care of your own desires and needs!
    You say you're good looking. You're very modest aren't you?!
    Try being a little more humble and less judgemental to your wife. I think you should be ashamed of yourself!
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    Peace30 got a reaction from iCambrian in Jealousy And Conflict In Polygamy   
    I think you are both complicating the issue.. Lol. Sometimes incompatibility can be that their personalities are very different and at odds with one another. If their difference are vast it can pose problems within the marriage.
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