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layla mah khan

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    layla mah khan got a reaction from Struggling_onn in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Asalam o alikum
    My father passed away on 21 Feb 2016, he offered his prayers mostly regularly but not strictly. I am his only daughter, is it must on me to offer his remaining prayers?
    Even if they not and I want to than how to know how much should I offer for him. If I don't know how many of his prayers are left.?
    Once I already posted in a post here about the difficult situation I am in marital life.physical abuse and harassment etc. If my husband now asked me to leave my mother alone than should I?  I have no siblings.
    I am currently doing a gazetted post job, my father did so much effort in making me independent. If my in laws or husband forces me to abaondon every thing then what I should do? 
    Lastly my dad injury doesn't make any logical sense. I asked some good pious men to do istikhara all of them said its black magic ....
    Is there any amal r wazifa that I can do to get some guidance that who did this. Can I see the person in my dreams. 
    In istikhara it came that some one from my in laws family did this. 
    Plz help me
    I am Alone.......
     
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    layla mah khan reacted to 12reasons4truth. in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Hope you are well and living with your mother still INSHALLAH. Just checking up and see how are things going with you. I hope, INSHALLAH that everything is ok with you and your mother and your husband. I pray to Allah s.a.w to solve all of your problems sister and live in peace with all of your family members INSHALLAH.
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    layla mah khan reacted to allsayyidsareahlulbayt! in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    asa,
     
    it is not wajib on a female as per the vast majority of hadith/marja to make qada of parents. it is mustahab. you must however take the cost of hiring someone to offer them out of the free 1/3 of his estate.
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    layla mah khan got a reaction from 12reasons4truth. in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Pakistan. 
    Yes I can manage if my husband don't force me to abandon my job for his house chores.
    I do job in a different city. And my husband lives with his parents in another city where he has job. 2 hours ride between both cities. He has his own car. 
    He never supported me financially before or after baby. And before and after my job. 
    Just because of the social stigma attchd with divorce women my father didn't let me apply for khula. 
    My MPhil just ended. My parents and me both decided that I should apply for PhD scholarship abroad, take my baby and settle there. 
    But than I stopped every thing after his accident. That happend on 11 jan 2016. He had head injury, I took him to a major city hospital where after 42 days he died right in my arms. 
    I really don't know how I will now manage all this and move on and fight with my in laws for my rights and staying with my mother in future. 
    I have a toddler son, the threat of him being taken away from me if I file for khula is another tension for me. 
    Oh Allah I may not be capable of what You put on my shoulders.....
     
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    layla mah khan got a reaction from 12reasons4truth. in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Please reply to my questions
    Thnku
    Mola bless u 
    Ameen
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    layla mah khan got a reaction from 12reasons4truth. in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Please reply to my questions
    Thnku
    Mola bless u 
    Ameen
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    layla mah khan got a reaction from Chaotic Muslem in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Asalam o alikum
    My father passed away on 21 Feb 2016, he offered his prayers mostly regularly but not strictly. I am his only daughter, is it must on me to offer his remaining prayers?
    Even if they not and I want to than how to know how much should I offer for him. If I don't know how many of his prayers are left.?
    Once I already posted in a post here about the difficult situation I am in marital life.physical abuse and harassment etc. If my husband now asked me to leave my mother alone than should I?  I have no siblings.
    I am currently doing a gazetted post job, my father did so much effort in making me independent. If my in laws or husband forces me to abaondon every thing then what I should do? 
    Lastly my dad injury doesn't make any logical sense. I asked some good pious men to do istikhara all of them said its black magic ....
    Is there any amal r wazifa that I can do to get some guidance that who did this. Can I see the person in my dreams. 
    In istikhara it came that some one from my in laws family did this. 
    Plz help me
    I am Alone.......
     
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    layla mah khan got a reaction from 12reasons4truth. in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Thanku for ur kind words and support. May Allah bless u with happinesses of world
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    layla mah khan reacted to Enlightened Follower in meeting Relatives after we all face death ?   
    Of course you will meet your parents and family in heaven after all is done what makes you think otherwise?
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    layla mah khan reacted to SoliderofAllah_ in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    ( Bismillah) 
    As Salam U Alai Kum Wa Rahmatullah Hi Wa Barakatuhu
     
    I pray ths message reaches you in the best of health.
     
    Inna Lillah Hi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji'oon.
     
    May Allah swt shower your father with mercy. To answer your first question, it is fard upon you to pray the prayers your father missed.Just offer as much prayers as you can.  As for your husband, i suggest you call the police because physically and mentally abusing a woman is totally unacceptable.  Ask Allah swt and he will answer your dua, In Sha Allah. 
     
    To answer your final question,  i dont know abt Amal r Wazifa. Now, if Allah swt wills, u may see ur dad in your dreams.
     
    Now dear sister, You are NOT alone. Remember dear sister in Islam, Allah SWT  is watching and he knows your trouble and problems.
    Hope this helped.
    Salam
     
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    layla mah khan reacted to Azim Hussain in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    inalillahi wainailaihi rojiun
    i will pray for your father inshallah he'll be blessed with heaven and meet the prophets and ahlulbaith
    stay strong everything will become fine ,have faith in god!!!!
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    layla mah khan got a reaction from Azim Hussain in is only daughter obliged to offer his late father remaining prayers.   
    Please reply to my questions
    Thnku
    Mola bless u 
    Ameen
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