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Muntazir Ali

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  1. so i was in a serious relationship with someone who has lied to me about her past and the reason for lying is quite understandable. she was married before and got divorced because the husband didn't like her appearance. she is average looking and also has a weight problem. as much as i am hurt by these discoveries, what bothers me the most is that if i leave her and refuse to marry her. what will happen to her? i KNOW that at this point of her life it will be very hard for her to find a life partner. she lives in a society where everyone knows about her divorce and she is also considered "not pretty". i am at a war with myself. i am not "Gulfam" by any means but i AM a decent looking guy. i just feel i am being selfish and that her past is none of my business. everyone has physical needs and desires and i feel that if i reject her and she commits some kind of sin, i will be partially responsible for it. i don't want her getting beaten by her father. i don't want her to remain single for the rest of her life. i just don't know what to do. i feel cheated by her but at the same time the thought of her being hurt; hurts me ever more. could you please advice me on this issue.
  2. okay another question... if i sell these instruments can i used the money ? it was my money to begin with.. can i use the same money for my personal needs?
  3. this is my first post on this forum. i used to be a music freak and played guitar regularly. Alhumdulilah i have been trying to follow my Deen and have been trying to get away from these worldly pleasures. i no longer listen to music or play guitar. my question is i have about 5 instruments and 2 of these instruments are hanging on the wall. is it permissible to have instruments on the wall? i am confused if my salaat is nullified because of the presence of guitars on my room's wall. should i take the guitars off of the wall and put them in their cases and put the cases in the closet? i am willing to sell my instruments if that will help my salaat to be accepted by Allah swt. please reply ASAP.
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