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Pearl178

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  1. Salam sis @starlight yes we are all fine alhamdulilah the cyclone was moving towards the coastal area far from where I live. Just praying for all those affected by it though. Hope you are well sis
  2. But why would your friend come and tell you what the other guy said? How do you even know that this guy isn’t just trying to cause a stir? He’s creating fitna which is worse. I don’t get when people do that.
  3. I wear loose clothing, hijab with hands, face and feet showing (I don’t really know if covering feet is wajib). My clothes tend to be a little colorful but not too flashy. A bit of makeup is a must though I know it’s against the rules...as for social hijab, I try my level best to limit conversations with non-mahram at work but it can be challenging at times when you spend most of the day in the office.
  4. I hope I can finish the Quran this Ramadhan. I never end up finishing it but hopefully this year will be different.
  5. My mom had a child in her 40’s. Ironically this youngest sibling of mine turned out to be more intelligent and wiser than her 4 oldest siblings (and yes that includes me too).
  6. Nothing wrong with it at all and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. My brother married our second cousin 4 years ago, it was completely arranged we knew nothing about her. Alhamdulilah they are perfect for each other , a match made in heaven. And she is also an amazing sister-in-Law I couldn’t have asked for a better sis in law. So yeah, if she is a good person then by all means don’t let something trivial as this stop you from going forward.
  7. An epic speech by Simon Sinek on leadership: https://streamable.com/0y45u
  8. Do you pray the full thing 11 raka’at ir just the 3 (shafi3 and and witr)?
  9. @starlight missed you too sister, hope you are well.
  10. They would never get it from seeing their parent divorce a couple of times either. A broken home is 10000 worse for the kids if kids is what you are worried about.
  11. Unfortunately atheism is becoming a trend amongst shias in my country. It's mainly because most of the youth nowadays can't be bothered to put up with the obligations (or burdens as they would put it ) of religion. It's either that or that they claim to be muslim but commit every kind of haram. I treat them with respect like any human.
  12. Question is: how should these finite resources be distributed to ensure everyone has their faire share?
  13. 11 days for the whole year? Working or calendar?
  14. OP: this may sound like emotional blackmail but it is worth a shot. The next time you're parents do something like this, just bring your daughter into the picture. I'm sure they must love their granddaughter, right? Just guilt trip them into making them feel that whenever there is friction in the family, this severely affects their granddaughter and that they would be indirectly to blame.
  15. I thought she was a sister?
  16. You really are a superhero! Right, im dumping my future kids on you.
  17. OP: Islamically you are under no obligation to give your parents money but I believe that that if you help out your parents God will open up doors of rizq for you in so many ways and out of nowhere. Trust me. As for your dad not working, has he always not worked or is he retired? I personally wish my father would stop working, it pains me to see him working so much at such an old age. He;s worked all his life and I keep nagging at him to just stay home now and rest and me and my brothers would take care of him.
  18. Is it just me that's noticed this or is the number of non-Shias filling up the majalis of Imam Hussain expanding every year?
  19. Saudi Arabia driving ban on women to be lifted http://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-41408195
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