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On 2/10/2025 at 10:55 PM, Azadeh307 said:
I don’t think it would be easy to recover from years with the narcissist Kardashian family. However, I think this was not as impulsive as it may seem, given he produced merchandise for his Yeezy brand to fit them them of his posts before he made them. Right now he is only selling a shirt with a swastika on it on his website. May Allah guide him to Islam and heal him.
He is also a textbook example of how the termites of modernism hollow out a person, and a civilization. He had a 'cool' career, was making spades of money, was married to a quintessential 'trophy wife' and was leading the hedonistic lifestyle to its fullest; everything looked picture perfect and yet we can see what all of that brought him.
He's probably going to rave like a lunatic by fits and starts, and vegetate for the rest of his life.
Such is the reality of this civilizational quagmire, that even its most 'successful' specimens are fending off insanity.
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On 2/6/2025 at 4:49 PM, notme said:
. I wish my maternal grandmother had taught my mother German and my mother had used it at home when I was a child. German wasn't really socially acceptable in the 1940s when my mother was born.
It would be interesting to see how many of such language subcultures died out because they were the 'wrong' languages for the time.
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Your husband is a psychopathic, sadist m0π0n who deserves a bloody nose and a black eye. The only thing that I have to say about such men is- don't leave me alone in the a room with one of them. Only one of is going to walk out alright.
Please involve the relevant legal and religious authorities, and walk out of that hell. For the sake of your children.
Wassalam
20 hours ago, Mosaic said:I'm sorry you're going through this. I have no advice for you but hope you realize this is not a healthy relationship and that you are not a bad wife based on what you've posted. What you described can be seen as emotional, financial and sexual abuse. No one should make you feel obligated to put up with someone who degrades you regularly by using names of the masoomeen ((عليه السلام).).
100% agreed.
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'ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE RACISTS'
'I'M A NAZI'
Pick one side,please.
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On 1/22/2025 at 1:23 AM, Muhammad Hadi 15 said:
@AbdusSibtaynThank you very much brother for your detailed comments. I am overwhelmed by your advices.
May Allah keep you safe and well, and grant your parents a full recovery through the intercession and blessings of Ahlul Bayt.I want to connect with you personally. I don’t know if we are allowed to share our numbers on this forum. If you can drop your contact details in my inbox, please do so. I will very grateful. JazkaAllah khair
No problem brother. If things feel overwhelming, do them gradually, one step at a time.
13 hours ago, Muhammad Hadi 15 said:Thank you very much brother for your detailed comments. I am overwhelmed by your advices.
May Allah keep you safe and well, and grant your parents a full recovery through the intercession and blessings of Ahlul Bayt.I want to connect with you personally. I don’t know if we are allowed to share our numbers on this forum. If you can drop your contact details in my inbox, please do so. I will very grateful. JazkaAllah khair
Thank you for your prayers and good wished. Wa iyyaka khair al-Jaza.
I don't use social media, but nonetheless I'll see if I can send you my contact details.
Fi amanillah.
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Wassalam,
I like him and immensely respect him, and his family too.
His late brother, Sayyid Hussain, and his late father, Sayyid Badr al-Din, have worked a lot to bring the Zaydi and Twelver schools closer to each other at the ideological level.
His family, and he himself, have transformed Yemen from an American-Gulf Oildoms semi-colony to a centre of resistance, fighting for freedom from oppression, against extremely heavy odds.
I listen to him sometimes but not very regularly.
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On 1/23/2025 at 4:28 PM, Guest Guest Nadia A said:
Salam everyone,
I met a person on an online platform and he promised marriage and this man was very genuine and interested, the only thing is that he asked for pics and this person is super religious (Sayed) he said that it's not haram because we are doing it for the purpose of marriage and he asked for not so modest pictures. I still have no idea if that is wrong or right - then we told me he would recite a couple things and we would become married and all I gotta do is type "yet I accept" as in him being my husband for a month. I know I'm stupid to have believed this or is this not wrong?
I'm a bit young so I don't know much - I know it's my job to ask and learn and I'm trying.
1. If a guy is serious about marrying you, he'll approach your father to ask your hand in marriage. Everything else is a scam. Always remember this golden rule.
2. Generally speaking, for the purpose of marriage, the prospective groom and his family are allowed to see the prospective bride, even without hijab. But if he is asking for 'not so modest' pictures, then it's self-explanatory, whatever he is up to.
3. He's trying to prey on you by misusing temporary marriage ie mut'ah. Sadly for the predator, mut'ah or even permanent marriage is not valid without the permission of the woman's father or paternal grandfather. So his true intentions stand exposed.
In sum, the guy is a predator and also a groomer (he must have realized that you are young and impressionable enough to be manipulated). He's a low-life. Block him everywhere, as the others have also suggested. Be careful of such men in the future. It's a good thing you asked.
Wassalam.
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8 hours ago, Eddie Mecca said:
There's evidence suggesting that the whole of Sunni Islamist leadership has been bought out for the past 150 years...for example, Muhammad Abduh was an open Freemason whose sole alligance to Islam is questionable...same with his teacher al-Afghānī
They days of Abduh and Afghani are long gone. The 'reformists' have long lost the plot and the leadership of Sunni politics. Their more 'traditional' counterparts have also shown that they are only capable of going either the ISIS way (Syrian terrorists ,Dagestani/Chechen terrorists, ETIM terrorists, Libya,Sudan etc) , or the UAE-Turkey way (the whole of GCC, North Africa, Fatah/'PA' etc) , or some kind of a mix between the two (Taliban, HTS). Those who can actually do something meaningful are allied with the 'Rafida' (Hamas, PIJ etc).
I couldn't care less about whatever the Sunnis- Islamist or not- did to their own house- set it in order or set it on fire. The problem is that those who are compelled to live with and around them are also being forced to suffer the consequences of the choices they make.
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For a moment I thought IOF has hacked @Haji 2003 's account...
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Salam,
Yes, you can practice alone at home. It's not compulsory to attend mosque, not even on Fridays.
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19 hours ago, Muhammad Hadi 15 said:Thank you. How can I contact @AbdusSibtayn? I am unable to send any msg at his profile. Kindly help me.
Wa alaikas salam, dear brother.
Firstly, I would like to congratulate you for finding the eternal truth and boarding the Ark of Salvation. May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) keep you steadfast upon iman and the wilayah of the Ahl al-Bayt (ams).
الحمدلله الذی جعلنا من المتمسکین بولایۃ علي ابن ابي طالب و اولاده المعصومين صلواۃ الله عليهم اجمعين
I see from your post the situation that you are in, so let me address each of yours points separately.
1. I appreciate that your goal is to ultimately guide the rest of your family to the truth. But don't stress yourself too much about this. Your responsibility ends at having conveyed the message of Islam to them in a fitting manner; to follow suit with the rest is up to them. I understand that you would want the best of both the worlds for them, but they are ultimately people with free will and agency, and there's only so much that you can do.
2. Coming from non-Kitabi non-Muslim households, navigating issues related to taharah and najasah (ritual purity and impurity) and non-Muslim religious rituals becomes a bit of a problem for us, but these are not insurmountable difficulties. What I do is to do my own laundry separately, rinse all utensils with running water before using them, and the like.
What the marjas have also ruled (as I have been told by scholars) is that if these rulings are putting you in difficulties to the extent that your day-to-day life is becoming tough, you are even allowed to ignore the rulings to the necessary extent. Also (this is Shaykh Ishaq Fayyad (ha)'s ruling- he's one of our grand marjas in Najaf) if you are in a spot where you feel that insisting on taharah rulings can cause your family to have a negative impression of Islam, and harm the religion's image, you can overlook them to the necessary extent- for instance, if your mother has prepared something for you, and you know that it has become najis, but you know that if you refuse and tell her the reason, it will reflect badly upon the religion's prestige, you are allowed to eat that.
There are times when I can observe the rules vis a vis my family, and there are times when I cannot. For instance, I am able to keep rest of the things separate, I have my own room, and I do my laundry separately, but my parents won't ever hear of me cooking separately. I cannot say no, nor can I move out because they have serious health issues and I am the primary caregiver. So I have to relent here.
For the religious events (you are not allowed to do anything which may give the impression that you are affirming their religious belief), I excuse myself from the worship rituals. However, I take part in the other festivities (mostly, that's just a meal together) as that is allowed (it's not actually affirming their faith).
3. When it comes to marriage..... well, here is the tricky, not so nice part. By now you must have realized that for reverts, things are not quite easy in the communities. I don't know where exactly you are based, but given that you too are from the Subcontinent, you must have realized how deeply entrenched the caste system is, and the Muslims are no exception to this rule. For a social system which places such disproportionate emphasis on birth and pedigree, it is only natural that reverts, who are not generational Muslims, will be looked at askance. With the Shi'a community in the subcontinent, the emphasis on birth and endogamy is stricter than the Sunnis. I haven't really tapped into the Indo-Pak Shi'a marriage market as I don't intend to get married, at least not anytime in the foreseeable future, so I don't have a great idea of how it works, but from what I see and hear quite often, be prepared for some (actually, quite a bit of) difficulty. You may be rejected by potential alliances because you (A) are a revert and (B) live with your Hindu family. I really have no idea about how prospective brides might react to your situation, but I have a feeling that it will not be palatable to many of them.
I don't know how many of them are there, but there are revert sisters from Hindu and Sikh backgrounds, I am told, similarly placed as us the family situation-wise, who might be more open to living with non Muslim in-laws. I don't know them personally, but I have heard of one or two of them. Maybe you can try finding them and see if things work out? I am not trying to demoralize or scare you, or anything of that sort, but it would be very rare if a family of born Indo-Pak Shi'a would let their daughter marry you and move in with your Hindu family.
4. I don't know how much I will be able to help you, but I will try my best as I deem it my religious obligation to help a mu'min brother/sister our to the best of my ability. I have been here on this forum for quite some time, I took my shahadah some 12 years ago, and I keep a low profile and prefer anonymity because you yourself know what the situation in the country presently is like; I don't want some bigoted hoodlum to target and harm/harrass my family because of me. You can ask all sorts of question here, and the online community is always eager to help. Since you are a new member, you will require a specific number of approved posts (I guess it is something like 15 posts) before you can message members. Till then, you can put your questions here on this thread itself, should you have any more of them, and I'll try my best to answer them to your satisfaction.
May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) keep you steadfast upon His faith, cause you to grow in piety and knowledge, and bless you with a righteous wife. May He make things easy for you.
Fi amanillah.
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Salam,
Please watch these two videos I'm linking below for an in-depth explanation of the sadl (arms by the side) vs qabd (arms folded) debate from a Sunni fiqh perspective.
Explanation from Shaykh Hamza Yusuf (Maliki Sunni) for why Sadl is right.
Shaykh Ahmad Taha Rayyan (professor at al-Azhar University, the highest ranking seminary in Sunni Islam) explaining the Maliki position on Sadl (also check out the description box in this video for more advanced arguments, which would take some degree of previous religious knowledge to understand).
A ruling is not necessarily a correct one because it is more famous, or even otherwise. We the Shi'a believe that praying with the hands by the side is how the Prophet (S) prayed, and that's how his immaculate family, the Ahl al-Bayt (ams) have learned the prayer from the Prophet and taught us.
The Shi'a evidence-
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By using the God-given faculty of reason.
Watch this video from start to finish.
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4 hours ago, PureExistence1 said:
Salaam brother, could you please provide the definitions in the islamic sense to these?
It'd be MUCH appreciated!
Jzk
Wassalam,
I made a thread regarding this some years ago, and to be honest, I am still not very clear about their definitions, or how they differ from each other.
What I am led to believe is that apart from the seegha (the formula for reciting them) and the kaffarah (the penalty for not fulfilling them intentionally), there is no significant difference.
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Well, if you considered him your equal (kufw) from both shar'i and urfi (customary) perspectives, then that's a different matter and the marriage is valid.
As for the advice, there's not much particularly to offer, Islamically or otherwise. It is you who need to decide if you want to stay married to him or to separate. It's a question of what you wish to prioritize, the life you wish to lead versus the one that you have now. Unfortunately, we cannot make that choice for you. That's a call you need to take yourself.
...إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا۟ مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمْ ۗۗۗۗ...
"Indeed Allah doesn't change what (situation) it is with a people, unless they change what it is with themselves" (13:11)
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Was it a vow (nadhr), covenant ('ahd) or oath (qasm)?
The kaffarah for breaking these is different in each case-
https://www.sistani.org/english/book/48/8232/
https://www.sistani.org/english/book/48/8233/
See what applies to your situation.
But if it was an oath, then
Ruling 2691. If a person does not fulfil his oath owing to forgetfulness, necessity, or negligence, it is not obligatory for him to give kaffārah.
So I don't think you have to pay the kaffarah if you were negligent about observing the proper sleep schedule. I'd just pray that prayer another night and dedicate the thawaab to Sayyidah (sa).
Lesson learnt: Swearing an oath to Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is no light matter. If you don't fulfill it it's a sin. Don't take it casually- Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) has, let you off lightly this time. Consider it a warning and make commitments only when you are able to keep them. These things are not meant to enforce discipline, these are not life hacks. These are very serious things.
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Update: I now speak Klingon at home and Esperanto outside.
People don't understand me anyways. Why not, therefore, speak to them in some language they don't understand?
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The marriage is not a valid one- it's null and void. The wali (male guardian- father) 's permission is compulsory for it to be valid.
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Wa alaikis salam,
I am really at a loss of words.
I don't really have any advice other than being patient until the first opportunity you get to get out of the house. You can not really do much apart from this.
This is a perfect illustration of how every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve children.
Fi Amanillah.
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I haven't seen the interview but Hollywood is the Shaytan's megaphone and projector and it is not a secret.
Waiting for the megathread.