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About AbdusSibtayn

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    Shia Ithna Ashari Usuli Muslim
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    Fiqh, Kalam, Tafsir, All the social sciences.

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  1. AbdusSibtayn

    child adoption

    I am not sure, but I think Ayatollah Sistani (ha) also has a fatwa along similar lines.
  2. AbdusSibtayn

    I think my mother is actively dying...

    Words are poor comforters, sister. Stay strong. That's all I'll say.
  3. AbdusSibtayn

    Your personality type

    Mediator type. INFP-T.
  4. AbdusSibtayn

    What Did You Buy - 2018

    Assalamu alaikum, A new beard trimmer. Still learning to use it correctly.
  5. AbdusSibtayn

    List as many assertive responses U can think of

  6. AbdusSibtayn

    Post A Picture Of Your Fav Animal

    My favorite.
  7. AbdusSibtayn

    Types of Shiachat Users Part 2

    One more category- The irregulars- they come once in a while, post something, and then disappear for weeks/months on end. I belong to this type.
  8. May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى lengthen his life!
  9. AbdusSibtayn

    List as many assertive responses U can think of

    Wa alaikum assalam, No, thanks. Sorry, but I disagree. That'll work just fine, thanks. I'm sorry,but I won't be able to make it. I am sorry, but I am unable to help you with this. Depends a lot on the situation, actually.
  10. AbdusSibtayn

    I feel so tired every morning

    Ah great!! Didn't know that!! Pretty interesting!!
  11. AbdusSibtayn

    I feel so tired every morning

    Try becoming a Zen-Shia.
  12. AbdusSibtayn

    Types of Shiachat users

    Don't know where I fit in. I think I have a post-structuralist approach when it comes to these classifications. Same for personality tests.
  13. AbdusSibtayn

    Maintaining spirituality at work

  14. Assalamu alaikum, Dear sister, Don't lose hope. If Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى is delaying things for you, there must be something good waiting for you at the end. I don't know that well about women in the mid- twenties, but for us men, 20-25 is an awkward phase (I myself fall within this age group). It's a confused state of mind to be in. We instinctively feel that we are no longer boys, and we also know that we are yet not quite men either. In their mid- twenties, most men have just finished their education and are looking for jobs and financial stability. It's a sudden realization of their familial responsibilities that strikes them. For most of us this is a rough patch to navigate through, especially if we have had protective parents and an overprotected upbringing. Trust me, guys this age don't even seriously know what marriage is. They are attracted to women, and they crave female companionship, but they are afraid of committing, and the responsibilities that it entails. They are just not in the right frame of mind to settle down, because deep down they know they are yet not matured enough for the task. Consider relaxing the age limit a bit. Include men in their late twenties in your list. 3-4 years of age gap won't make that big a difference. I am convinced that men take longer to mature than women. What kind of intellectual pursuits are you interested in? Have you considered joining any related clubs/societies?