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  1. i am a 24 year old girl who was born as a Muslim ive grown up in Australia with my parents and siblings i have gone to uni and am trying to get into medical school my problem is ,that 2 years ago i meet a Australian boy who has always had an interest in Islam since he was 16 and has converted ,he is religious and successful hes a year older then me but much wiser and mature ,hes already bought two houses at age 18 and works all week ,he dosent party or drink or eat pork he was engaged to a girl but as she cheated he left her few years ago so hes never had any sexual relationships he prays and fasts and does all required and more my sibalings have made a strong relationship with him and have become great friends but ever since i told my parents there is such man who has an interest in marring me they have changed i do find him someone who will make my iman stronger and see him as a man for my children and he does have high interest in raising his kids the Islamic ways my parents have go insane basically ,words cannot describe how they react scream or talk ,they have become abusive and have hit me ,i had a brain damage due to the injurious they gave me ,ive had bruises all over my body and health wise i am not well at all they want to control everything i do ,they way i eat sit drink go out dress etc they have blamed me for all their health issues and curse me like no tomorrow they refer to the boy as the Jew boy and talk about him as if he is a piece of animal they have threaten me and have driven themselves to insanity i hate being at home because of the extent of damage thieve done to me mentally and physically my parents curse death upon me or cancer and never to b married and never to have kids but when i tell them they deny such things it does hurt seeing my friends having a family kids and their own life yet mine is being dictated by my family's they have stooped me from my education and anything i want they argue all day and want me to talk to them i haven communicated much to them because i don't wanna lie to them ,they force me to give them an answer they want to hear and not what i want to say otherwise ill be punished the boy hates how ive been treated yet he still respects my family and what they have done ,if he ever was bad he would have done harm or taken me away or called the police my dad ha sent spoken to me for a while and my mum compares m to every other girl i am afraid of facing them and telling them what i want not just because of fear but i do love them for what they have done for me and dont want them to die off ,im torn in between two worlds and don't know what to do ,i have given up on life and im lost is there any advice in what to do ?i seriously need help or i will be losing my life ,i cant take it anymore and i have become weak and brittle i have asked for advice from skaikhs but they told me to get the law involved or run off and i dont intend to do so anything i can do or how to approach this situation salam alakaom
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