(salam) sister ''notme'' Having children is important to me , I love children, children love me and my close friends always tell me I would make a really good mother. I am open for adoption, not underestimating the responsibilities and I have educated myself islamically in this regard. However the issue is that when I asked him whether he was open to the idea, he told me he wasn't purely because the child would not be his own (from his own blood). I can understand it from his perspective, I gave him an example of what would be better? a disobedient child that is from your own blood or raise