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Night_Inshallah

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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Hameedeh in Why do you wear hijab (If you choose to)?   
    1) I have a greek name but for some reason all the Muslims call me Aisha, lol. I am from the USA.

    2) Reason 1. Keeps people from bothering me. Seriously. You have no idea how same-sex harassment/courting/flirting has taken over the American work environment. But that's a topic for another day.
    Reason 2. It is a form of dawah. 
    3) Modest in dress?  I guess so. I would not wear something immodest and put on a headscarf. But don't forget a woman can be immodest in behavior (I curse a lot a work, make dua for me).
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from alHussein in !!! PLEASE make dua for this family!!!   
    GoFundMe for widowed sister
    Over $90,000 has been raised for this sister in one day. The brother died yesterday morning and his janazah is today.
    People from all over came together to help, Georgia, Alabama, New York, New Jersey, Cali, Philly,UK, black, white, arab, Shia, Sunni, Salafi,  Sufi, even NOI.  
    This was a believing brother. May Allah have mercy on his wife and children.
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Ali_Hussain in !!! PLEASE make dua for this family!!!   
    GoFundMe for widowed sister
    Over $90,000 has been raised for this sister in one day. The brother died yesterday morning and his janazah is today.
    People from all over came together to help, Georgia, Alabama, New York, New Jersey, Cali, Philly,UK, black, white, arab, Shia, Sunni, Salafi,  Sufi, even NOI.  
    This was a believing brother. May Allah have mercy on his wife and children.
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Ali_Hussain in !!! PLEASE make dua for this family!!!   
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Mansur Bakhtiari in !!! PLEASE make dua for this family!!!   
    GoFundMe for widowed sister
    Over $90,000 has been raised for this sister in one day. The brother died yesterday morning and his janazah is today.
    People from all over came together to help, Georgia, Alabama, New York, New Jersey, Cali, Philly,UK, black, white, arab, Shia, Sunni, Salafi,  Sufi, even NOI.  
    This was a believing brother. May Allah have mercy on his wife and children.
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Al Hadi in Would You Be A Second Wife?   
    I'm looking at this strictly as to how this would benefit me & my family.
    If a brother wanted to take me as his 2nd and had the ability to give me all my rights (including a separate home, in my name, and maintaining it) yeah, I would go for it.
    That means all of my earnings would be for me & my children. 
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from mina in Brother has secret girlfriend   
    You would snitch on your own bro? 
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from apofomysback in Brother has secret girlfriend   
    You would snitch on your own bro? 
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Yasmeena in !!! PLEASE make dua for this family!!!   
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    Night_Inshallah reacted to repenter-gone4awhile in Shiachat Memes! [OFFICIAL THREAD]   
    I just saw this........and laughed for a good 10 minutes. Friggin gold.......
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Tonks in Any Niqabis Here?   
    There is a sister in Philly who makes custom niqabs. They are so cute.
    https://m.facebook.com/janine.greenwood.144

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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Yasmeena in [LAWS]Bathing Dead Bodies   
    It is still called ghusl.
     
    http://www.mfs.asn.au/ghusl--burial-steps.html
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Khaybar in [LAWS]Bathing Dead Bodies   
    It is still called ghusl.
     
    http://www.mfs.asn.au/ghusl--burial-steps.html
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from LeftCoastMom in Sister Banned From Masjid/accused Of Being Male.   
    Her youtube response
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ptAHBK8dMqg
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from LeftCoastMom in Sister Banned From Masjid/accused Of Being Male.   
    Im fixing to ask a Shia Imam/scholar about this.....
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from apofomysback in Sister Banned From Masjid/accused Of Being Male.   
    I just don't like how they let a pig....I mean officer :)  come into the masjid and cause fitnah!
    If my ID and my passport says female that is the end of that! 
    For the board/Imam to be passing around her medical records among the masjid MD's is foul!
    What's next? Will she have to submit to a GYN exam by one of the masjid doctors to be accepted? 
    I would have no part in this community. :(

    This is a complete mess. Because now they are OK'ing speculation & rumors.  I know a lot of sisters who don't look all Barbie doll feminine. Some are boney and muscular and flat chested and have strong facial bones. So now any sister who looks a little hard has to submit to an interrogation & sexual exam?  
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from LeftCoastMom in Sister Banned From Masjid/accused Of Being Male.   
    I just don't like how they let a pig....I mean officer :)  come into the masjid and cause fitnah!
    If my ID and my passport says female that is the end of that! 
    For the board/Imam to be passing around her medical records among the masjid MD's is foul!
    What's next? Will she have to submit to a GYN exam by one of the masjid doctors to be accepted? 
    I would have no part in this community. :(

    This is a complete mess. Because now they are OK'ing speculation & rumors.  I know a lot of sisters who don't look all Barbie doll feminine. Some are boney and muscular and flat chested and have strong facial bones. So now any sister who looks a little hard has to submit to an interrogation & sexual exam?  
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Bakir in Sister Banned From Masjid/accused Of Being Male.   
    I just don't like how they let a pig....I mean officer :)  come into the masjid and cause fitnah!
    If my ID and my passport says female that is the end of that! 
    For the board/Imam to be passing around her medical records among the masjid MD's is foul!
    What's next? Will she have to submit to a GYN exam by one of the masjid doctors to be accepted? 
    I would have no part in this community. :(

    This is a complete mess. Because now they are OK'ing speculation & rumors.  I know a lot of sisters who don't look all Barbie doll feminine. Some are boney and muscular and flat chested and have strong facial bones. So now any sister who looks a little hard has to submit to an interrogation & sexual exam?  
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Gaius I. Caesar in Sister Banned From Masjid/accused Of Being Male.   
    I just don't like how they let a pig....I mean officer :)  come into the masjid and cause fitnah!
    If my ID and my passport says female that is the end of that! 
    For the board/Imam to be passing around her medical records among the masjid MD's is foul!
    What's next? Will she have to submit to a GYN exam by one of the masjid doctors to be accepted? 
    I would have no part in this community. :(

    This is a complete mess. Because now they are OK'ing speculation & rumors.  I know a lot of sisters who don't look all Barbie doll feminine. Some are boney and muscular and flat chested and have strong facial bones. So now any sister who looks a little hard has to submit to an interrogation & sexual exam?  
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from LeftCoastMom in Sister Banned From Masjid/accused Of Being Male.   
    www.iccpaz.com

    LOL you can niqabis apart. Besides, no body else in niqab is out fighting the system but her.
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Noorelhussain in If A Girl Is Ugly, But Religious, Would You Marry?   
    No way would I marry an ugly brother.
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    Night_Inshallah reacted to Abu Izrael in Games That Can Train Us For Jehad   
    Nice try, NSA
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    Night_Inshallah reacted to Repentant in Games That Can Train Us For Jehad   
    what the hell?
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from notme in Another Possible Potential.   
    I think I'm going to take all my profiles down and just chill until after Ramadan.  This is really just too much trouble meeting all these goofballs.
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    Night_Inshallah got a reaction from Fresh-imaan in Another Possible Potential.   
    Background: 
    1. Was still looking for a husband.
    2. Finally became open to the possibility of relocating.
    3. Was contacted by a brother in Georgia.
    4. He is not ugly.  He would look more attractive with a beard. He said he is from Iraq but he look kinda dark.  More like a dark pakistani than an arab.
     
    So far............
    We have had a lot of conversations about his expectations in a wife.  He asked me did I work and he said he does not want his wife to work.  I told him there is no way I'm relocating to another state and entering into a new marriage without a job.  I said when we start having babies I would have no problem with staying home but until then I'm going to keep work.  
     
    This man had the nerve to tell me that I could work inside the home & open a daycare.  I told him there is no way I'm going to watch a bunch of other people's kids for chump change.  
     
    He said what do I need money for if he is taking care of the home. I told him I like to shop and get my hair done. Then we had a loooooooooooong conversation about how I could buy everything I need and do my hair at home and then do other people's hair and make money that way.   I told him again I will not be side hustling out the house. I am educated and make a good living in my profession. I WILL CONTINUE TO WORK.
     
    Other than us spending 2 hours on the phone arguing about me working he seems nice. He has his own business and a nice sized home (4 bed 2 bath) and plenty of land for me to grow a garden on.
     
    I asked him what masjid did he attend and he said he does not go and that he has a masjid at home. He doesn't even go to the masjid for jummah and just prays at home. I asked him why doesn't he go and he said when he first came to America he didn't like it because they prayed to quickly and he likes to take his time praying.  
     
    ^^^This is the only thing that concerns me. I know I'm not supposed to be suspicious of another Muslims but I've heard of brothers who were abusive to their wives and have been shunned by the community so I will contact my wali to try to make sure this is not one of these types of fools.
     
    I will be in Atlanta in 2 weeks. I need to confirm that he is accepting of me working and has a good reputation. 
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