Armans Wife

Salam, They have al ghadeer event on Sunday and I think I'm going to go there. Thanks :). Still, would be nice if I could meet up with other sisters in Luton area.

Well eventhough I am not active anymore but I used to be really active on SC a couple of years ago, I didn't just sign up on SC just to lure innocent sisters mind you

Salam, I'm staying in Luton for a couple of weeks and I barely know anyone here. It'd be lovely if I could meet up with some sisters for a walk/cup of coffee. I know it's a long shot and maybe everyone is very busy but when I walk down the streets I see many muslims so I thought I'd give it a shout out on SC. Sisters only please, if the title is not obvious enough.

There are always stereotypes but people are unique. I really don't believe in stereotypes but I do have preference which I don't share with others because then they'll think I'm a racist. I do know a western girl who married with a muslim for few years against her family's wishes, they warned her that muslim men are bad news. It didn't end well as the man was abusive and stole a lot of money from her but she still doesn't think that all muslim men are like that. She said she just wasn't lucky.

Salam, I've been searching with no luck for a minimum distance while travelling of which fasting is not obligatory. I read that it's 8 farsakh. How much is 1 farsakh? it's really confusing to me. Anyone can help me with sources? Thanks

Find some muslim friends... there are plenty in the west I promise my best friend isn't muslim but we share a lot of things in common... she doesn't go out or drink and she's very tolerant about my faith.. she would buy halal meat when I come over for dinner...and we always have healthy discussions about faith and such..

Salam sis, Anger problem is a major issue. If it bothers you now, it'll ruin you after the marriage. You don't sound like someone who's in love and looking forward to marry your fiancee. Normally people feel like that after 5 years of marriage when they start to settle and become 'best friends' with their spouse, but from your story... it seems he doesn't even care about what you think. If he chats with other girls and flirts with other girls behind your back before marriage he'll still continue this.... many men become worse in this area after marriage... trust your guts... but pray for guidance.... being single and happy is 100000000000000000000 times better than stuck in a marriage with a self centred man who doesn't give nothing about how you feel... (pardon the double negative) its all about communication, and you don't seem to have a good one going with him

Because some people apparently think it's more important to see differences... than similarities... and easier to spread hatred than love... and they want to view the world just from one perspective and can't be bothered that there are some people in this world who don't share the same view with them... Well brother.. some people just LOVE to slander because it makes them feel better than others I always wonder the same thing every time I come across some posts in this forum. But thank you for posting the statement.... he's my marja and I can't agree more about what he has made forbidden... I believe a good muslim will be kind towards his fellow muslims... no matter from which sect they are from.

Salam, Quite off-topic but when I read Bondwomen I thought of James Bond.. lol, I thought it was a joke or something but then you were actually serious.

I do notice a significant speed difference. I just wish it was more like firefox, lol. Incidently my new laptop just died. :( Stupid bios update from their site automatically starts updating with some lame file, while the actual file is located outside of the install folder... result... my laptop will not even turn on... the power button does nothing, lol... :cry: PS: Apparently my wife was logged in... but its me: Arman.

I am not even familiar with those brands lol. I shop occassionaly at H&M when they're on sale :D

you know it would be nice if you were right, but if you were wrong then you'll roast together with them in hellfire.. it's kind of like a lottery because you never know until you die and experience it yourself

yeah people were confused about my gender too, cus they thought I was Arman's alter ego.. :blush: