Jump to content
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!) ×
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!)
In the Name of God بسم الله

its_me123

Basic Members
  • Content Count

    5
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Profile Information

  • Religion
    Muslim

Previous Fields

  • Gender
    Female
  1. Thank you everyone, I'm going to try all these InshAllah they will work, do you have a link with the correct wordings for these du'as written in English? I don't know Surah Al nass and I think Ya Qaharu is just one line u have to repeat 1000 times? I usually don't worry but sometimes family tells me problems and tells me how it's going to affect me that makes me worry, and I stress a lot for them too, they're really old fashioned so they're way of thinking will never change, that makes me stressed as well. But inshAllah prayer and these du'as will make everything better :) once again thank you
  2. hey guys, I feel really weird posting this, but, I've had anxiety issues for a really long while now, I know it's because of family issues and I don't handle stress well. I always thought one day it would go away, but it's actually gotten worse. Sometimes I get depressed and it comes out of nowhere, and I've heard so many times it's haram to be depressed in Islam. Is there anyway to get over this spiritually? any special du'as? has this happened to anyone else? I've been like this for 6 years now, and i'm only in my early 20s, I can usually cheer myself up most of the times, I like being a happy person but sometimes I get completely depressed and irritated with everything, I can't help it though, any suggestions?
  3. Thank you guys for the great advice, I'm going to make sure I don't make any rash decisions that I was thinking to make previously, this really helped! :)
  4. Thanks for the advice, its just that my parents avoid going places, like family events and mosque events because they don't want anyone seeing that my sister is not with us, they try to avoid as much as ppl from our community as they can, which is why marrying my cousin seems the only option since the issue stays in the family. It's not what I want, but I doubt my mom would want another random family wanting to know our problems and it spreading.
  5. I've been coming on this site for a couple years now, so not exactly new to it, but decided for the first time to try it out since I don't come from much of a religious background and have nowhere else to turn to..basically So my problem is, I am approaching the age of getting married, my sister has left home and has no intentions of coming back, and my mother tells me I will not be able to get married until she comes back. (she's been gone for 4 years) Even though I tell my mom she won't come back, my mom insists that it's the only way for me to get married, and all our home problems to be solved. I do speak with my sister at times but it usually ends up in an argument and not talking for gaps as big as a yr sometimes mainly because I tell her to come back and she insists she was treated horribly by my parents. One other choice my mom gave me was to marry my cousin back home, who I don't know, and really don't want to marry. My question is, should I give in to marrying my cousin even though I don't want to b/c that's whats best for me and my family as my mom says? Or could there be another way out of it, given my sister won't come back and who really wants to marry someone that comes from such a family ...
×
×
  • Create New...