The non-Muslim man must convert to Islam, if not sister you cannot have this man at all. It makes no sense to post this topic at all. You are under your father in Islam and a true Muslim father will never waive his rights of his daughter to a non-Muslim man for marriage. If that then guaranteed the marriage is baatil. Also it's a bloodline thing as the religion and clan is passed through the father and husband/father is head of the household. The children belong to the father's religion, the father's country, and the father's family. Please save yourself the trouble from a baatil marriage and