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Wind Chimes

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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Al-Hassan in Help My Friend   
    Aslam-e-elukum,
     
    I am writing this topic on behalf of a sister. Please help and guide her. She seems lost.
     
    Thank you.
     
    Dear Brothers & Sisters,
     
    I need help from you guys, I am really depressed and frustrated. I am a convert here in an Asian country. I was previously a Sunni but I accepted Shiaism long ago. And I consider myself a great lover of Prophet Muhammad(SAW) and Ahl-ul-bait(AS).
     
    I was opposed by my family when I converted and faced a few hardships along the way. Things got better and then came the issue of my marriage. I am obviously looking for a Shia husband but I am being rejected by Shia families mainly because I am not a born Shia. And they question my faith. And this is causing frustration.  Even my mom is asking me to go back to Sunnism. And marry soon. Otherwise I will be too old for marriage. I asked my mom to forget the matter that I will be a Sunni again because that will never happen. 
     
    I don’t know what to do. These people who reject me make me feel like a worthless creature and it is creating problems for me. I am falling into a deep depression.  L
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Pinata in Your Own Captured Photos   
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Pinata in Your Own Captured Photos   
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Pinata in Your Own Captured Photos   
    Beautiful Islamabad
     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     
     
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Tonks in I Want To Get Married   
    Sheesh getting married is the hardest thing on Earth.
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Pinata in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    I can never pull off excuses to not show up on mondays, they're always suspicious and assume I just didn't feel like going (which is actually the case). 
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Ali_Hussain in What Have You Watched Recently? [OFFICIAL THREAD]   
    I saw this, it was a little freaky, defo not calling my daughter Bathsheba
     

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    Wind Chimes reacted to Mushkil Kusha in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Couldn't be better bro Alhumdulilah, ah you know the hunt is still on, whenever HE wills I suppose
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Ruq in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Horse mocks laughing woman...
     

     
    ...and children:
     

     
     
     
    ...Its a mocking horse ...
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Kamranistan in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Allah(SWT) thank you so so much. :wub:
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Gotham in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Allah(SWT) thank you so so much. :wub:
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Brained in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Allah(SWT) thank you so so much. :wub:
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Mushkil Kusha in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Allah(SWT) thank you so so much. :wub:
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from meshad in Your Own Captured Photos   
    Beautiful Islamabad
     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     
     
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Doctor_Naqvi in Your Own Captured Photos   
    Zefra Islamabad
     
    chocolate cafe Islamabad
     
     
     
     
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Doctor_Naqvi in Your Own Captured Photos   
    these are mobile uploadsAbbottabad
     


     
     
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    Wind Chimes reacted to AnaAmmar1 in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Haram e Imam e Reza (AS) is heaven :wub:
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    Wind Chimes reacted to AnaAmmar1 in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    inshAllah i will pray for all of you tonight.Remember me in your prayers also.
     
    Shukria bhayya.
    jb ma ne post ki thi uss se agley din ki train ki ticket li thi.abi filwaqt mashad ma hoon.
    taqreeban 3 din aur 3 raatain safar kia ha.wo bhi akelay.kafi adventure raha(halaat ko dekhte hoey) 
    khuda ka shukar ha Alhamdolillah.
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Pinata in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    Rain :wub:
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Hasan0404 in Shiachat Memes! [OFFICIAL THREAD]   
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Durr-e-Najjaf in Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]   
    ^^ Lucky you.
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from md. ammar ali in Will It Be Sin, If A Shia Man Marry A Revert?   
    Sister Saamra,
     
    The fact that you are not alone in this, is true. I understand your situation as I am going through almost the same situation. I know it hurts and it hurts real bad. The pain is unbearable. Be patient. I will pray for you. 
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Jahaanali in B+...no Its Not About My Blood Group....   
    In the name of God,the Highest.
    it is within our human nature that we enjoy being around people who are happy and have a positive outlook towards life,such people have this dynamic power within them trough which they can lift up anyone's spirits.William John Riley,a researcher at the Carnigie institute says " If you reflect u will see among ur friends and among ur family members those who have a positive way of  thinking fascinate u more than others and you like to be with then most of the time.those who are positive are happier,livelier and more active.Imam Ali (a) used to say "Live amongst the people in such a manner that when u die they weep over ur absence and when you are alive they crave for ur company".Of course the way we live our lives we can scare the living hell out of anyone,
    Most of the times when we come around such people we defend our own negative attitude towards life by saying things like,these people are born happy and only if they would have the same problems like me,then they would realize how tough being positive is,But the reality is these guys have the same problems like we have,a nagging spouse,sick parents,health issues,work stress etc but the only difference is that they are more realistic and we are more dramatic towards our approach,Mark Twain used to say "I am old and I know many calamities and misfortunes but most of then did not take place."
    Once a king gathered his wise men and told them to write for him something which would encompass the entire message of our life on this earth,one of the oldest from the group came with this amazing line "THIS TOO SHALL PASS". Dr Vincent Peale has some amazing words he says "A homecoming  pigeon released in the air,instinctively heads for home,birds migrate 1000 miles and return to their original place,every rivulet is pulled by the lure of the sea.We come from God and hi is our home." This entire universe along with u is in constant movement nothing is waiting for u then who are you waiting for.If you go to a Muslim graveyard one famous line is etched on every grave "WE BELONG TO GOD AND TO GOD SHALL WE RETURN".
    Imam Ali was once asked what is asceticism he replied " Asceticism means you do not become over joyful when u get something and you do not grieve too much when you have lost something."
    If taking stress and killing ur self would solve ur problems then go on make ur day,but this is life and you must get real,gather ur self,you are a Super Man and a real one not the one who does not even know that wearing tights is a girlie thing and undies over pants is way out of fashion....
    Dr Alex carrel says " You can guide and control ur life in the same way a pilot guides a huge plane",do not let other people choose the way you are going to live ur life today,
    ...and here is some icing on the cake Holy Quran 3.160 "IF GOD ASSIST YOU THEN NONE CAN OVERCOME U"
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    Wind Chimes got a reaction from Mushkil Kusha in I Need Advice Please Help(Marriage)   
    Sister just be careful with what you choose. I assure you that people are not trustworthy nowadays. The guy might be with you now but what if he changes his mind and abandons you. Most Pakistani men tend to do that. And it will hurt you so badly. Be careful. I will pray for you. 
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    Wind Chimes reacted to Mushkil Kusha in Will It Be Sin, If A Shia Man Marry A Revert?   
    (wasalam)
     
    Firstly, let it be clear that Its certainly not a sin to marry a revert. You need stop thinking like this just because someone who you think is pious claims its against the laws of Allah ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì Something that would constitute being against his ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì law would be obvious physical contact or anything which can lead to other Haraam acts. Now you say you have accepted islam with all your heart and not for him, this statement is something you should ponder over very seriously because you are now going to be tested on it. He may not remain in your life for whatever cultural reasoning however Allah ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì could easily test you if Islam and the trust in Allah ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì remains in your heart or not. That being said, I strongly disagree with his reasoning behind not going through with it. If the thought of society talking bad about his family scares him or the fact that his relatives will break contact with him (which is one of the major sins in islam) then I'm sorry because he lacks knowledge and faith. As hard as it may be I would use this opportunity to reach out to Allah ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì to get closer to him and learn more about islam on your own. At the moment you may think that he's someone you can not live without but wait until you meet a real pious brother who will shun any cultural set back to marry you, someone who will come and grow with you in faith. Allahu A'alam
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