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  1. my god what a forum! some good replies then some unfriendly ones. bro why am i having to defend myself after every post??? she knows him. she knows he is a criminal and helps him out. didnt you read??? what ruq said makes sense. some you guys ...... lol. y respond if all you will do is attack?
  2. faridoon the guy takes narcotics, messes with women and went to prison for violence. i am not interested in this girl because i am too old. i am just worried about her future. i am an older man worried about her getting a beating. i want to tell her father. if you want to say he is better than me then good luck to you.
  3. dont get me wrong. i only said looks because they have nothing else. i got no problem with good women marrying men who are decent but havent got the looks. if they at least had looks u could explain why they got married to a sinful player. what drama?
  4. no i do know him well! he has gone to prison and right now is always with lots of girls. he said she trusts him not to mess about with those ladies. he is no match for her. in their social circle there are lots of good strong guys. he got her by being friends with her and then proposed. he is a compulsive liar as well.
  5. i have seen it too much. a good woman with a loser husband. today i was speaking to my elderly colleague about a girl who is engaged to this convict. he has anger problems and a failure in school. my colleague laughed and said "what does she see in him??" he thinks he is ugly too. she is a religious muslim with many good traits. she will have a terrible life with him. its baffling. too many good muslim women with losers. why do some muslim women marry men who are losers, ugly or horrible people? is it cause these bad boys sweet talk them?
  6. (salam) what are the rules on khums for stock and currencies whose price changed? e.g. if i have a currency whose value changed then do i pay khums on it or on my main currency?
  7. you said "over weight girls for you to say why is she suggesting those girls? Are they not human to? No? " what if someone kept introducing you to shorter men?
  8. kim and enlightened answer truthfully. will you marry a man 6 inches shorter than you?
  9. how will that change anything?? same problem when you are 18 or 28. i am way over 18.
  10. good idea ali_hussain. i will try that. now what do you do when you havent got a friend who can do that? i have been here before and i quit. what can we do?? "(This thread could really hurt some people's feelings)" beauty is in the eye of the beholder. no one should get really upset. i am sure some people think i am ugly. i dont get hurt by it.
  11. this is why i am scared. i got know if the sister will react like golden crowned or enlightened. enlightened, not marrying a woman you dont find attractive is sunnah. i am looking for a wife and not a colleague. The Prophet (Pbuh) told Mughayreh, the son of Shua'ba the son of Shua'ba" who had married a woman: "Had you looked at her before you got married, there was more hope for you to get along with her." [Marriage in Islam , p.47] Muhammad, the son of Muslim said that he asked Imam Baqir (Pbuh): "Does a man who wants to get married have the right to look at the woman?" He answered: "Yes of
  12. i dont judge these girls. i sometimes hate my self for rejecting them :( :( it makes me feel completely horrible :( but i know the marriage wont work. i havent got the courage to tell this sister. i might just tell her i dont want to look anymore. i dont want to offend her. once in the past my aunty did the same thing and got angry because said i didnt like the girls she made me meet.
  13. selaam bros and sisters. some time back i wrote here because i could not find any sisters to marry. recently i found a sister who said she will help me. she is my friend's wife. so she has been introducing me to girls she knows. but the big big problem is many of them i dont find attractive. its a big big waste of time meeting these girls and all. i want to tell the sister that this is wasting time for all of us and she should only set up girls who i will like. but i am afraid of how she will respond and i will lose my reputation. what do i do???? i get told by friends that i look good and i h
  14. I am old enough to move out with all the family. I have the money. We have suffered our whole lives. We cant move out because the community will talk. Cant say it is stress because we get all her chores when she goes on holiday. I cant speak to her about it when she is calm because she snaps and all hell breaks loose.
  15. Salam alaikum I live with someone who is very quick tempered and emotional. I told her lots times but she wont see it. Sometimes it's like walking on glass and the rest of us family members cant do anything right. We are always getting attacked and hurt by her. She is always finding flaws with us and calls us evil and dogs and all sorts. It's never her fault ... always ours. Sometimes she beats us. Its mentally draining me. I need advise. I can't leave home cause it's my mom :( I love her but she's too emotional and wont think straight. Outside the house she is an angel.
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