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She's asking for advice on WHAT to do, not your personal opinions or judgment of her. Her deeds are between her and Allah ÓÈÍÇäå æÊÚÇáì, lets leave it that way. Give advice if you got some, if you haven't click on the red 'x' on the corner of the page.

If females dressed in hijab really aroused lust in men, they would have put covered up females in those dirty magazines. However it's pretty obvious that such magazines wouldn't sell like the nude magazines do. So whoever thinks that it's possible to equate hijab to non-hijab, think again. Hijab will always put up that barrier against lust.

Thoughts: I HATE WAHHABIS/SALAFIS SO MUCH :mad:

You do not need any more advice than what is given. Just repent repent repent as much as you can, zina, fornication is one of the most serious sins one could committ. And please do not murder your child just because you both were idiots and could not keep your pants closed. And please write a book, an article, an essay, whatever to tell the world about your lessons from a pregnancy out of wedlock. The bes which can come out of it is to show other mindless kinds of yours to learn that Allah has already given solutions to avoid zana by allowing nikah and muta. [EDITED]

You have already committed great sins, dont curse your self more by adding on the even greater sin of murdering your own child. You have put your self in this situation, now you have to deal with it, have the child and do your best to raise it. Marrying the individual now will not make the child legetimate, it will only (possibly) save face in the community, as at the very least the child will have a father when its born. However if you dont want to spend your life with this individual, dont marry him. Other than that, pray that Allah grants you a long life so that you have adequate time to repent for this great sin. May Allah forgive you and grant you the shi'fa'at of ahlulbayt (as).

Okay, guys. I guess this is my turn to be a drama queen and stuff. I just wanted to ask you guys, can I, like, start all over again? The evils that I did has really brought me in a very remorseful state to say the least. Just to let you guys know, those weren't really any 'major' evils, it's just that times slowly transformed me into a very wounded, bitter individual. Like someone pointed me out on [sC] Chatroom the other day, my akhlaq has become horrible. The rebellious, hurtful attitude of mine, has really made people feel bad. And now, I just want to put an end to this once and for all. I wish I could revert back to the younger me before I allowed circumstances and conditions overwhelm me and turn me into something I'm not proud of, to say the least. Can I wipe my slate clean and become a whole new individual [not literally, of-course. It's a metaphor]? Eh. That's all. I guess that wasn't too much of an emo banter.

Tsk tsk. This is disgraceful people. You're letting trivial politics by satanic politicians cause all this hatred among yourselves, so much so, you resort to personal insults and go as far as appending inappropriate things to each others mothers and sisters. From al-Kafi: Abu al-‘Abbas narrates: “Once I asked Abu ‘Abd Allah (a) about the minimum degree of al-Shirk (paganism). The Imam (a) said, ‘It is one’s inventing an opinion and thereafter loving and hating (people) on that basis.’” You seem to be very confident about your views on world politics and apparently know a lot about 'secret, hidden' agendas and whatever, yet you seem to lack knowledge about the hadith taught to kids which defines a Muslim as one from whose tongue other Muslims are safe. This is extremely shameful and know that you are a blot on SC, a blot on your parents and family and a blot on Muslims worldwide, for saying all that you said. ------- For future reference: I have taken the trouble of editing individual posts which were offensive. Next time, I'll delete all the offensive posts, in their entirety, so anyone using profanities will just be wasting his time thinking of how to ruffle the feathers of the person on the other end. Irrelevant things have been edited. Noah - has been banned. Mo. has been suspended. Thread unlocked. wa (salam)

As long as you're on msn an fb it's all gd :P oh and i may be doin the same soon so it's all gud. I'd just like to say you've been an inspiration to me, on the level, your problems etc and the way you are being tested is a HUGE blessing. You motivate me to strive, i've got it easy man. InshaAllah you always try your best for the sake of Allah (swt) as will I. May god bless you. InshaAllah you become who you want and do what you love to do ;) get through college frst, work hard bro. MashaAllah you uloo :P lol

Salams, Allah(s.w.a) forgives any sin except Shirk to whom he wills (Surat Nisa, Ayat 116). Like was said above, if you want the chance that Allah(s.w.a) will forgive you, don't add one major sin to another by having an abortion. The stories about how the child will have a cold heart, cursed, etc are garbage. Just because a child is born out of wedlock doesn't place that child outside of the spiritual laws of cause and effect. The ones who have a cold heart become that way thru their actions. If they act in a cold way toward others, they will eventually develop a cold heart. To prevent this, you should raise the child in the best way possible and love and care for the child and act as if the first events didn't happen. It is very possible that Allah(s.w.a) has made the caring for this child as a means of forgiveness for you. It is possible and there are many who have done it. This will reduce the possibility of the child having a cold heart and being cursed. The child does have a father. Hopefully, he will 'man up' and accept his responsibilities. If you despise him to the point that you cannot fulfill your duties as a wife and / or you believe that he will have a major negative effect on you child, then you should not stay with him but this does not absolve him of his responsibilities toward his child. The child should know that this is his / her father and should have a relationship with him, even if it is minimal. If you want to marry another man, I suggest you do it soon. It is much easier for a man to accept a child who is not his own if he can raise the child from birth. When the child become older, it is harder to accept. If the community gives you too many problems because of this, you can always move somewhere else. I wish you the best and May Allah(s.w.a) forgive you and help you.

It's hard when she lives in America and good Shia men, let alone good Shia communities, are few and far between. And the numbers are dwindling. And sure I wear hijab to please Allah and to hopefully attract a man I'd like to marry one day who appreciates a woman who does what Allah commands her and is modest both physically and socially.

From the abyss of self Emerge words unspoken The poetic pen is the flute Singing ideas to the heartbroken In the shadows of conformity Inspiring souls are woken With echoing oaths of sacrifice They engrave tears on paved ways Revolutionized from within The earth under their feet sways Mythical legends arising from dust Heroes born at the end of days Unknown flowers hidden in society Reflections of an Unseen Face

(bismillah) salaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam everyone :P I first joined ShiaChat at the beginning of my summer holidays in fact it was the day when the holidays started, due to this ive been online quite alot for all that time and many people may think that this is how it is going to stay because they are so used to me being online quite alot. When I first joined I had already visited for a few months and got help with answers i needed through other members posts but then I had questions which people hadnt posted and I decided to make an account .. also I was eager to get into the chatroom :P On this website I met many people who were kind to me and who helped me solve their problems. There are too many members to name but you all know who your are :D Some of you may know me well and some may not, before I leave I will find out who knows me the most but yh I just wanted to say as holidays are coming to an end my time on ShiaChat could come to an end to. It was nice meeting you all, may Allah (swt) guide us all and keep us on siraatal mustaqeem and give us the intercession of the holy and pure Ahlul Bayt (as) and grant us jannah inshaAllah. If anyone gets annoyed with me then sorry <-- If you dont understand what this means then sorry :wacko: :cry: (wasalam)

Yep, the average Sunni is OK. But these lot on the page are like a cancer.

I saw your posts - good work! Even though it got malled by those pigs within an instant. I don't understand - our page is Shia humour, I don't know why those filthy lot came on and attacked it. Bhai jaan, I'm not lying when I say that "what would MDM do" came across my mind. I've now applied it - there is a Wahhabi girl in a niqab and I just called her a man LOL.

bro take a lesson from the MDM school of eDiss-ery. keep your posts and insults short, accurate and brutal. if they arent debating then "do what MDM would do".

Thoughts: I HATE all of the Wahhabis on Facebook. I want to kill them. My blood is boiling.

May we all act as good followers of the Ahlullbayt (peace be upon them) so we do not make them look bad in the eyes of others, but rather make them attracted to the path of the Ahlullbayt (peace be upon them) instead. :blush: Good game idea! Inshallah all the duas that are good for us will be answered :D

Epic fail.

Salam, got this from the Ahlulbayt Community confirming the donations for the Somalia Appeal. May Allah (swt) bless those who contributed. http://www.presstv.i...ail/194275.html

(salam) (bismillah) I think you've totally misunderstood by post. I quoted one hadeeth that shows that the `ulemaa sometimes refer to the Ahl al-Bayt (as), but then in another hadeeth (weak) where the Ahl al-Bayt (as) have told us to "be an `aalim" proves that it sometimes doesn't mean the Ahl al-Bayt (as). It is the Pseudo-Akhbaris who believe that anytime the word `aalim is in hadeeth it refers to the Ahl al-Bayt (as), I am not of that belief. I just wanted the brother to see that when it says `ulemaa it doesn't always means scholar, but it could mean Ahl al-Bayt (as). (salam)

You cannot kill the child as said, you would be compounding sin with sin. Beyond that though, I really hope you will not let the child's origins get in the way of your loving them as you would any other. The child didn't commit your sin, and a life is a life. In this case that life would be coming from you. So raise him/her well, and in sha Allah out of a mistake some good may come. Yes, there are certain laws that are different in this regard (e.g. inheritance laws), but keep these in mind as well: In al-Kafi: الحسين بن محمد ، عن المعلى ، عن الوشاء ، عن أبان ، عن ابن أبي يعفور قال : قال أبوعبدالله عليه السلام : إن ولد الزنا يستعمل ، إن عمل خيرا جزي به ، وإن عمل شرا جزي به . al-Husayn b. Muhammad from al-Mu`alla from al-Washsha from Aban from Ibn Abi Ya`fur. He said: Abu `Abdillah عليه السلام said: Verily the child of fornication is required (or, asked) to work. If he does good he is requited (recompensed, rewarded, repaid) for it, and if he does evil he is requited for it. And in Tuhuf al-`Uqul: ولا يأخذ الله عزوجل البرئ بجرم السقيم، ولا يعذب الله الابناء والاطفال بذنوب الآباء وإنه قال: " ولا تزر وازرة وزر اخرى ". " وأن ليس للانسان إلا ما سعى " والله يغفر ولا يظلم. . Allah عزوجل does not bring the innocent to account for the offense of the sick (at heart), and Allah does not punish the sons and the children for the sins of the fathers. Verily He said, “And no bearer shall bear the burden of another” (6:164 et al), “And that man shall not have save what he strives for” (53:40). Allah forgives and does not wrong.

Didn't know some sickos have animal fetish. But thank you for your support. I would not call it Hijab Fetish, as much. I have more of an appreciation for hijab women. Most of all because they are brave enough in a society which emphasizes so much on women's exploitation based on her bare skin. It's just a plain simple respect sort of every human has for those who stand for their principals not matter what the consequences are.

That's why we have discussion threads. No scholar did what you're doing. Sayed Sistani himself did not accuse Sayed Khomeini of misguidance because he thinks chess is halal while Sayed Sistani thinks it's haram. Shouldn't we learn from Sayed Sistani's usloob? About the adding Sunni mods or allowing Sunni questions all over forum. It;s a Shia forum, so it's normal Sunni discussions have a subforum-but Shias with different opinions being put in a sub forum??! Sorry but that's unacceptable. If so then the S.Sistani followers should be put in a sub forum because we believe something are haraam while the followers of S.Fadhlullah think it's halal and then the followers of S.Khamanei should be in a separate sub forum too and so on? When one scholar think something is halal and another thinks is haraam does that mean one "accused" the other of being a liar? Misguided? Or does it mean they studied and came to different conclusions? It's a Shia forum brother, if it's going to become like this and we can't even handle different views within the same madh-had might as well each have their own forum site named with their-own-scholarchat.com??! They come with their argument and proof, we come with ours and a civil discussion takes place.Simple. Shia chat. Shia forum. Shia discussion. Btw the thread title is REALLY misinforming.

This website really is turning into a cess pit of deviance, we have laypeople like Orion condemning some of our classical 'Ulema and other laypeople attacking the contemporary 'Ulema. Look at how our Maraja'a like Sayyed Muhammad Husayn Tabataba'i al-Hakeem (HA) discusses 'Ulema after referring to them as Akhbaris: http://www.alhakeem.com/arabic/rsael/osol/index.htm he praises them with Quds Sirrihim, something one only says for Praised 'Ulema. Now we have this kid Orion calling Akhbaris a Cult, thats disrespectful to the two Majlisis, Hurr al-Amili and Yusuf al-Bahrani (QS) amongst others. Zareen please unregister my account.

To anyone that suffers any form of mental disorder Im building a support site, a place where you can find others in the same situation, among other uses

(bismillah) (salam) I would like to make one last game .. its called the Dua Game ! :D Rules : Each person makes as much duas as they want and it can be whatever they want it to be .. no stupid stuff like praising yazeed (la) etc.. Ill Start ! :D May Allah (swt) guide anyone who is misguided and would want guidance but doesnt look for it because they think that they are already guided and then forgive them for their sins and grant them jannah inshaAllah ! :D Your Turn ^_^ (wasalam)

Say whaaaaaaaaaaat? You can't like both the posts of Ya Aba, and the posts of macisaac. It's like having whiskey for iftar.

Inshallah bel tawfiq... sigh im going to miss the welcome from you " salaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam zeytttttooooooooooon"

Shia_debater The gamer admin on shia chat lol May Allah s.w.t forgive all our sins and give us success over here and the hereafter

awesome answer :lol:

What you say is true, I know what you mean and yes in many cases it may not work due to the person but if one tries to follow the Ahlul Bayt (as) and strives to please Allah (swt) and tries to always be God Conscious then it would be better for them to swallow their anger than to act on it. One who is God Conscious will know that Allah (swt) will avenge what has happened for them inshaAllah and that the person will get what they deserve in the Hereafter. Just like How Imam Ali (as) was patient and did not go and avenge what happened to Bibi Fatima (as) and knew that what Allah (swt) does is sufficient for him. May Allah (swt) guide us all to think like this inshaAllah and allow us to always be aware of him and to be content with what He does for us

Sabbath and Abu Hurairah False Hadith Sabbath and Abu Hurairah false hadith the in Torah. According to abu Hurairah the Creation started on Saturday. Saturday in Judaism is the day rest and the day remembrance of God. The Day of Sabbath is well documented in the Holy Quran. Therefore, abu Hurairah is worng. According to the Torah the Creation started on Sunday, and not Saturday. Creation according to the Torah: The Torah consists of the first five books of the TaNaKh, the Old Testament, the Holy Bible. The first of these five books of Torah is called, "Genesis". Here is the Creation according to the Torah in Genesis: Chapter 1 http://lds.org/scrip.../gen/1?lang=eng God creates this earth and its heaven and all forms of life in six days—The creative acts of each day are described—God creates man, both male and female, in his own image—Man is given dominion over all things and is commanded to multiply and fill the earth. Chapter 2 http://lds.org/scrip.../gen/2?lang=eng The Creation is completed—God rests on the seventh day—The prior spirit creation is explained—Adam and Eve are placed in the Garden of Eden—They are forbidden to eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil—Adam names every living creature—Adam and Eve are married by the Lord. The Day of Sabbath, the Seventh Day, is in the Ten Commandments. The Commandment of Sabbath is as follows: Remember the sabbath day, and keep it holy. For six days you shall labour and do all your work. But the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God; you shall not do any work—you, your son or your daughter, your male or female slave, your livestock, or the alien resident in your towns. For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but rested the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day and consecrated it.

Pakistan's Hazara keep excelling despite their difficult situation

Another gem! Keep up the good work brother. Beautiful. It reminded me of this: (wasalam)

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Welcome to Shiachatmatch.com :Hijabi:

kaay... Forgiven... for now

UMAA and MC-- check Shia events and masjid-- check Shiamatch-- check Maulanas-- some of them, check Open to other nationalities-- check Don't worry about Syed vs non-Syed-- check (I hate it when people worry about this stuff, I've posted about it on Shiachat here, just searchfor my posts.) Dislike. I'm pro-education for both men and women. (This is a topic for another thread, so won't go into this here.) I'll let this slide because I know this stems from us having been on opposite sides on some threads.

you carry with your prayer because communication with Allah is the most important task . After you finish , you can go and see them

Nooo broo :( i dont want you to leavee :( ah i guess we all have to move on in life..life moves on too quick for my liking :mellow: one last time salaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam SD

(salam) bro make sure you always visit :(

i think we can conclude no one will be brave enough to reply back, because if they do, theyre going to be slaughtered of counter hadith points from around 20 shia brothers :)

We were wondering where you went. It seems you had to hide in shame after lack-luster performance by Farid. But you are back, it seems. Anyway, in case you missed one of my posts, the problem with the Sunni rijal system is that it is very unIslamic. The biggest enemies of Islam were deemed trustworthy. And hence their misguidance turned into Islamic teaching.

If speech is silver, then silence is gold - Imam Ali (as)

(salam) (bismillah) This hadeeth has been mistranslated too many times. No where in this hadeeth does it say waajib (I know he was giving the summary, but many others have added waajib in the translation), rather it says "And as for new events, return/consult the narrators of our traditions, they are hujjah upon you, and I am Allaah's hujjah upon them". How can you derive that hadeeth as proof for it being waajib? Asking scholars is not against the akhbaris, so this hadeeth would fall under the akhbari interpretation as well, which is "return/consult" the muhaddithoon (narrators of traditions). Also I wanted to add, the SAME hadeeth that is used to prove taqleed is the same hadeeth that talks about khums and it being "free" for the Shee`ahs until his (as) reappearance. وأما الخمس فقد ابيح لشيعتنا وجعلوا منه في حل إلى وقت ظهور أمرنا لتطيب ولادتهم ولا تخبث . “And as for al-khums, then it has been made permissible for our shee`ah, and they have been made free of it until the time of dhuhoor of our affair, so that their birds be made pure, and not impure” Aren't we the ones who get mad at Sunnis when they take one sentence out of the hadeeth? Then why is it okay to do it now? (salam)

Colonialism today is truly sponsored by Western fatcat, mega corporations (like the usury doing evildoer bankster thieves at JP Morgan), this is truly Colonialism 2.0.

There will be war. Men will practice haram acts. The war between men will produce female captives that will be traded as commodities. It'll be the survival of the fittest. The war will end up killing many men, returning the world to a gender balance. It's a natural process. If the opposite were to occur (lot more women), There won't be war, but there will be a lot more cat fights. Women will flirt a lot more. alimohamad40 will think he's in heaven

Sometimes I dont feel too bad about it. All these parties that took control , daa3wa,maajlis etc got voted in largely because of their previous opposition to saddam's regime and were represenative of the shia majority. They ran on an Islamic agenda, and if they choose to align themselves with the west I guess we have to respect that. Its alot like what we have here in the United States, I always hear how this country isnt a democracy but a 2 party system where the elite get voted in. Thats not exactly true though. If enough people fulfilled their responsibility (educating themselves and supporting the right candidates/parties), we wouldnt have the politicians we do today. But thats not happening because MTV and American Idol is more important to us than politics. So yes, the people do have more power than they think not only in the US but Iraq, Libya and elsewhere.

Cutting relations would be the only solution, but it's not going to happen. The sacked minister talked about saving US$1bn off a US$2bn contract. Say whoever replaced him won't do these money saving deals in the future. That's US$1bn that foreign companies will have to potentially give in kick-backs. Even a fraction of that is a huge amount of money. We're not just talking about one guy with a Swiss bank account getting a brown envelope, we're talking about entire ministries etc. being paid off in some shape or form. For some it will be paid attendance at "conferences" in the West, for others it will be training visits and so on. This is almost impossible to stamp out, Western countries have an almost impossible job doing it, so I am afraid there is almost no hope for a colonies such as Iraq and Libya.

Tashayyu???? Whilst there are many topics on this forum that slander and degrade our Marja's, especially Imam Khomeini and Imam Khamenei (ra), a topic such as this (which is in fact one of the fewest threads written with great efforts and with the intention of education the public mass) is edited and locked, then re-opened after unnecessarily editing out phrases that in no way conflict with the rules and regulations of this forum. I am afraid that this conduct does nothing but deflect and drive away our dear brothers who have great potential for serving the sect. If you, mods and admins, want Shiachat to turn into a playground for the malangs and akhbari's that are destroying the Shi'i sect, then you are on the right path. The way that you are acting is doing nothing but attracting such individuals, and repel those who are defending this sect and answering any misconceptions that are raised against it. La hawla wala quwata ila billah.