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I know the 1/3 of sehm il imam is there to keep our scholars and masjid improving and funded (with approval ofc).   after lots of reading I come across we need to pay khums on what we invest into an account , and in regards to 401k it would be 1/5 of what you contribute into it and growth and employer match isn't due until you pull it out and you come to your khums date and I found that al-ayn is accepted by my marja and I don't have to interact with a sheikh that would have a personal gain out of it. but this as far as I see it is just a bandaid to the issues I had... when I am 60-70 and want to pull money out how would I go about knowing how much I owe minus the amount I have paid already 5,10,15,20, 30 years prior ???   I don't doubt or question the knowledge of our scholars , but I've seen churches take advantage of donations, sunnis , and even Shia seyeds and sheikhs , they are people and each group has theft ... with all those types of accounts I mentioned and more , would our maraca in the middle east know the nuance of it ? heck even scholars and clerics in the west earn money differently and I don't imagine would have a deep understanding on how complicated the finances can be. I'm involved in my center , I donate and I've seen first hand how money influences speakers that come ... it's their occupation but what's the line ??? I've reached out to several sheikhs online, met with them physically , dms , texts, what'sapp , those in America and even from the Middle East, and not one had enough knowledge to help with this and just give generic guidance. finances are where personal and private , not even my family know, but to make my money halal I openly show and am an open book with them and still no help.   like I mentioned, I was recently laid off and I have bills, family , medical , and other expenses , without medical insurance just my medicine is thousands a month, I have a bit of savings and my chums date is soon, I am applying for jobs and work but the job market is horrendous at this moment ... ofc I will pay my khums but in my situation every dollar I have counts , do I have to deplete my savings , checking account, 401k , etc before I can say I'm in financial need ?  I understand the need and obligation of khums, but its a system I put into so much and as a seyed there's sehm il saada that from a religious standpoint is there for me, but practically if I need the organizations I have given my khums to won't give me when I'm in need.  shia I know don't pay khums for these reasons or less, there is no transparency or accessibility with this, we just have to trust a sit a marja mentions or their representative  and that's the extent of it. I'm willing to pay people to answer these questions and guide me , I don't own a home and the cost of living is just going up, and life just gets harder. money today is not the same as it was 1400-1700 years ago and we all treat it as giving khums is as easy as as counting gold coins.   please give me some advice , feedback , guidance ... and please don't look at my post as a reason to not pay khums , my frustration is with the lack of support not the religious obligation.
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