I do dua for you. I hope your situation get better. What your husband said was out of anger. It doesn't mean anything about you ans your believes.
Talk to him to resolve issues with the help of your local community scholar or online. I know that SABA community in California has online appointments, but it's English.
I make dua.
It's not a coincidence. It's a message in multitude of layers to humans seeking the truth. Why would Saint Mary appear in a place named Fatima? Only people who know the similarity between characters represented by these two names understand that, if this miracle is true, it's not a coincidence. Like verses of Quran which have multiple layers in them, while they speak about something at a time, they speak about other things in other layers simultaneously which can be uncovered by living with Quran. With knowledge, nothing becomes a coincidence, all happen in the realm of Takwin.