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No. 

It is not allowed(haram) as per the teachings of Our Prophet Muhammad(p.b.u.h) and Imams(a.s) and so the marriage is not valid

Also, in Islam the man is the Wakil (guardian) of his family. So he establishes the foundation of his family and future generations based on his values and beliefs.

If these values and beliefs are other than Islam, these values and beliefs will have a profound and negative impact on the entire family. Muslims are not allowed to take other than a muslim as their Wakil, as stated in the Holy Quran. 

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28 minutes ago, Abu Hadi said:

No. 

It is not allowed(haram) as per the teachings of Our Prophet Muhammad(p.b.u.h) and Imams(a.s) and so the marriage is not valid

Also, in Islam the man is the Wakil (guardian) of his family. So he establishes the foundation of his family and future generations based on his values and beliefs.

If these values and beliefs are other than Islam, these values and beliefs will have a profound and negative impact on the entire family. Muslims are not allowed to take other than a muslim as their Wakil, as stated in the Holy Quran. 

Hadiths please 

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2 hours ago, Zulfiqar Christian said:

Can a Shia girl marry me, a Christian boy? If not, why so? 

Salaam Alaykum brother

No. Shia girls cannot marry, permanent or temporary, non-muslim guys. There are a a certain rules in Islam that we call them Fiqh. Our religious scholars derive these rules after countless religious education in prophet and ahlulbait teachings, and we submit to whatever they tell us to do.

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Just now, AmirAlmuminin Lover said:

Salaam Alaykum brother

No. Shia girls cannot marry, permanent or temporary, non-muslim guys. There are a a certain rules in Islam that we call them Fiqh. Our religious scholars derive these rules after countless religious education in prophet and ahlulbait teachings, and we submit to whatever they tell us to do.

So sad to hear this.

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Salam Alaykum (peace be upon you),

Look into Islam, brother! On this website there are many people who can answer any questions you have, inquiries, etc..

Once you are Muslim, you are allowed to marry a shia girl. But right now, as stated above by @Abu Hadiand @AmirAlmuminin Lover, you cannot marry a Muslim woman. :grin:

 

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6 minutes ago, Hussaini624 said:

Salam Alaykum (peace be upon you),

Look into Islam, brother! On this website there are many people who can answer any questions you have, inquiries, etc..

Once you are Muslim, you are allowed to marry a shia girl. But right now, as stated above by @Abu Hadiand @AmirAlmuminin Lover, you cannot marry a Muslim woman. :grin:

I love and respect Shias

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2 hours ago, Zulfiqar Christian said:

Can a Shia girl marry me, a Christian boy? If not, why so? 

Maybe you should become a shia, brother!

Read about Imam Hussein and such! You can choose freely from the women that Allah created for us! Inshallah she will be pious as well!

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2 minutes ago, Hamodiii said:

Maybe you should become a shia, brother!

Read about Imam Hussein and such! You can choose freely from the women that Allah created for us! Inshallah she will be pious as well!

Thanks brother

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1 hour ago, Zulfiqar Christian said:

Hadiths please 

From Quran

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُواْ لاَ تَتَّخِذُواْ الْيَهُودَ وَالنَّصَارَى أَوْلِيَاء بَعْضُهُمْ أَوْلِيَاء بَعْضٍ وَمَن يَتَوَلَّهُم مِّنكُمْ فَإِنَّهُ مِنْهُمْ إِنَّ اللّهَ لاَ يَهْدِي الْقَوْمَ الظَّالِمِينَ (5:51

O YOU who have attained to faith! Do not take the Jews and the Christians for your Wali: they are but Wali of one another and whoever of you allies himself with them becomes, verily, one of them; behold, God does not guide such evildoers.

The word 'Wali' in Arabic is very similar in meaning to the word 'Wakil', which I mentioned in my post. Wali is someone who protects someone and helps them to carry out the essential aspects of life (such as giving them financial support, helping them with their relationship with God, etc). Sometimes this verse is mistranslated and people translate 'Wali' as 'Friend' meaning we cannot be friends with Christians or Jews. This is a wrong translation. We can be friends, coworkers, do business with them, etc, but we cannot make them our 'Wali' or 'Wakil'. This verse specifically prohibits that. 

وَالْوَالِدَاتُ يُرْضِعْنَ أَوْلاَدَهُنَّ حَوْلَيْنِ كَامِلَيْنِ لِمَنْ أَرَادَ أَن يُتِمَّ الرَّضَاعَةَ وَعلَى الْمَوْلُودِ لَهُ رِزْقُهُنَّ وَكِسْوَتُهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ لاَ تُكَلَّفُ نَفْسٌ إِلاَّ وُسْعَهَا لاَ تُضَآرَّ وَالِدَةٌ بِوَلَدِهَا وَلاَ مَوْلُودٌ لَّهُ بِوَلَدِهِ وَعَلَى الْوَارِثِ مِثْلُ ذَلِكَ فَإِنْ أَرَادَا فِصَالاً عَن تَرَاضٍ مِّنْهُمَا وَتَشَاوُرٍ فَلاَ جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَا وَإِنْ أَرَدتُّمْ أَن تَسْتَرْضِعُواْ أَوْلاَدَكُمْ فَلاَ جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ إِذَا سَلَّمْتُم مَّآ آتَيْتُم بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَاتَّقُواْ اللّهَ وَاعْلَمُواْ أَنَّ اللّهَ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ بَصِيرٌ (2:233)

2:233  And the [divorced] mothers may nurse their children for two whole years, if they wish to complete the period of nursing; and it is incumbent upon him who has begotten the child to provide in a fair manner for their sustenance and clothing. No human being shall be burdened with more than he is well able to bear: neither shall a mother be made to suffer because of her child, nor, because of his child, he who has begotten it. And the same duty rests upon the [father's] heir. And if both [parents] decide, by mutual consent and counsel, upon separation [of mother and child], they will incur no sin [thereby]; and if you decide to entrust your children to foster-mothers, you will incur no sin provided you ensure, in a fair manner, the safety of the child which you are handing over. But remain conscious of God, and know that God sees all that you do. -

This verse shows that it is the duty of the father (and noone else) to provide financially for the child and the mother. This means he is the Wali or Wakil. 

 

Here is another verse from Quran

1. The permissibility of a Muslim man marrying a woman from the ahl al-kitab (‘People of the Book’) is understood from the Qur’anic verse, “It is lawful for you to marry chaste Muslim women and chaste women of the People of the Book when you have given them their dowries.” (5:5)

According to most scholars, this verse specifies or abrogates a previous verse of the Qur’an (2:221) that prohibited men and women from marrying non-Muslim polytheists. The exception in Qur’an 5:5 was only extended to men and not to women as is clear. As such, the permission to marry the ahl al-kitab only extends to men. [al-Jassas, Ahkam al-Qur’an (2:15-20); al-Qurtubi, Jami li-ahkam al-Qur’an (2:453-57)]

From 

http://seekershub.org/ans-blog/2017/01/11/muslim-woman-not-allowed-marry-non-muslim-man/

I think this should be sufficient. There are additional hadiths on this, if you need additional proof. 

There are some scholars (such as Sayyid Sistani(may Allah(s.w.a) prolong his life)) who say that it is also not permissible for a muslim man to marry a Christian or Jewish women in permenant marriage (zawaj tul nikah). 

Also, this is not one of those issues where there is a difference between Sunni and Shia scholars. It is basically a universal opinion. 

Edited by Abu Hadi

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