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A good man's attitude

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Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;

If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

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On 1/21/2018 at 12:03 PM, Sisterfatima1 said:


A good man is someone who brings you closer to Allah and ahulbayt

Bismehe Ta3ala,

Wa Alikum assalam 

Sister, you described my dh.

God bless all our momineen brothers, fathers, husbands for having taqwa and leading their households with respect, love and eman.

M3 Salamah, FE AMIN Allah 

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The definition of "religious" is not what most people think of it to be.

I know of some religious people who have the most "narrowest of views" and their arrogance is just on another level.

If you want to find a good man - make sure he is not judgmental of others, doesn't backbite, doesn't misuse his tongue by swearing, doesn't crack racist jokes, doesn't expect you to be his servant and can control his anger.

In addition to all this, find a man who has a desire to seek Islamic knowledge - in this way you can both help each other.

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Too many so-called religious 'men' and 'women' who go to 'Majalis' but are terrible spouses and have terrible human values. 

It's more than just an outward show of religion, i know that enough.

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