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Being attrackted to the opposite sex

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Salam,

Is it haram to be attrackted to the opposite sex even though they are not doing the act? Like lets say that a girl is attrackted to other girls but she does not come near girls in any seksual matter. I was just thinking that some people can not control their feelings and what they are attrackted to. I mean Allah put that in them. But is it still haram just to have the thoughts in your head even if you still pretend to like guys? 

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A passing thought is outside of an individual's control, however, entertaining these thoughts is going to lead to sin, and is therefore haram. Also, a person should avoid putting themselves into situations where they are more likely to have these thoughts.

On 11/14/2017 at 2:31 AM, 5araName said:

I was just thinking that some people can not control their feelings and what they are attrackted to. I mean Allah put that in them.

Allah does not make a person homosexual or bisexual. There are genetic aspects, but it's caused by a combination of genetics, environment, and personal choice. 

If you're going to excuse homosexuality by saying "God made them that way" you may as well excuse violence and murder too: some people are more hot tempered than others.

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